Hi well my need is to find out who I really like, I halready have a boyfriend and then I met this other guy that I really like now, and then i haven't even heard from my boyfriend for a while then all of a sudden he emails me and starts talking like nuthin happened. what do I do?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? MummuM answered Sunday August 15 2004, 9:36 pm: Give him heck for not talking to you for awhile. Then just one day he e-mails you like nothing happened. What is that about? Tell him how you feel and ask him why he hasn't been talking to you. Maybe you chould tell him you both need a break. Then your free to do what you want to do. Hang out with this other guy, spend a day with him. Then if you decide that you do like this other guy more then your boyfriend, tell him you don't think it would work out because you like this other guy. Dump your boyfriend, then go for the new guy =) [ MummuM's advice column | Ask MummuM A Question ]
AdviceMistress answered Sunday August 15 2004, 9:35 am: well if you really think this "other guy" you like likes you and you like him i say u should dump ur boyfriend and just go for the "other guy" unless u really like your bf but that doesn't seem right that he hadn't talked to you in a long time and if i was you i would start askin questions like where have you been and stuff?? be very supicious when ur around him and get him to crack all the secrets (if there is any) he's keepin from u!!
Mackenzie answered Sunday August 15 2004, 2:49 am: Dude.. if I haven't heaRd fRom my boyfRiend in a while, I would seRiously end it sooo fast!! It's such a lack of consideRation if they can't even call to say "Hey.. I can't talk now, but I just wanted to say goodnight, and I hope you have a good day tomoRRow"... I mean, come on... how long did that take? If I'm not woRth THAT much of his time... scRew 'em, I can do MUCH better!!! As foR this otheR guy.. you might as well see what the two of you have goin' foR ya! Don't pass by what could bea good thing!! Goodluck!! Hope I helped!! =D [ Mackenzie's advice column | Ask Mackenzie A Question ]
l3fty14 answered Sunday August 15 2004, 12:37 am: well if you liked either one of them (especailly your b/f) then it wouldnt be this hard to choose. you shouldnt get suspicious about your b/f becuz he hasnt talked to you, when your actually the one whos thinkin of another guy. but if hes cheating on you or just not paying attention to you enough - theres a reson to break up with him and go for the other guy. but then again is that fair to the other guy?? is he just your side b/f that you go out with just in case some thing goes wrong with you n your b/f?? thats not rite now is it... [ l3fty14's advice column | Ask l3fty14 A Question ]
StRwBeRrYShOrTy answered Sunday August 15 2004, 12:27 am: the same thign happened with me, guys are so confusing. you need 2 tlka 2 your boyfriend and c what was up nd y u hadnt heard from him in a while. then you shoudl decide weather or not you want 2 break up and how you really feel about him and this other guy. hope i helped =) [ StRwBeRrYShOrTy's advice column | Ask StRwBeRrYShOrTy A Question ]
HoTtIgOtTiBaByGiRl22 answered Sunday August 15 2004, 12:18 am: Hey, well my boyfriend hadn't called hadn't even been on to E-Mail me at all, and at the same time this Kid was always there and I had really started liking him. And since I never talked to my boyfriend and he never bothered to call me I just felt like I was unimportant. And I had had alot of time to think over what I wanted to do. I figured I couldn't keep going out with my boyfriend if I liked someone else it was ust wrong. So I decided to call him and he acted like ohh heyy and like nothing happened and it just made me angry so I decided to break up with him and also because I figured it was just like cruel to keep having a boyfriend when I like another guy! So if you really like this other guy then I think you should end things with your boyfriend or tell him you need a break like a little seperation where you can see other guys, or juststay single and have time to think things over. Well hope that helped. . . [ HoTtIgOtTiBaByGiRl22's advice column | Ask HoTtIgOtTiBaByGiRl22 A Question ]
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