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ok this might be long. i went out with this boy a while back probably a year ago and we broke up because he kissed a girl. but he told me..and then like about a month ago his brother and my sister started going out. and they want to get married. ahh and this boy and me started talking again and i love him so much but he has a girlfriend. and i was going to go out with him but he said i showed no intrest in him. so last night i was talkin to my sisters bf and hes tryin to hard to keep me away from his brother hes sayin hes a player and hes going to hurt me. and all this shit. and i told him whatever i dont care i love your brother and he said you dont know what love is your a child. and im 16 and this boys 16. and i dont know it pisses me off so much because everytime i talk to the boy i love it reminds me how much i love him and i cant have him. and im trying SO hard to keep his brother from marrying my sister. what do i do? sorry if this doesnt make any sense. his brother is 18 and my sister 17 turnin 18 september 30. ( And if they get married then i wont be able to date his brother cuz we'll be inlaws. ) and my sister is considering NOT marrying him cause of me. please helP!!
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So your sister is willing to giving up on her boyfriend who loves her and who she loves and wanna get married? for you someone who loves someone whos taken by another girl? And if your sisters willing to give up on her boyfriend like that then they cant really be in love. And if your in love, try doing this all by yourself. Dont ask his brother dont ask your sister, YOU do it! And dont tell your sister to not get married if shes smart and loves him she wont care what you think. Sorry if i sound harsh but its the truth. If the guy you liked, liked you right now, and he too *loved* you then that would be diffrent and you'd have A BIG problem. But he doesnt cause hes got a GIRLFRIEND. Get it?
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personally..i don't think you're in love with this kid...you may love him like you love a lot of people but you aren't IN LOVE with him- which on the other hand..if your sister is getting married..she's IN LOVE..and if she doesn't get married to the guy that shes IN LOVE with all because of you...you will probably feel really guilty...your guy doesn't seem to be screaming for your attention and just dying to be with you just as you are dying to be with him....so maybe it's not meant for you guys- and that's what this marriage is probably saying- on the other hand your sister and her "man" are meant to be...supposedly and they want to get married...so if things aren't working out in your way- they are working in her benefit...and let it go that way don't make her sacrifice her dreams and love for you...for something you obviously can't have at the moment- for whatever reason that is...step aside and let fate play itself out...don't try to stop everything, because it's never going to work in your favor and you can never stop fate...you might just turn things around on yourself...good luck, hope i helped ...and let me know :D
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tell your sister, that shes way to young to get married, shes 18 and that him and her should only date for a while and then maybe later on concider it, and dont get in your sisters way with marriage! thats not very nice, she may love that guy and yours might only be a summer fling, who knows? but just try to listen to that guy, maybe he is right, maybe hes a player and doesnt want you to get hurt, hope everything works out <3
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Wow. This is definitly a rough situation. I would absolutely try to convince your sister to not get married, but NOT FOR YOUR OWN REASONS. if she's considering not marrying this guy because YOU like his brother, then your sister and her relationship with this guy isn't strong enough and she can get hurt. but I really suggest trying your hardest not to try to win this guy back, especially if you are told he's a player. I know that's not what you want to hear, but it's for the better!
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I think you should just try to forget about him. There's lots of other guys other there for you. He did cheat on you, yet you want him back? Believe be hun, there's way better guys out there, it just takes time. You should be happy for your sister. You shouldn't try and talk them out of something that they want to be in. Even though they are at a young age, but if they want to get marryed, they should.
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this is a difficult situation for you. I dont want to give you the wrong advice, but if your sister is happy then dont interfere. As for the other brother i think that he should keep his opinions like that out of the conversation and let you decide for youself if his brother is right for you or if he isn't. As for him saying you don't know what love is, what makes him think he does? hes only 2 years older then you, not much of a difference so what makes him so advanced in this subject? I hope i helped a little
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