Around the beginning of July, I went into a chatroom and met this boy. I know meeting people online is a bad thing but this is different. Lets call the boy I met "Jim". Ok Jim is turnin 15 very soon and I'm turning 14 very soon. Jim lives in Connecticut and I live in New Hampshire. He is the most sweetest and kindest person I have ever known and met in my life. I sometimes talk to Jim on the phone (passed 9pm on my cell phone so I don't have to pay lol). He is so hot lol. Well anyways, he flirts with me all the time online like he'll say "cough cough you're hot" or "guess what? you're hot" and he'll say sweet and kind things too. I think he likes me but there's just one problem, he likes another person. Jim says I am hotter and have a better personality than her. I don't know what to do like I'm not the type of girl who will ask a guy if they have feelings for me. I think he likes me because he wouldn't say sweet and kind things and he always flirts with me. He's not a player so don't say "he's only saying that to get in my pants" lol. I like Jim as a great friend but I don't know if I like him. I flirt with him sometimes but when he flirts with me, I get these feelings inside of me that makes me wanna like me. Like I said before, I don't know what to do. Please help me lol. Thanks for those of you who are taking your time to read this and might wanna answer this lol.
Additional info, added Friday August 13 2004, 8:54 pm: My cousin asked this question and she put in fake ages. She found out my password so she asked this question. Ughh now people think its me but its not.. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? SilentHelper answered Saturday August 14 2004, 12:39 am: Hello. "Jim" seems perfectly harfull and really into you. I mean, do you really think that a guy of fifteen years old would flirt with an online girl when he can just go and be with any girl near him or the girl he likes? NO WAY... unless he likes you, that is. This guy must have feelings for you, even though he still likes someone else. She's near, you're far... However there's deffinately no harm in asking him to express his feelings, because there are most likely more than just friendly relations going on between you two. Thank you for you're time and if I didn't help, then I wish you luck.. Ask me anything anytime or IM me anytime... Good Day.
BeezKneez answered Friday August 13 2004, 8:15 pm: I know u like him, and how sweet he is, but the truth is, u barely know him! Sure u know him online and on the phone, but u don't know him in person. Just knowing him online and on the phone it's hard 2 get 2 know sum1 cuz u don't know whether or not they are lying. Maybe 1 day u guys will find out u were meant 4 eachother or w/e... but 4 right now, especially since he likes sum1 else and that u guys haven't even met, u should just keep everything on the down low and try not 2 get 2 attached 2 him yet. Good luck tho! [ BeezKneez's advice column | Ask BeezKneez A Question ]
xhunniebunchx answered Friday August 13 2004, 8:00 pm: hey! i know it hard cause u like him but do dont even really know him! and even if he did like you how would a relationship between you ever work out?? i think he would make a good person to talk to on-line but i dont think you should want more than that and i dont think that you should meet him either cause you just never know. just stay the way you guys are now!! good luck! hope i helped! [ xhunniebunchx's advice column | Ask xhunniebunchx A Question ]
xoxerin03xox answered Friday August 13 2004, 7:56 pm: okay have you even met this kid? and if you haven't he could be like 40. i know you've probly heard that alot but many times online people pretend to be someone they aren't. and if you have met him he likes someone else! you need to get over him and anyways he sounds like a loser to me. [ xoxerin03xox's advice column | Ask xoxerin03xox A Question ]
Derfel answered Friday August 13 2004, 7:11 pm: Dear god, what a load of trash you have taken the time to post. 'Cough cough your hot' - what ? - is he 15 going on two and a half. You know if you got a life and a grip on realty you may find you don't need to concern your self with this whole load of ridiculousness. Also your English is dreadful - 'most sweetest', for gods sake!
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