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gurl im dating
ok...ive gone on three dates that were awesome, i thought so and so did my date. i got my first kiss onthe third date and i thought everything was going awesome. but she got out of a 2 yr relationship 3 months ago and still considers her ex her best friend along w/ another guy as her best friend. me and her were messin around and she like gave me a nipple twister when she was layin on me so i flicked her boob and it freaked her out...she like made this wierd face and i said sorry cuz she didnt like it...we kissed l8r that night. then the next day she showed up at my work with the guy that she considers her best friend, not her ex though, and she was like in a bad mood that i l8r found out was cuz i flicked her boob and she wanted to make me feel bad about it. she waited for me outside the front door so when i would get off work we could make up...but i park inteh back for work so i didnt know till she called askin where i was and i didnt wanna talk to her neways cuz she was bein mean to me. we got over it l8r on, and the next day she wanted to come up to c me, but she said that she spent the day w/ her ex, so i got pissed and jealous and told her that she shouldnt come and c me. then she said i was an ass to her, so today i apoligized by surprising her with roses. am i in trouble here likin this gurl with her havin her ex and another guy as her best friends? i dont really want to think that i wasted my first kiss on a gurl that doesnt care about me, cuz she used to say taht i was so awesome and so unlike her ex bf and taht taht was a good thing. plz help, thx.
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hey this gurl soundz like she really likes u, i mean if she didnt why would she wait 4 u in front of ur work and y would she try so hard 2 make ur reltaionship work... so what if she has guy friendz thatz normal so if u really like this gurl u gotta except her and her friendz (even if itz her ex n another guy) or just tell her how u feel about it communication alwayz workz good luck with her it soundz like u guyz will get through it <3walla
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heyy hun
b relli open 2 her and tell her how u feel. apologize again. dont wry bc she friendz w. her ex. theyre jus friendz.
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Ok here is what you do. Be completly open to her. Apologize again. Don't get jelous. I don't think she is mad about the flicking anymore. I think its the way you acted when you wanted to "make up". Anyway just keep apologizing, if she likes you, she will eventually get back together with you.
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It's ok for a girl in a relatioship to have guy friends. It is not ok to use them like pawns in a chess (or chest ha ha) game. I can't see holding a grudge against a guy for doing one little thing that he already apologized for. I mean if you kept doing it after she said or indicated you to stop, then she could pull all of this garbage. She is just a jerk. I am sorry she was your first kiss, but there are plenty more girls out there that aren't frogs.
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well she seems like she doesnt like you no offense thats just how it seems and also i think that you guys should be friends not like boyfriend and gurlfriend if shes gonna keep doing this crap its okay for her to have her ex and her friend as best friends but still she seems like shes using you
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