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GUY TROUBLE


Question Posted Friday August 13 2004, 12:06 am

Ok my b/f j/ dumped me cuz hes older and he said he'd feel like a fuck up if he took my Virginity...but he still talks 2 me and calls me baby and tells me he luvs me and misses me but do u think hes being honest or j/ sayin that so he doesnt hurt my feelings please help!!! im so confused thanx

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Mackenzie answered Friday August 13 2004, 2:16 am:
He's pRobably being honest. If he didn't feel that way.. why would he say it?? It's obvious he wants sex, but won't do it with you because of the guilt that will come along with taking youR viRginity. He'll pRobably keep that up until he finds a new infatuation. Best wishes!! Hope this helps!! =D

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Siren_Cytherea answered Friday August 13 2004, 1:27 am:
This guy sounds like he needs to do a little thinking, and so do you. Do you want him calling you baby, telling you he "luvs" you and misses you if it's possible that he's just saying it? I wouldn't.
The only way to know if he's being honest, is to ask him, and you may not get a straight answer by doing that either.
I suggest you both do a little thinking. If you were still together, would you want to lose your virginity to him? If you didn't want to, would he stay with you anyway?
My best advice is just talk to him and find out what's really going through his head.
I hope this helped!
-Siren =)

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MummuM answered Friday August 13 2004, 1:06 am:
You should be lucky that your ex didn't want to take your Virginity from you. Most guys don't give a shit about if they're taken your Virginity or not. I think he's just being honest and for sure not messing with your mind. I hope you guys work out and become a couple again. Good luck =)

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berrybum324 answered Friday August 13 2004, 12:36 am:
ya i think he deff still likes you..i mean if he dumped you just because he didnt want to take your viginity..he deff should have talked to you before dumping you but that is sweet that he cares soo mcuh about you..but you get to decided who takes your virginity not any other boy..and also it depends how mcuh older htis guy is..and if its like rape lol but i dont think he is just saying that to make you feel better i really think he still likes you . . . KaT *

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dotdotdot32 answered Friday August 13 2004, 12:19 am:
i think he still likes you, because his excuse was i dont want to takeyour virginity. so from what you said, i think he still likes you. and flirts because he of that, not because he feels guilty.

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xhunniebunchx answered Friday August 13 2004, 12:19 am:
um... i think he's being honest but why would that cause him to break up with you? just because you are going out doesnt mean you have to do anything if u arent ready... i think he really cares about you but i just dont understand why he would break up with u because of that?? hmm maybe he wants to do that stuff and he thinks if he broke up with u (even though he still likes u) he can do stuff with other girls without feeling guilty. so you just have to ask yourself if you really want a guy like that. maybe he just needs to do that stuff... or maybe im totally wrong! if u need anything else let me know, alrite! i hope i helped!

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princesskisses1 answered Friday August 13 2004, 12:19 am:
well i dont know this guy so i can't tell u if he means what he says but 2 me it sounds sincere and u 2 should stick as friends for now maybe in the future if hes that special someone u'll know! when he calls u baby,he luvs u, etc. does that bother u? if so tell him u 2 should just be friends for now. advice column PRINCESSKISSES1

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OrangeLuverr answered Friday August 13 2004, 12:18 am:
If he broke up with you for that reason then of course he cares about you! It means he wasnt using you. Thats why guys go out with easy girls.

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bRuNeTtExdUdEtTe answered Friday August 13 2004, 12:13 am:
Well yea i think that he is being honest, because most guys wouldnt care whose virginity they took they just want it. Maybe after a while he'll realize that he really does like you still and you'll go back out, but if you really like this guy then try hanging out to him and keep making him like you, at least for a while or something.

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