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okay so i was gonna have sex with this boy jon (we'll say) but then we both decided we weren't ready and ever since we really haven't talked much. and every time i c him he always has another gurl over or sumthing and he just ignors me. how can i get him to open up to me again?
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try to talk to him about it and see what he says
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It sounds like Jon only liked you to get into your pants; if he didn't, he'd still be talking to you right now.
He is not the sort of guy you should be considering having sex with, as someone who really cared about you wouldn't be acting this way.
You can approach him and ask what's wrong - and then possibly get back into a friendship with someone who doesn't really care for you - or you can cut your losses and move on.
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well first of all...sex is something u gotta let happen on ur own, u cant force it... maybe this kid jsut wanted sex? who initiated they werent ready first?
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TALK TO HIM OR SUM
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bottom line..he's a player- he's probably telling every single one of those girls the same thing he's telling you...if i were you, i wouldn't give my virginity up to him...it's something sacred- i know it sounds corny and i always thought that but lately i've come to realize it more and more...you don't want to give something big like that up to someone worthless...like a player, who's going to use you and compare you like every other easy chick he gets....stick to what you want and don't sacrifice it to "get him back" or "Get him to open up to you"...if he's worthy- he will do it on his own..and he won't expect sex in return...good luck, hope i helped, let me know! :D
<3 elle
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first of all if ur younger then 17 u shouldnt be having sex yet and u should only have sex if it is a true person that would take a bullet for u
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MAYBE YOU SHOULD TALK TO HIM, AND TELL HIM HOW YOU FEEL AND SEE IF YALL HAVE A CHANCE OF GOING OUT BECAUSE YOU STILL HAVE FEELINGS FOR HIM. AND ITS PROBABLY HIM TRYING TO GET AT YOU AND ITS WORKING BUT YOU HOULD TALK TO HIM AND TELL HIM HOW YOU FEEL IF THINGS DONT CHANGE MOVE ON AND MIM SURE YOUR PRETTY ENOUGH TO GET SOMEONE SPECIAL!
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Well, "jon" might just be trying to make you a little jealous, maybe to make you think that you need him more then he needs you *which is probably totally opposite* But, you need to talk to him. and that sounds scary lol i know. but you need to tell him how you feel, and come right out and say that you dont like how he has other chicks all over him all the time. all i can really say is if it was meant to be, then it will happen again. Good Luck!!
x3LauRen
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call him and ask him how he feels about u and what happend to yall
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Just invite him over to your house with just you and him, or bring him to the movies with you
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obviously hes gay and isnt a good friend...but u shoudlnt be having sex until ur with a person for a long time and u trust the person and u think u might be with them for awhile...dont juss do it cuz ur pressured or u wanna look cool or anything, being a virgin's cool too ya kno =D
*jesikuh
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You know what, if you guys decided that you were not ready to have sex, and he ignored you after that, I don't think you guys really had a connection in the first place. What I mean by this is that you guys probably just were not right for each other. That can be a hard concept, and you think that you like the person that much, they have to be a good match for you. But thats not always so. Maybe you two deciding you were not ready was sort of a closure between you guys relationship. Maybe he is embarassed! But regardless, I do not know what he is doing with these girls. If he is having sex with them, he probably ignores you because he does not want you to know since he claimed that he was not ready. That may have been a kind way to tell you that he just was not interested. Since this guy seems to have a hard time showing his feelings, forget him. Oh, and any guy that ignores you is never worth going back to. You could try writing a letter telling him how you feel, I have done that, but if he does not answer dont be surprised. Also, if he denies ignoring you, and you know for a fact he is, try to forget him. Think of something else, and focus your energy on other things. If he replys and does show his true feelings, congratualations. If not, TRY to get over him. It's one of the hardest things in the world, and it has taken me as long as 6 months to get over guys after I know all is lost, but you can and will do it eventually.
Good luck!
-Mia
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My names Jon?!?! Aiight well, if u both werent ready... hes probably fellin regretful and insecure about bringin up the subject... if a guy gets turned down he gets a lil intimidated u kno? Just start over kind of by askin him how his days are and lil stuff like that to let him kno u care... then the whole sex thing will fade from his mind (not forever butt a lil) and he will kno that uve let it go... peace peace!
-Jon :-b (weird huh)
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how old r u?
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Well obviously you aren't ready... I regret my first. Well act yourself and tell him how you feel about him and be like why do you ignore me when i am with other gurls? Good Luck if u have nemore questions im me BeachGurl31187
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You just gotta jump in theRe! If you can eveR catch him alone... go up to him! OR simply call him and catch up! If all goes well, then you should make plans with him!! Goodluck, hope I helped!! =D
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