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this boy


Question Posted Saturday August 14 2004, 10:40 pm

okay so there is this boy that ive liked for a long time... but yea c hes a mayjor playa and everytime i hook up wit him or w/e he always plays me over but his charm is sooo good and cute that i fall for him no matter wut! how can i just forget about him! and erase him from my life cuz i knoe that the next time i talk to him hes gonna b all flirty and touchy feely to me and then i'll fall for him all over again. please help me get over him.


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TinahOfCourse answered Sunday August 15 2004, 7:14 am:
Yeah. Guys will be guys. Think of the charm as a trap sweetie. Everytime he's all flirty or touchy just think that it's going to get you no where except stepped and played on. So, to forget about him... date other guys, meet new people, stay away from him! Anyway, good luck hun. :]

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MaNdASzHElP247 answered Sunday August 15 2004, 1:53 am:
You gotta go out and meet new boys! Older hotter guys lol. They are everywhere. Just remember what he did to you, and DONT EVER let him forget it.. hes just using you for a lil somethin somethin im sure. -aMANdA<3*

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HoTtIgOtTiBaByGiRl22 answered Saturday August 14 2004, 11:46 pm:
Hey, this kid I'll call him Josh he is so good looking and could win anyone over with his charm. Well I left my boyfriend because I was stupid and thought he actually liked me, I did this twice both times he was just playin me just cause he wanted to see if he could control me. I was stupid enough to do what he wanted and changed the way I acted for him. I was so upset about the way he treated me after that when I talked to him about it I was like really angry and we got into this huge fight, I'm not saying to fight with him just friggen like tell that kid that he's gay and you are tired of all his games, that's what I did oh wow it started like a war. But it got me over him and now me and him are actually friends again. Well I say yo talk to him and think about how gay he is being and all the stupid shit he's done to you hopefully that'll help you get over him. Hope that helps :

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xo_APRiL answered Saturday August 14 2004, 11:38 pm:
Every time you start to fall for him, tell yourself how badly he treats you. Remember theres somebody better out there for you!

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Mackenzie answered Saturday August 14 2004, 11:38 pm:
The best way to get oveR someone is to find someone new. FoRget about this loseR.. he's not woRth a single second of youR time. Don't even botheR to talk to him. ConcentRate on otheR fRiends, school family and such. If theRe is a guy at school you like, tRy getting close to him... that'll do you a woRld of good!! Best wishes!! Hope I helped!! =D

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kevin1986 answered Saturday August 14 2004, 11:33 pm:
You can remember the times he purposely fucked you over. Haven't you seen him do the same tricks over and over again? He doesn't mean it when he's charming. Let him be flirty and then tell him to go fuck off. He deserves it,he obviously doesn't care about your feelings.

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Roxybabii922 answered Saturday August 14 2004, 11:07 pm:
just think to yourself "there is a way better guy out there for me and i know i can do better" just keep looking for guys and push him farthest to the side as you can, you'll get over him in time :-)

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l3fty14 answered Saturday August 14 2004, 11:05 pm:
well u obviously have to get over this guy, so when he starts to charm you think of the times hes hurt you and you will reconsider it.

hope it helps!

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OrangeLuverr answered Saturday August 14 2004, 10:53 pm:
Well think about it, HE'S N0T W0RTH IT, lol you said it urself..just think about how he used you in the past and dont let it happen again. <333

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Mercy_x_Me answered Saturday August 14 2004, 10:49 pm:
be strict and make him keep his hands to himself. If you know he cant do that and be respectful, then remove yourself from an environment that includes his presence. Because the thing with that is you need him to stop flirting and being all around you b/c thats the worst thing for you. Stop seeing him or going places where he is. If you happen to be at the same party, avoid him. If he comes over to you just kinda walk away. You dont need him plus hes really just not good for you. good luck babe-- hope you can get rid of the creep.

XoXoO

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StRaWbErri3xLiPgLoSs answered Saturday August 14 2004, 10:49 pm:
hey ok just try to get ur mind off him like start liking a new guy u can trust and try not to go around this boy bc if he touches u or flirts with you you will prolly get feeling for him again!. hope i helped x 0 x kasey lynn x 0 x

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fOrev3r_x_yOurs answered Saturday August 14 2004, 10:48 pm:
oo i have this problem toO.. try n only think of you guys as friends dont b around him so much.. and wen you are flirt with other guys so you can show him how uninterested you are.. and like hm.. just and if he does mess around with you juss walk away b like i cant.. n if he asks tell em .. i dont trust you.. one day he will kno wat hes missin.. hope i helped *AsH!

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ChrisDecker answered Saturday August 14 2004, 10:44 pm:
ok just tell him leave me alone or just try to avoid him.

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wakegurl21 answered Saturday August 14 2004, 10:43 pm:
Find a nother guy to hang with. It will keep your mind off the playa and you'll still have a good time.

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