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My Best Friend
Im 14 my best friend is 16, we're both sophmores lately shes been annoying me, she has to be perfect in everything or she trys at least, I told her when I was in summer school this guys friend asked me if Id go out w his friend and yesterday she called me and said I talked to him about it I mean shouldnt she be keeping this I tell her to herself and then she doesnt treat me like a best friend, she ingores me and leaves me but when no ones their thats when she talks to me, last is when guys like her or even look at her she keeps saying it over and over like braggin...IS THEIR ANY WAY I CAN TELL HER TO STOP WITHOUT SOUNDING RUDE OR JEALOUS? If so please help me asap! Thanks!
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be up front. tell her, im not hating, but u need to stop. u sound like a hoe when u talk about all these guys drooling on u. And um, your neglecting me! sumetimes u have to be upfront. Dont let them her just walk over hyou if you need to get a new best friend!!1
XoxO Alissa-Marie
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SHE LIKES YOU ,OBVIOUSLY.
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what you need to do is talk to her. its the only way you'll get a straight answer. talk calmly and not screaming or anything. and about how she tries to be perfect, some people are just like that and like to do the best they can at things, so i would suggest not talking to her about that because it might make her think that you dont like her being good at things when all she does is try to be her best. invite her over your house and go up to your room. dont do it online or on the phone because then she could just sign off or hang up. tell her exactly how you feel but dont make it sound like shes the bad guy and DONT be like u think your so great at everything and u try to be so perfect. say something like "the past few weeks i've been feeling a little left out. maybe we could talk and hang out more in school. also next time can you try to keep things i tell you to yourself because i wanted the whole deal about that guy to be private." also make sure you tell her that she is best friend and will always be.
hope i helped!
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