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how to stop my girlfriend to stop cutting herself
My girlfriend is cutting herself,she has been doing it for about a year.She is not as bad as she was but she is starting to think about it more and more,she says she is addicted and she doesnt know if she can stop, and she really wants/needs help.I dont know wat to do or say.What can i do to help my girlfriend?
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sit her down and talk to her give her in intervention if needed show her what she is doing to her sealf,tell her u will dump her or some thin if she dose not stop. and if she is sliting her rist u have BIGGER problems.
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I seen this on a show once. Have her put rubberbands on her wrists and everytime she thinks about wanting to cut have her snap the rubberbands this might help but if it doesnt then take her to the counsler at your school.
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wow, you are a great boyfriend to be going this far to be helping your girlfriend out. good for you. my advice is to tell her that it's hurting you when she does that to herself. tell her that you don't want to see her hurting herself anymore and that you love her (if you do) and cant stand to see her doing that. if all else fails talk to her parents... in return you'll gain her parents trust and get her help at the same time. she needs to go see a psycologist. i had the same problem... i was addicted to it and i couldn't stop. going to therapy was the best thing for me... if she's hurting so bad tell her to write her feelings down. whenever i see a question like this i always tell the person to write. just write everything you're feeling. also... let her know that you are always there for her. Hope i helped. keep me updated on how she's doing!! good luck hun!
..::..emily..::..
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yaa - LOl. . just take the stuff away frum herr - tell her make sure she knows what can happen from it that she could die and all that -- tell her how much she means to yu .. nd maib start her on a new habbit -- and what ever you do don't leave herrr -- if you do she will cut worsee -- LOl i used to cut .. my boyfriend broke up with me cuz of itt - and i almost died w/1 cut i had to qo to the hospital and everythinq -- oh -- also find out whats so wronq in her life that she needs to cut ?? lOl sorrii hope'd i hellped
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first off.... u can take al of her razors away from her.. so she doesn't have much to cut with... it worked with my best friend...then if u wanna talk to her.. just talk to her baout openly, but if you don't, i'd say bring her to an adult that u both really trust...
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heyy hun
take her 2 a conselor bc she can die from an infectin or sumthing. so take her 2 get help.
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Hi, why do you talk to your girl friend or try getting her to see a cousiler to help her
dont presure her be care and try doing it slow dont rush it all
just talk to her and ask her why she doing it and why she thinks it will help
luv roxie
xxx
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I totally understand what your gf is going through. If she wants help, she should go to a counselor or even tell parents. Good luck! I know it isn't easy to stop, but your girlfriend should think about how many people love her and care about her...It's what helped me at difficult times *WINK WINK*
~Cayd
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