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I seriously don`t know if i could trust one of my friends anymore. Her and my other friend come over my house to hang out alot, and alot of my stuff (mostly jewelery) is disappearing. One day i came to school and she had the same neclace and she said she bought it. Then the next morning i was going to wear it and it was gone! And most of my earrings went missing too. And during those days, she was wearing one of the pares of earrings that are gone. My little sisters communion/birthday money which was about $300, was also stolen. Is one of my closest friends a thief or what? (link)
Hey .. If I were you I would think the same thing ecspecially if she was wearing the stolen jewelery.One day i came to school and she had the same neclace and she said she bought it


my boyfriend and i got back together recently but he doesnt believe i love him! and it kinda pisses me off because watever i say or do he wont believe me. What do i do to get him to believe me? (link)
I'm not sure of "whatever I say or do" what have you tried. Maybe you've changed from the way you use to act maybe before your boyfriend use to always come first and he got use to it. . .and you don't do it anymore you know?Or maybe if he thinks you like someone else - in the words of a friend "he is just insecure of losing you". . .I'm not sure how much help I can be on this one.You should try to talk to him not other people just be like "Hey I love you so much whether or not you believe me, am I doing something wrong or what?" and if he doesn't help you out on that one. . .Maybe you should just try to be like you use to. . you probably don't think you've changed but I bet you have. . .well to him!I'm not exactly sure what you can do and I don't know how much I can write so. . .if you want to. . .Instant message me - xoxbabiigrl22xox is my AIM and Yahoo screen names. . Sorry. . Hopefully that helped some:\


My friend, [[lets call her Rachel]] is rele rele nice to me...to my face...but i've heard that shes called me a slut b4 and other stuff. I hated her for about a month and then we were friends agan. And still are...but sumthin bout her juss gets to me...nd then juss a couple of days ago..i heard that shes been making up rumors about one of my friends [[lets call her Lana]] and so Rachel has been sayin stuff to oda ppl..that Lana has been sayin bad things bout them nd now the whole skewl thinks that Lana is sayin this stuff...but shes not..and I dun even noe if its true that Rachel is tellin every1 this stuff but sum of mah oda friends thinks its true. Wut shood i do boutt this girl? shood i be her friend? or not? (link)
You can't just drop Rachel like that, if you haven't already talk to her...ask her about why she is doing this and talk it out but first go talk to Lana about it too because what if what Rachel is saying is true...which the way it seems isn't I still think you should talk to Lana too.If Rachel just still doesn't you stop and you find out for sure that she is doing everything then sit her down and explain why you can't be her friend anymore...I really hope that helped I'm so sorry if it didn't :\


I was wondering if any one knoew some good songs. It can be anything but no rap please! Thanx so much!!
Luvz,
*KrIsSy* (link)
ashlee simpson-Shadow
yellowcard-Only One
blink182-Going Away To College
dashoard confessional-Vindicated
avril lavigne-Happy Ending
taking back sunday-There's No "I" In Team
brand new-Seventy Times Seven
alicia keys-If I Ain't Got You
beyonce-Naughty Girl Remix
usher & alicia keys-My Boo Pt. 2
maroon 5-She Will Be Loved
simple plan-Don't Wanna Think About You
three days grace-I Hate Everything About You
jojo-Baby Its You
sugarcult-Memory
switchfoot-Dare You To Move
--There's alot more::it would be better if I could name rap :)--


Hi well my need is to find out who I really like, I halready have a boyfriend and then I met this other guy that I really like now, and then i haven't even heard from my boyfriend for a while then all of a sudden he emails me and starts talking like nuthin happened. what do I do? (link)
Hey, well my boyfriend hadn't called hadn't even been on to E-Mail me at all, and at the same time this Kid was always there and I had really started liking him. And since I never talked to my boyfriend and he never bothered to call me I just felt like I was unimportant. And I had had alot of time to think over what I wanted to do. I figured I couldn't keep going out with my boyfriend if I liked someone else it was ust wrong. So I decided to call him and he acted like ohh heyy and like nothing happened and it just made me angry so I decided to break up with him and also because I figured it was just like cruel to keep having a boyfriend when I like another guy! So if you really like this other guy then I think you should end things with your boyfriend or tell him you need a break like a little seperation where you can see other guys, or juststay single and have time to think things over. Well hope that helped. . .


My name is Leah....

Me n my boyfriend have been going out for 1 month.. but we went out before 4 four months...
Me n hym are in love like so much!! n we r perfect for eachother b.c we know everything about eachother... but
LAST NIGHT... I was on the fone w/ My friend Adam n then My friend who was sleeping over...((Lisa)) wanted to talk to ((MIke, my boyfriend)) b.c. they r tight... n i was like go head idc.. cuz i wus on the fone w/ Adam n he was leaving tommoroe...

Well i wusnt flirting w/ Adam... but to all my friends (( guy n girl )) i say I love you... but not the same way i love Mike...

Well since my friend, Lisa was on the fone... w/ mike... He heard me say i love you to Adam... he started getting pissed at me cuz he thought i was flirting w/ Adam....

So wen i talked to hym later that night im like Wait, r u mad at me..?? Mike is like ya... u were flirting w/ Adam.... i wus like no i wasnt!! hes like YeaH! im like no!! im like w.e . since u dont belive me i gues im a liar....
well i broke up w/ Mike that night b.c. i though that since we r going into jr. high this year... n since he thinks that i was flirtng by saying I love you to adam.. then i thought.. we needed a break....
do u think i was right to take a lil Break... n do u think i shoudl go back out w/ Mike.. b.c i rly love hym n hes the sweetest guy i have eva known n he treats me like a queen... n he loves me soo much!! n i love hym.. but sumtimes i like being single.. but every time i think of Mike i am always liike omg i miss hym i love hym soo much!!

PLEASE HELP ME!!
xOx-Leah...

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Hey, okay well if you "love" Mike so much then go out with him again I mean if all the other guys this year won't tempt you. Just tell Mike you are sorry but that's the way you are and that no matter who you say it to it'll will never have the same meaning as it does when you tell him you love him. Or just stay single you are only going into Jr High and you could live without a boyfriend and there will be alot more this yr haha! Sorry Well Hope that helped :\


i have a friend from school who is petite and very underweight (by society's standards) but she sees herself as "fat" & no matter what anyone tells her she still tries to loose weight. shes only 80 something pounds! shes one of the skinniest people in school, and we're 15... and im scared it might become into an eating disorder. her parents want her to GAIN weight because she's so tiny for her size and can get hurt in sports. what can i possibly do or say to her because i've tried so many times...? (ps her parents are concerned and know about this, and they told ME to talk to her about it because she wont listen to them!) (link)
Hey, my old best friend had an eating disorder. She saw herself as fat she wasn't underweiht or anything but she wasn't over she was like perfect for her age. But she didn't see that first she was anerexic((don't eat anything)) and then we finally got her to eat she became bulemic((don't know how to spell it but it's when you eat, stick your finger down your throat and throw up))


okay so there is this boy that ive liked for a long time... but yea c hes a mayjor playa and everytime i hook up wit him or w/e he always plays me over but his charm is sooo good and cute that i fall for him no matter wut! how can i just forget about him! and erase him from my life cuz i knoe that the next time i talk to him hes gonna b all flirty and touchy feely to me and then i'll fall for him all over again. please help me get over him.
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Hey, this kid I'll call him Josh he is so good looking and could win anyone over with his charm. Well I left my boyfriend because I was stupid and thought he actually liked me, I did this twice both times he was just playin me just cause he wanted to see if he could control me. I was stupid enough to do what he wanted and changed the way I acted for him. I was so upset about the way he treated me after that when I talked to him about it I was like really angry and we got into this huge fight, I'm not saying to fight with him just friggen like tell that kid that he's gay and you are tired of all his games, that's what I did oh wow it started like a war. But it got me over him and now me and him are actually friends again. Well I say yo talk to him and think about how gay he is being and all the stupid shit he's done to you hopefully that'll help you get over him. Hope that helps :\


Alright, so there was this boy that I was hanging out with like everyday for a few weeks(lets call him Matt)...I met him through a friend...he liked me and I liked him...problem was I had a boyfriend(lets call him James), but things weren't going well with him. Well anyways, according to all of Matt's friend, Matt really liked me. So my best friend (who is also a really close friend of Matt's) said that Matt wanted to go out with me, and wanted me to break up with my boyfriend so he could ask me out. Well, I wanted to go out with Matt, so I told James (my boyfriend of the time) that I wanted to cool things...and then I told Matt that me and James were in the process of breaking up. I thought Matt would like that, but instead he starting being all weird and almost acting like he was avoiding me. Then, the next day he doesn't even call (he would call me everyday). Then a few days later he did call and asked if I wanted to hang out. I said sure, and he said "Ok cool I'll call you back in a few minutes when I get to the park". He never called back and I haven't heard from him in like 1 1/2 weeks...so what is UP with this?! I don't get it! HELP! lol (link)
Well the same thing happened to me it was just hte otehr way around. This kid dave and I were always hanging out but I had a boyfriend and I really liked Dave and I knew he liked me too. But after I finally broke it off with my boyfriend, I just didn't go out with him. I was so confused about how I felt, and I wasn't sure if I wanted to go out with him cause we might ruin our friendship we were like best friends.((Maybe that is why he is acting like this)) I never went out with him, and now I am still in love with him, and I regret all of this. I think you should call him see what's up because if he really likes you he needs to take the risk I mean it could be the best thing to ever happen. I say you talk to him and by the way I don't think any woman understands men haha! hope I helped


my friend keeps wantin 2 hang out w/ me, but i dont really wanna hang out w/ her. how shud i tell her, or sud i just avoid her??? (link)
Well if she is a close friend then and if you value your friendship you shouldn't avoid her. If she's a good friend and you sit her down and explain to her that you don't want to hang out and why not, just be really nice about it don't get all you know. She should understand either that or just be like hey I like having you as a friend and all its just right now I really don't want to hang out or something like that, that won't seem so bad but it's still going to hurt them at least a little bit. Either way best friend worst friend, don't avoid them, explain why you don't want to hang out or just tell them, be honest. Hope that helped:/




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