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what should i do?
ok well i have this one friend well she's more like my best friend but anyways there was some bad shit going on in my family and i didn't know how to handle it and well so i cut. and i meen now she's soooo mad at me for doing that when i told her i would neevr do it again like 50 times. but it just helps you feel better! what should i do i really don't want to loose my friend anymore then i alreayd have!
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well, sometimes wen ur angry u cut probably cuz ur so mad u want to hurt someone but u kno there will be consiquences so u hurt urself instead. U shud think about wat ur doing i mean those scars will be with u for the rest of ur life. so maybe try doing something else to control ur anger instead of cutting.
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Well, if you are seriously not going to cut yourself anymore, then tell her that! But if you are, do not lie to her. I am not going to tell you what to do, but my advice is to not cut. I did that shit, and it only leads to more inward pain.
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okay well i have a question how does it feel good to make yourself bleed and put scars on your body? and i understand how she is mad at you but you just have to tell her what was going on and well what i would say was it was the wrong thing to do but you might not think that so just tell her what you feel
hope i helped
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ppl use rubberbands on their rist... when they feel they need to cut instead of cutting they pull on the rubberbands. cuttings bad and i think you should try this because i thinl it does help alot of ppl. i hope you dont loose your friend because your cutting.
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Sit her down and explain to her that you were just going thru tough times, and you shouldve came to her to talk instead.
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your friend should be there to help and support you, i understand y shes mad, cuz ive gotten mad when my friends have cut. but, she still shouldnt not be friends with you because of it, cuz she needs to realize that shes making everything even harder for you. you need to talk to your friend and tell her that u need her to be there for you since you're going through a hard time in your life. hopefully she'll understand. hope i helped! <33 Jordyn
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she has a right to be mad at you! and the only reason she is is because she cares about you and she doesn't want anything bad to happen to you, you're not going to lose her! just say the only reason you did it was because you had all this really bad stuff going on and you didnt have anyone to talk to. ask her if you can talk to her about it, it will make you both feel better and hopefully prevent you from doing that again! make some kind of promise between you both that when you have the urge to hurt yourself you will call the other one to make you feel better instead of going through with it! hope i helped if u need ne thing just let me kno!
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Sounds exactly like my friend. If you aren't going to stop then don't say it either-it makes you even more mad that you lied. You shouldn't do it-its not good at all. Try to stop. If you can't please get help. If your friend id really your best friend though, she shouldn't just not be your friend anymore, she should help. But try to stop it's serious and she's probably mad because she doesn't want to see you get hurt and she cares about you! well hope i helped :) good luck
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Your friend has a reason to be mad at you. Cutting yourself is very serious - and you should stop! It may help you feel better, but there are other things that help you feel better than self-mutalation. Try writing out your feelings in a diary or as lyrics to a song or poem. It makes you feel a heck of a lot better, without damaging yourself.
The only reason your friend is getting really mad at you is because she doesn't want to witness you hurting yourself. She loves you! Tell her that you're so glad that you're friends with her and so grateful that she's looking out for you and by your side.
If you need more advice - just ask me! =)
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Hi. i understand what you are going through. let her kno that you didnt mean to tell her and hurt her feelings...i kno that i would get mad if my friend cuts but she's not mad at you...she's mad at herself for not being able to help you. talk to her about...ask her why she feels that way so you both kno whats going and see how it works...and promise me too never do it again too...i'm sure there are other ways to make it feel good then to cut...eat candy! lol jut dont cut..Take Care..Hope I helped! x3 SweetStar.
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if you are reading this again...why can't you promise not to do it again? even tho i dont kno you i dont want you to end up cutting and then hurting yourself more...it hurts to hear that you are having a problem and i cant and dont kno how to help...find something else but cut...let it out and cry dont cut..please...if want we can talk...im me inbox email wutever..talk to me... =/
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Try to quit cutting yourself. Do it for your friend if you don't wanna lose her.Try to forget the family problems.Hang out with her more often.
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she's probably mad because she doesn't understand how you could do that to yourself - so explain it to her! let her know that you've realized why it's a really bad thing to start tho...also, she may be mad because you resorted to cutting yourself instead of talking to her - so show her that you want her help by talking to her about cutting!
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