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Damn Rumors
This girl that I used to be friends with is spreading rumors about me. She is telling everyone I had sex with this guy I liked. The guy and I hooked up not long after the rumors started. He's three years older than me, so we didn't tell many people. We didn't wanna hafta deal with all their shit.
He and I didn't have sex until almost 2 months after these rumors were started. My best friend heard the rumors, and she was mad cause I didnt tell her I had sex for the first time. I didn't want her to know I did, so I told her they weren't true.
I want these rumors to stop cause its no one else's business if I had sex with him or not. I don't want to talk to this girl in person cause i already wanna beat her ass, and if i saw her, i know i would loose control and hit her.
Is there any other way to stop these rumors without talkin to her about it? And don't tell me to ignore them cause that never works. I have ignored them for almost 3 months, and im sick of it.
Please Help me!!
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Well when someone starts rumors about me all i do is ignore them.. they will eventually figure out that u don't care what they think.. so i would just igNore them cuz you Are the only one who really knows what happened!
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it sounds to me this "friend" of urs isnt really a friend at all. I hate rumors theyre gay but just think ull be outta school in a few years and all the drama will pass so i wudnt pay much attention to it. Anyone who is bored enough to pay attention to another persons sex life that much is a loser so ignore all of them its between u and ur boyfriend so just shake those gay asses off
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Well I def.know how you are feeling right now.The same thing happened to me a few years ago and it went on for like almost the whole school year.What i would do if i were you is whenever someone asks you about these rumors say its not true and this girl is just trying to stir up trouble.And she must not have anything better to do with her time then spread rumors about ppl:-).I know its really hard but you should act like it doesnt bother you what ppl think because it will just make this girl think that she is getting to you and if she sees that it is not getting to you then maybe she will stop.Because that worked for me.So i hope what i said helps.Good luck and i hope the rumors stop.:-)
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just go up to the girl and say "i have been hearing rumors about me that u started and i want it to stop because i think that should b my business, will u plz stop" that should work
hope i helped
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i know somewhat how you are feeling right now..i hate it when ppl are in my business about my life especially my love/sex life..there isnt much that you can do about the bitch thats spreading around these rumors but you need to jus let ppl know that the rumors arent true and probably eventually you will tell the lil bitch off but try your hardest to refrain from beating the hell out of her, bring ppl along with you if you know you will be seeing her somewhere so they can keep you off of her. eventually people will forget about these rumors and if they dont fuck them, you need to know who your real friends are and thats all that you can really do. i know how you feel about your friend not wanting to know that you had sex, its no ones business except you and the boy that youve done it with, so when ppl ask jus tell them that its none of their business and if your friends ask, just tell them that you want to keep some aspects of your personal life to yourself and its not that you dont like them, its just that you would rather keep them to yourself. alright well i hope that ive helped you, any other questions come ask me, whitney!
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confront the girl...try not to lose control...your right it is NONE of anyones business what ur sex life is like...but u'll prolly be best off either confronting the girl and telling her she needs to shut her mouth or juss ignore it..a rumors just a rumor...remember that! it wont kill ya =D
*jesikuh
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