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ok well these girls i dont no keep instant messangeing me sayin that im fat and ugly because they saw a picture of me on my profile and they say all these mean things to me and im not the kind of girl who can take stuff like that and everyone tells me oh dont worry about them ur pretty and all that but i cant just ignore them they go to my school now too
someone please help me figure out something to do
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hey these chicks dont have anything better todo than talk about youa dn make fun of you?? what losers! well you can block them and now that they go to your school ignore them, making fun of them back wont do anything. your friends will be right by you and it doesnt matter what these freaks have to say.
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you could just block them for starters.
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If it's AIM then block them and avoid them, because whoever it is is a plain old jerk and u don't wanna be around 'em. Do they tell u ur fat n ugly at school? Cuz if they don't stop u may need to tell the counsler if it bothers u that much- but otherwise u should just tell urself, their the ugly ones. I hope everything works out okay! Don't worry hun- I'm sure u aren't ugly or fat!
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If its on AIM (AOL instant messaging) theres a block option. Ativate this for these users and they will be unable to IM you further.
This option is probably on other services too. I know MSN has it.
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Hello =) Since you don't even know these people, who cares what they think. I'm sure they are sitting at home and are fat but have to bring it out on other people. Just block them. Don't worry about it, just listen you your friends - I'm sure you are pretty =P I hope I helped :) If you need anything, drop one in the inbox <3 Steph
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People who like to put others done aren't happy with themselfs. They bully around others just to make themselfs look good and boost their confidence! They're the ones shitting themselfs. Just keep ignoring them, they need a life.
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I kno its hard to ignore it and it really doesnt work but just act like it doesnt faze u just be like LMFAO and theyll get bored of it and leave u alone
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block them and think of urself highly, dont let n e one tell u who u r!
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Dear Bullied,
I would just block these girls. By blocking them, they can't IM you anymore, and you can't IM them. It pretty much eliminates contacting each other on IM. If this doesn't work, talk to a counselor about your problems at school. They'll talk to the girls and get everything worked out for you.
Hope that helped!
-Dear Britney
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try not 2 let them bother u that much and maybe take the picture off ur profile. i have people say i am ugly and stuff 2 and it hurts i know how u feel. and everyone says just don't worry about it when u really can't cuz it was already said and it hurts and u can't really forget it. but i would say take the picture down for starters and just keep ur head up and find friends that will b there for u that u can talk 2 cuz that always helps :) i hope i helped and u can ask me ne ? u have ne time *STEPHANIE*
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it is hard to block out what someone says and feel perfectly okay with it! i know that for sure! but just remember you are who you are because of whats inside--i know that sounds lame but its true! as long as you are yourself people will love you! and anyone who doesnt is real ignorant! but if you see them in the hall just act like nothin happened and wave..maybe they will get over being mad at you! well i hope this helped! =]
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Hey, its ok! do u not know who they r? give me there sn and ill tell them to leave u alone.. lol but for real if theyre soo pathetic that they cant even reveal themselves then wtf? it could be some random nine yearold with multiple personalities, and sns so honestly till theyre not chicken enough to tell u who they r then dont think sooo much about it.. if its really bothering u tooo badly then u could contact aol and find out! hope it works out
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Well if you want it to stop for good you need to tell someone because that is harrasment and they can get into some serious trouble. Dont be afraid to tell. They need to be stopped. Good luck
-holly-
hope i helped
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tell these girls that your too good for their crap and you don't care (even if you do) and if that doesn't work, find something about them to piss them off. worse comes to worse, yo mama jokes are always good.
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ive had a problem like that before .. and i know just ignoring them if almost physically impossible! but you can do it .. they probably arent great looking anyway and their doing this to "get a rise outta you". just laugh at them
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Just dont act like you care...i mean dont show them that you care because they'll think they have some sort of control over you, just ignore them i guess.
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Yes, delightfully plump also so i know ur problem .I could say dont listen to them but the problem would still go on and u would hate me and i cant take that boo hoo!So what i think you should do is block them on your buddy list and as for the school problem tell the principal or tell the teachers to keep them away . But before tell them to knock it off or you will tell the principal for harrassment . You got to know that this is wrong and you wont stand for and tell them that also!
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Well, i have the sasme problems sometimes in school and online. It happens to a lot of people. Online, you can always block the screen names so you aren't bothered by them. In school, your right, you can't ignore them, but you can always go to a teacher or a guidance counsler if your school has one. They can help you deal with them, and possibly talk to the bullies themselves. I wouldn't try to handle things by yourself though. That could lead to some sort of violent fight which is something you don't want at all. So my best suggestion is to block them online like i sai before... or talk to a teacher or guidance counsler when school starts. Actually, I've heard that if you are able to take the insults in and just say things like " thanks" after they insult you.. they'll get frustrated to find out its not fun to pick on you anymore..
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they are mean girls to do this to you!! They are probably jealous of how pretty you are. They have no lives and remember that you are better than them because i assume you wouldn't do this to someone..If it really becomes a problem you should tell a parent or someone you trust .
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In all seriousness - blow them off. Ignore them. Don't give them the time of day. They are getting their jollies off of irritating you. The more you let it bother you, the more they are happy and will keep doing it. Don't address them, don't ackowledge them. Blow them off.
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