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My parents completely ignore me. All the things that i do are never noticed or good enough for them. They are always too busy with work so they don't notice any of my accomplishments. Last week i tried something to get thier attention. I drastically colored my hair to see if they would notice. They said it looks ok and walked away. What can i do to get them to notice me? (link)
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my answer is much like the other answer on here.. just try talking to them. if you eat dinner together.. talk to them then. dont rebel though. it causes nothing but more anger and frustration for you. trust me. i've done it before with my mom because it seemed she stopped caring. it just turns out bad if you do stuff just because they dont care and you want them to do anything to prove they care.
idk what your parents do for a living, but they should never be too distracted to pay attention to their own child. like the other answer said.. find something to do with them. go out bowling one night, or mini-golf or something. ... if that doesnt work, just try to talk to them whenever you can... if nothing seems to work though.. dont blame yourself. whatever you do... do not blame yourself. its not at all your fault. keep your head up and it'll be okay.
hope i helped.
-ann marie.
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My girlfriend is cutting herself,she has been doing it for about a year.She is not as bad as she was but she is starting to think about it more and more,she says she is addicted and she doesnt know if she can stop, and she really wants/needs help.I dont know wat to do or say.What can i do to help my girlfriend? (link)
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first off.... u can take al of her razors away from her.. so she doesn't have much to cut with... it worked with my best friend...then if u wanna talk to her.. just talk to her baout openly, but if you don't, i'd say bring her to an adult that u both really trust...
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This may sound pretty gross, but I'm 12 and I masterbate. I just use my fingers and I don't finger myself, but I haven't gotten my period yet. Does this mean I did something that'll make it so I don't ever get my period, or will I get it and does masterbating mess my "lower parts" up if I just use my fingers?
Sorry if this is really gross I just really need to know, and Mods please don't delete this I'm very concerned... (link)
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hey.. don't worry if u didn't get ur period yet. Im sure you didn't mess anything up. Some girls just don't their periods till their like.. 14-16. It all depends. One thing that may help u fire out a good time when u'll get ur period is ask ur mom how old she was when she first got hers. usually, u'll urs around 2 yrs from that... younger or older.... it was that way for me.
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Can Sex keep you in shape? (link)
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well....maybe cuz ur doin a lot of movin around but personally i really dont think so....
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hi im in 9th grade right and on fri this boy asked me if i got back. which i have no idea what that meanslol. i know pathetic. but i didnt wanna sound like a complete moron so i said yes i have back and uh he got all happy lol. so my question is what does baby got back mean lol? (link)
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it meens u have an ass. a nice ass...
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where do u think is a good place 4 a ffirst date?? ( romantic) (link)
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personally i think the perfact place for a first date would be tha movies. if u really liek tha guy u can do w/e u want ;). and if he turns out to be a loser when he tries to make a move u can always pull away and tell him ur watchin tha movie.
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lol, ok, i kno this is dorky and all but, how do u french kiss??? i mean i've always wonder, u kno, like what do u do....lol, i kno, i kno, this is a stupid question (link)
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lol...ok...its not all that hard. when u get ur first french kiss just go w/ tha flow. i didnt kno how to do it either when it first happend to me but i cought on really quickly. and im sure u will too. liek i sed its not all that complicated. ull get what i meen whan u acttually do it....
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Hey everyone! I have a problem. There's this guy I like, and i like him alot. Last year we were in all the same classes, but this year we're not in any together. How do I get him to not forget about me? Thanks for your help! (link)
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well if u guys r close palls then i think that u should call him and hang out more often. and if ur not that close thjen u should hang out w/ him at lunch or soemthin. or get his # and hang out after school. or if u have anyof the same friends u guys can all go out 2getha 4 liek a movie or somthin....hope i helped at least a lil...
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A boy deep kissed(first kiss) me and i am very paranoid about catch HIV through kissing, but should i be worried? (link)
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its good that ur beein catiouse and everything but i think u should be a lil less paraniod. i meen seriousely not that many ppl have HIV. and if they did and they knew it and they cared enough bout u that tey wanted to kiss u then they would def. tell u bout it 4 ur sake. or atleats back away or make ^ an excuse or soemthin....
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well through out my life i have always been pretty sad and thinking how ugly i am when people all the time say im so pretty and everything i just dont belive it well anyways i never seem to be happy about anything and i dont know what to be happy about i guess im sorta depressing but love being happy and smileing but i never seem to feel that why ever can you tell me some things i should be happy about cause i dont know anything and i dont wanna turn gothic? (link)
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i use to feel the same way. I always think im ugly but everyone says i look pretty good... i don't like to believe them.. so i don't. But... i was always sad about everything too.. everything i did.. saw.. ppl i knew.. and i found out y. What ever u were happy about before.. try goin back to those things that made u happy before. It may be the ppl u hang out with.. if they are always sad and depressed too.. that could be the problem..that was the problem for me.. i found it best to get away from them ppl for awhile, and it worked... i am a lot happier than i was... sooo maybe it might work for you too....
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I am a week into my freshman year at college. I am so stressed out as to how I am going to get all of my work done and still have time to relax. All of my professors have been saying to come up with a daily schedule and when I did, I don't know if I will be able to fit my homework in just four hours. What do I do? Any advice will be appreciated as to what to do and how to deal with it. My major is Music Education. Thanks!!
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well...idk how much i could help u cuz im only goin into 8th grade but here i go ne way...i think that u should take study hall and try to sqeeze in as much HW as possible. then i think u should try to take it easy...realx a bit... ur way stressed. id say take a day off but that would make it even worse so DONT! umm...the schedule thing prolly wont work cuz whats the point of havin 1 if u have no time... sry i wasnt a bigger help...
-x-Anna-x-
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ok...hope u can help me. I went over 2 my best guy frends house 2 pick him up cuz we were goin 2 the park n i met his really hot frend. I flirted with him a lot and i put my # in his cell...neways...he called me that nite n then a week l8er he asked me out n i said yes. Then about 2 weeks l8er i kalled him n broke up with him sayin that we needed more time 2 get 2 kno each other cuz we didnt really kno each other... its been a lil while now n ive been finding out that 2 of my frends (not really close but we kno each other) kinda like him n i like him agen 2 n i think he still really likes me 2...i kinda wanna go out with him agen but i dont kno what 2 do! plez help me! thank you! (link)
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i think that you should tlk to ur "close guy friend" bout him and then have him tell the hot guy that u still like him...then u should tlk to him urself....and if u 2 get all flirtty and giggly u should ask him out again....
hope i helped...
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ok well i have this one friend and she used to get high and drunk and all that and she was really suicidal. i mean she was in the hospital for like 2 weeks. and then i had to talk her out of it again. but then she went edge and didnt do it at all and punched one of the kids who tryed to get her to. but now shes doing it again and its really scaring me. i mean she lives about an hour away from me so i cant really keep an eye on her or anything. and i dont see her much either but we used to be best friends and now were just good friends i guess. i dont like it when she does this but i cant stop her. i dont know what to tell her so she understands how i feel about this. please help! (link)
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well... i know exactly how u feel... im in the exact same situation right now.. only my friend didn't start again.. but she lives an hr away.. and all that.. but anyway.. u just gotta talk to her a lot. Ask her why shes doin it.. but dont ask her right away.. have her gain ur trust.. and let her open up to you slowly. If u rush the questions.. they'll never get answered. im not exactly sure how i helped my friend out.. but we just formed this REALLY strong bond with each other.. and after we became the best of friends... she couldn't stand the thought of her getting drunk and cuttin....because of me gettin upset. Also if u wanna help her.. if she perhaps cuts or w.e....take away all the blades or w.e she uses bcuz of that fact that shes suicidal. It worked for my friend... she hasn't done it since. ..so just tryin talking to her about and maybe try to get her involved in some sport or hobby that makes her happy.. so she can do it to take her mind off of some stuff... thats what i did and it helped a lot too.....
hope i helped!!!
**ann~marie**
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i really like this guy but he is 2 years younger than me. my friends think its not right and i get really hurt. should i be wrong to like him or should i ignore my friends? im very short so im just a tiny tiny bit taller than him. hes the sweetest guy in the world though. please help me thank you i rate :) (link)
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its not wrong to like someone younger or older than you. It's not col to have ur friends pressure you like that, but there is definitly no reason to not like him, just because of the 2 year age difference. If you like him for who he is, then thats all that should matter. I know couples that are ten years apart... age doesn't really matter... as long as you like them and are happy with them.....
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My friend just told me today.. that she ALWAYS throws up after she eats. As much as I'd love to help her, I just dunno what to say. Cuz she might get mad. I don't want anything bad to happen to her. The past couple days shes been telling me that shes been haveing bad stomach pains and she feels sick ALL THE TIME. I wanna help her, I don't wanna make her mad and say the wrong thing though. Should I just forget about it, and let her live her life the way she wants it? What would you do? Please I need help.. =(
*amYy.. my AIM sn is NaInErZzZ (link)
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definitly don't let it go. People can get real sick from being bilmeic! You should talk to her about it first... ask her if there is anything u can do that would convince her to stop. You can also tlak to someone like an adult u really trust. If your scared your friend will find out ur talking about her to someone.. then u can ask the person to keep it between u and tehm for now.. until u feel like u have a plan to help her or something... hope i helped.. if i did.. you can always leave one in my inbox!
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i really love my hair being long but i sort of wanna cut it up to my shoulders so it looks thicker and just i think it'd look cute! but im scared that i'll hate it. should i play it safe and keep my hair long? my hair takes forever to grow. (link)
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I think you should cut it! It's not always fun to play things safe. For me, i can never just get a trim... there is usually something drastic done with my hair...and sometimes i end up hating it.. but oh well... if you hate the way ur looks... u can always experiment different ways to put it so that u do like it...and who knows... maybe u won't like it.. but other people might... its a chance u gotta take...
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ok well these girls i dont no keep instant messangeing me sayin that im fat and ugly because they saw a picture of me on my profile and they say all these mean things to me and im not the kind of girl who can take stuff like that and everyone tells me oh dont worry about them ur pretty and all that but i cant just ignore them they go to my school now too
someone please help me figure out something to do (link)
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Well, i have the sasme problems sometimes in school and online. It happens to a lot of people. Online, you can always block the screen names so you aren't bothered by them. In school, your right, you can't ignore them, but you can always go to a teacher or a guidance counsler if your school has one. They can help you deal with them, and possibly talk to the bullies themselves. I wouldn't try to handle things by yourself though. That could lead to some sort of violent fight which is something you don't want at all. So my best suggestion is to block them online like i sai before... or talk to a teacher or guidance counsler when school starts. Actually, I've heard that if you are able to take the insults in and just say things like " thanks" after they insult you.. they'll get frustrated to find out its not fun to pick on you anymore..
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