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hey! i came to u before with my problem about the girl i have a crush on liking my best friend and i thought u gave some great advice. so i'm coming to u again.
Before I told the girl how i felt, i wanted to clear things up with my best friend first. He told me that he wouldn't make a move on her and that i could have her. I didn't want him to just give her to me, cuz i thought that wouldn't be right. So later i asked him if he would go out with her, and he sed maybe when school starts again (we're freshmen). After he told me that, i went and told the girl just like she asked me to. She went on about how she was so grateful she was that i did that for her and that this was the happiest day of her life and that she has liked my best friend for a long time. After she sed that, i didn't think it was the right time to tell her my feelings. I'm so lost, wut should i do? plz help!
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I think you kinda messed up by kinda getting them together but thats OK. I think its ok to still have feelings for her even though she is with your best friend. The only thing you could do is let them go out and if its not right it wont last. Then tell her how u feel if it doesnt last. If u think they r not meant to b tell them or one of them. If u need anything else just ask!
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Sorry it took me so long to give you advice, I've been out of town without a computer -
I think you shouldn't tell her how you feel because she obviously has stronger feelings for your best friend. Even though you like her a real lot - I think you should move on. Since you're going into highschool, there will be SO many more people that you can have tight relationships with.
Right now, you friend (girl) just needs you to be by her side and to act as her best friend. Stick with her as a friend - and meet some new girls! =)
I hope I helped you!
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well since you like her just be happy for her and your friend. dont regret anything. it is better to tell ppl how you feel than not to. but dont try and make her like you. it wont work. you cant change her feelings. idk what else to tell you. but i hope i helped and i hope that you can find a way to deal with this.
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hey...yea this position really does suck. i kno how u feel..ive been in it before (except im a girl so i lyked a guy..lol) but yea anyways..maybe you should ask your best friend to tell the girl that you u lyk her (if u really dont wanna tell her). or maybe it would be easier if u wrote her a note telling her that you lyk her instead of telling it to her face to face cuz thats prolly gona be real diffulcult for you. also if you wanted to, you could wait till she and ur best friend break up. but i think you should write her a note. and just tell her that youve lyked her for a long time and that you just wanted her to kno. and just be lyk..if you dont lyk me as a boyfriend then i hope we can still be really good friends and maybe take it futher someday if you want to. or something lyk that....and then just say something lyk "if you dont lyk me its ok ...cuz i just want you to be happy"...im in the same situation now...my friend is going out with this kid i lyk...and it really does suck...he alreayd knos that i lyk him...but i mean..we..but i hope i helped and tell me what you decided to do!!
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you cant let whats he said stop you from telling her how you feel. tell her any way. its better for her to know now before your friend maybe asks her out. i hope i helped and if i didnt ask me again lol. good luck! xox becca
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awww that was so nice of you to do that. i can tell you really care about her because you want her to be happy! i definately think you should talk to her.. just be like i know you really like my bestfriend but i just thought that you should know that ive liked you for a long time. im sure she has the same feelings for your bestfriend as you have for her. this is always a hard situation to be in. talk to your bestfriend and see if he really likes her. if it would hurt you if they went out i think you should tell him that. i have a friend that really likes this guy and her bestfriend went out with him and every night she cried herself to sleep because of it and when she told her bestfriend that after they broke up and all she was like omg if i knew that i would have never went out with him. so i think you need to tell them both the truth before anything happens between them and if they still want to go out, well thats their decision. and if this girl is too stupid to realize what a great guy you are.. thats her loss! but she might really like you and just doesnt want to ruin your friendship because you two are so close. remember... if its meant to be it will happen! i hope i helped.. i dunno if that did but if u need anything else just let me know! hope it all works out for you!
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I'm glad you liked my advice. ^_^
Ouch, that's a nasty position to be in...It's up to you, really, whether or not you tell the girl how you feel about her. You can confess if you want to - if it would make you feel better to have your feelings out in the open - but if you don't want to, then don't.
If your friend really likes her, and would definitely go out with her, I think this might be one of those situations in which you kind of have to back off and let fate take its course.
As much as I hate to tell you that, I think you might have to back off on this situation. Let them go out - if they break up, be there for her. For now, all you can do is be her friend. Sorry it didn't work out differently.
I hope this helped on some level, lol. If you need more help, lemme know.
-Siren =)
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So the girl you have a 'crush' on likes your best friend? And your best friend told you that he might 'go out' with her when school starts? Alright alright... well if the girl and guy both still like eachother, then maybe you should stay out of it. Have you told the girl how you feel? It might be a little late now.. because you have told her what your best friend has said about maybe going back out with her. When the time is right, you will know when to tell her.. just don't wait too long. But if you know for sure that she doesn't like you, find someone new! There are plenty of awsome people out there! =)
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hey, i'm glad to help!
okay, so you obviously kno that this changes things up a little!! i don't think now's the right time to tell her because if you truly like her then you'll want what's best for her and that might be for her to go out with your friend.. and if you do tell her then she'll probably think you're just jealous...also, if she told you that she's liked this guy for a while, then it's probably a sign that she hasn't given as much thought into going out with you as you have about going out with her...i suggest that you let them see how things work out between them, but make sure that your best friend doesn't take advantage of her and always be there for her - do NOT do nething w/ her or tell her once they start going out though (if they do) cuz it'll look like you're backstabbing your best friend -- you never kno, things might not work out between them!! and maybe she hasn't liked you for the plain reason that she never really thought about you that way ~ but if she does start to think about it then something may heat up! lol...if it's inevitable that they're gonna get together, then the best thing you can do is show her that you're a good guy and a good friend! but you seem pretty cool so I think you'll be alright!! if you have any other questions or just wanna talk then leave one in my inbox! ;)
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well, basically u probably shoulnt have set them up? but we cant go back in time can we? so lets look to the future... first ur freshman so the relationship is sorta stupid or at least will be because freshman relationships never r that great... soo u will probably have an oppurtunity sooner than later... and if ur sucha nice enough guy to hook up ur friend with the girl u like honestly there hasta be someone else for u, but im sorry there isnt much u can do here but wait or look for someone new and always have this girl in the back of ur mind? im really sorry but u can im me sometime if u want and we can talk more about it... sorry :(
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Awww...Wow...
I'm a little lost too. :-/ Unfortuantly sweetie, guys and girls are very very hard to understand. One thing you need to remember though is...it was totally right for you to tell her your feelings for her, and about that situation. You should never regret, or have any other thought but good about standing up, and telling your feelings. Honestly, I don't think that she got it that you really like her. I kind of need to know how that conversation went with her and yourself. (If you are willing to share, not pressuring or really asking..)
I think it was really good that you said something to your best friend, but...then he told you he wouldn't make a move...then said, ya.I would start dating her if school starts again? Umms...I'm confused on that one.
Let me tell you something that happened to me when I was about your age...Basically it was the same thing, but the guy was my best/f and he liked my best/f. We all went to the same highschool and remained friends, but once we all got to highschool...we found lots of other different people. High school is such a big difference from a small junior high, to High School. Even though you are just Freshman, you'll all find somebody that really catches your eyes all the way through HS. It's a givin. I know that you really like this girl, but trust me...I bet she won't like your best friend for very long once she starts high school. That's when ever girl goes absolutely BOY CRAZY. Hehe...trust me. I hope I'm helping on this...if you need anything else...please let me know. I'm here to listen and help you through this. Hope to hear from you <3 Bye sweetie! :)Have a great night!
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