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What color skinny jeans look good with a blue t-shirt? (link)
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Dark wash jeans are always good--they make any outfit look pulled together!
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ok what is the age to start baby- sitting? and how much should i ask for them to give me and hour?
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13 is probably a good age to start. However, it really depends on your maturity level AND your comfort level. Make sure that you know what to do in certain situations and make sure feel competent as a babysitter before starting! Also, I would say 5-6 dollars an hour starting is probably good.
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what do girls like a guy to wear (link)
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It depends on the person!
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im 13 in the 8th grade and ive never had a b/f. the guy that i like keeps on saying that he dosent like me.
is there something wrong with me? (link)
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No silly. There is nothing wrong with you. You are barely even a teenager! You have PLENTY of years to start dating...you'll be fine:)
-Amy
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hey...this is gonna be pretty long im guessing so ill rate 5's to whoever takes the time to answer this..thanks.
Okay..so i met this guy who i fell totaly inlove for and cared about him sooo much. he knew that i was moving to a different country soon, and it started affecting our relationship badly. one night we got in a fight and were on the verge of a break up after i found out he told people he dindt like me anymore. i called him up and told him im comming to him as a source of it all and i need to know if he still likes me or not, and that i dont want him to lie to me , or fuck with me, just tell me the truth. well that night he never gave me a straight out answer if he still liked me or not, he was really quiet, and every time id cuss he would ask me to stop cussing. but i jsut kept on yellin and crying and tellin him i cared a lot, and i just need the truth, then ill leave him alone if thats what he wants. well he said he had a lot to say but he needs to figure it out nad he'll call me back. i said okay. this was around 11 at night or so. but he dindt call for like 2 hours, and i got worn out and tired so i went to bed. he called around 5, but i dindt pick up cuase i was sleepin and my phone was on silent so i missed it. i keep thinking to waht if that was the call that would fix my relationship with him. the next day, i called him back but he wasnt home. I called my "bst friend" and aksed her what she was up 2, and if she wasnt busy i needed to talk to her (i wanted to tell her hwat happened) and she goes "oh actually im just with ur boyfriend right now nad we're just chillin with some other people" I had NO problem with that whatsoever caust i trusted her completely with everything i had..and it takes a long time to gain trust with me cuase i been backstabbed way too many times..so this gurl had my trust completely, and i trusted my boyfriend and i understood that maybe he needded some time to think things over and stuff..well my best friend, all the guys think shes one of the hottest girls ever, and pretty and perfect and eveyrthing..blah. anyways, my boyfriend calls me from my best friends cellphone later on that night and i pick up and he talks to me and hes like "hey....im really sorry but i dont think we shuld be together anymore..u cna hate me if u want, u hvae every right to, but i still wanna be friends. i really dont want to..i just think this is comming to end.." and i was just like "alright, bye" cause i was really upset!! i mean i loved this boi!! and he broke my heart in thousand pieces!! and so i knew hed be with my best friend for the next few hours, so i called him around 12 am, and i was like "hey..i think i deserve to know why" and he was like "know why i broke up with u" and i said yes so he tells me all this crap about hwo he thought i was somebody else who i wasnt and how he met someone special who is so perfect and amazing and how i deserve better than him and it ended and that he has unrealistic expections of ppl. basically a bunch of BS and he never gave me a real answer. so w/e. it NEVER evven crossed my mind that my best friend was his new special someone!!!!! I found out that she hooked up with him the night we broke up! she gave him head, he fingered her, and ate her out and she gave him a hand job!! ON the FREAKING night we broke up1!!!!!!!! i was like omg r u kidding me.. but when i told her i was hurt she freaked out on me and told my ex that she cant like him cause of me! and so my ex freaked out on me and got pissed cuase supposebly hes in love with my slutty ex best friend..and i still cared a lot about my ex, like damn i care so much for him.so i told her she can do whatever she wants, and to not involve me in it..but i couldnt really get mad at her and let her know how much anger i have, and how betrayed i felt and how i would never trust her again..so i reminaed silent, which was a mistake. now them two are fucking going out, and she lost her VIRGINITY to him. i dunno what to do. i cdant say anything now, but i feel so betrayed bt here. should i still let her know that im realy hurt and i have a lot of anger! cuase when she has problems with my ex and is sad she comes to me and tells me about them and i dont wnt to hear it, he was MY ex!! and when he does cute stuff she tells me and im like how much more unsensitive cna u be? but i just sit there and listen..i dunno. shulld i tell her off and break friendship off completely? cuase i have no trust for her. and baout him, what do i do. cuase even after it all i still love this boi like no other and care os much and really dont want to lose him..even as a friend..i hookked up with him one time after we broke up..and i was crying cause i was drunk and i told him evertthing i felt and we stood infront of the mirror and my make up was completly smirred and we were huggin really tightly and he goes look at us, look at the mirror and we both look, and then he turns his head away, kisses my forhead and he syas i cant look at u this way i cant look at us cuase then its gonna hurt more..and i was way drunk and i dindt say anythin just kept crying. and we just stood there..so i duno cuas ei still care lots about him and i duunno if i shold just act like i dont care anymore and eventually stop..or should i still care for him and talk to him and be friends..cause being friends with him hurts me somuch cuase i see him with her and it makes my heart crash to a thousand more pieces evry time. and also his birthday is comming up soon, and i dunno if i should get him something or not? and if i should..what? hes a bab boi skater type..so u cant really get nice things, and i dont want to get it over done to make him think im obsessed with him.
I AM sorry this is soo long!! but i really needed to elt it all out! thanks for whoever replys! ill rate 5!! xoxoxoxoxo thnaks! (link)
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First of all, that is SO messed up that your best friend did that SO MESSED UP! Lol that even pisses ME off!! I had a similar situation happen to a boy I was totally in love with- we had been going out for like a year. And he betrayed all my trust. The simplest answer and the most helpful one will also probably be the hardest one to take-I suggest you don't talk to this girl anymore. She is NOT a good friend-look at what she is DOING to you!!! Also, this boy...that moment you had with him when you were drunk..it sounds like a moment I had with my ex...it is the last time I ever saw him. Don't let moments and memories consume you. Move on from him, because he just isn't right for you. I would really like to talk about this more cause I really think I can help you with this...I have been in SUCH a similar situation and it REALLY shattered my heart and made me feel horrible. You can e-mail me at Gummibear4054@aol.com.
-Amy
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i collect hentai for a liveing! but i dont masturbate to it or anything... my sis sais im a big pervert and my mom doesent mind. im verry interested in that kind of art. is it wrong to do this? (link)
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I really like anime. Hentai really cool I must admit (ok you probably all think I'm freaks cause I'm a girl, but my ex got me hooked). No it is not bad that you are interested. Your interests are your interests:) Hentai is really cool...haha I would post some sites to go to that I really like, but umm...I might get in trouble with the board people. Leave any questions or comments you have in my inbox!!! Or e-mail me at Gummibear4054@aol.com. I really would like to talk about this art-I like it:)
-Amy:)
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okay i was supposed to get my period on friday and it's now monday... i've never been late before could it be the stress of going back to school or something? because i'm a little freaked out that something might be wrong (link)
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Unless you are sexually active, you are not pregnant. If you are sexually active, however, you should take a pregnancy test. It could be stress..or you could just be a little late..its only been about 3 days...don't worry, I'm sure you're fine.
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I need an idea for a date. I don't know they guy real well, we've only talked 2 times. So i want to get to know him, and i'm kinda nervous that going to a movie would me akward. Please give me ideas. (link)
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O first dates...always so fun and cute! Remember, the place you pick will say a lot to the guy about your personality...I suggest picking somewhere you like to go! Whether its a funky used CD store, or a really pretty park you like to walk in! And hey, movies and a dinner sound very normal, but they work too!! Hope I helped! If you have any more questions, please leave them in my inbox!!
-Amy
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i meet this bout a week ago and he came over to my house on Saterday and meet my parents...and he asked me out when he came over...the best thing is that he was the 1st guy to come to my house meet my paretns and ask me out in person...so i was pretty happy bout that...well i really really like him alot...i maen i know its not to the point of love...but he says that he mite love my but it's to soon to tell..n i think the same thing...but we never get to see each other cuz we go to diff skools we...but we both see each other almost every weekend...would say its going to be a good realtionship...?? (link)
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Hehe he sounds like a great guy! Well...isn't there some song says, "When I'm falling in love, I take my time, theres no need to hurry when I'm making up my mind." I think you should apply this basic principle to this relationship. Love should never be rushed or hurried...it comes when it wants to:) And about your relationship, going to another school is often a good thing, because you don't have the social distinctions that high schools often lay upon people. Hope I helped! If you have anymore questions on this or on anything else, please leave them in my inbox! I am always more than happy to help!
-Amy
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Has anyone ever gone on a "water-diet"? nothing but water...ice/water...and then u eat something on the third day...?has anyone gone on this or know if it works?? (link)
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The "water-diet" huh? Sounds like a pretty bad diet to go on-think about the food pyramid! Where is the food here? You need proper nutrients for your body---I'm not gonna lie---I'm SURE you would lose a ton of weight on this fad diet, but you will feel like crap. Try eating healthy and cutting out fattening foods...thats the safest most healthy way to lose weight.
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i think i might have a crush on my best frineds boyfriend but u dnt wanna say anything but wut should i do? (link)
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If this is your best friends boyfriend, the BEST thing you can do is to BACK OFF. Even when they break up, you should still not try to hook up. Best friends exes are not a good thing to mess with. Try to find another guy...you may like this guy when there is no trouble, but believe me...if you try stealing him from your best friend, you will cause more trouble than you bargained for! Hope I helped! If you have any more questions, leave them in my inbox!! I am more than happy to help!
-Amy
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omg im sooo nervous for school to start!! im going to a school different from all my other friends in a new town! what can i do to calm myself down and maybe make this a more enjoyable expierence (school)?!
thanks!
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Hey,
I know exactly how you feel-my freshman year I switched to a private school where I didn't know for a soul--I'm not gonna lie---it was VERY hard at first, but thats because I was shy and nervous. FIGHT the shyness and FIGHT the nervousness. Keep your head high, and a smile on your face. You could try joining clubs or sports that you are interested in. That is always a good way to meet people because they will be interested in the same thing as you! To calm down, try getting a makeover (but nothing too drastic-if it doesn't look good, that may just make you more nervous), or try doing your own little home spa. Reassure yourself that it will be the first day of school for EVERYONE, whether they are new to the school or not. So get yourself out there and have a GREAT YEAR!!! If you have any more questions, please leave them in my inbox! I am more than happy to help =).
-Amy
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hey i want to build my own site for all my friends to see and other ppl to see so i was wondering what r some sites besides geocities. also i want websites that u can have music on. please help.thanks (link)
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Well it depends on what kind of site you want...if you want a journaling site, where you can journal and post about your day and random babblings, livejournal.com, and xanga.com are very good! Hope I helped! If you have any more questions about this or anything, leave them in my inbox!
-Amy
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For blonde hair and blue eys what is usually the best color to wear in clothes .. i just want a little adive because my school starts tomrorow and i need some ideas .. THANKS
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Black would look striking with your complexion..but pale pastels would be so cute (such as baby blue, light pink, light yellow!) Just go for what you like! If you have any more questions, I would be more than happy to help! Leave any questions you have in my inbox!
-Amy
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Ok I just learned how to run the Laundry machine but the only thing is that when I dryed the clothes, they still smelt like the people who wore them, so is there any specific kinda soap to use and how much do I put in there?
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I can't think of a specific soap, but try using a STRONG smelling, good smelling soap-perhaps a mountain breeze or flowery variation! If you have any more questions, leave them in my inbox!
-Amy
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I think I wanna start babysitting. How do I get people to want me to babysit? what should I charge? I dont have a red cross liscence thing for babysitting either. I donr know what to do. Please help (link)
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That's awesome that you want to start babysitting! If you attend a church or temple, you could perhaps post ads for your babysitting services on a message board-make sure to include your name, phone number, age, and ages of children you will babysit. Also get the message out to friends who babysit-if they are scheduled to babysit, and become ill or have something else come up, make sure they know that you could take their place! Also, just get the word ut to friends and neighbors! The going rate for babysitters is between 4-5 dollars. Ask friends and family what they charge in your area! If you have anymore questions, leave them in my inbox!
-Amy
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This is a stupid little thing.. but oh wells.
As of now, I'm hungry. I need something to snack on! Any ideas of what I could make for a little midnight snack?
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Hehe, midnight snacks are always yummy! Umm...you could try:
*HEALTHY OPTIONS*
-Carrots or green/red/yellow peppers with lowfat ranch dressing
-Some peanuts
-Lowfat cheese with crackers
*UNHEALTHY OPTIONS*
-Your favorite ice cream
-Chips & Dip
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i really like the look of black nail polish but the rest of my clothes are really preppy and it looks out of place. is there something i can do to make it blend in with the rest of my clothes?
thans
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I love black nailpolish too! One thing you could do is try to have another black piece in your clothing-whether it be your shoes, your top, or your pants/skirt. They can be preppy things-perhaps a pair of classic black shoes, or a pretty black cardigan. Some colors that go really well with black are pink, light blue, and gray. Hope I helped! Please leave anymore questions in my inbox!
-Amy
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whats a good name for a new fish?
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Hehehe, I have to say that this is one of the cutest questions I have ever heard. I would so name your fresh Pookienonkens.
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What is a good line right before u kiss someone. bc im not a brave enough person jsut ot do it i need a line. (link)
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Haha, my now ex boyfriend used a really good line on me. I'm not too fond of this guy anymore, but he said, "What are you thinking of right now?" And I said, "I don't know..what are you thinking of?" And he said, "I'm thinking of this..." and grabbed me and kissed me. It was probably the best kiss of my life so far. If you have any more questions, comments, frustrations, or whatever, just leave a comment in my inbox! Hope I helped!
-Amy
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