Alright, so there was this boy that I was hanging out with like everyday for a few weeks(lets call him Matt)...I met him through a friend...he liked me and I liked him...problem was I had a boyfriend(lets call him James), but things weren't going well with him. Well anyways, according to all of Matt's friend, Matt really liked me. So my best friend (who is also a really close friend of Matt's) said that Matt wanted to go out with me, and wanted me to break up with my boyfriend so he could ask me out. Well, I wanted to go out with Matt, so I told James (my boyfriend of the time) that I wanted to cool things...and then I told Matt that me and James were in the process of breaking up. I thought Matt would like that, but instead he starting being all weird and almost acting like he was avoiding me. Then, the next day he doesn't even call (he would call me everyday). Then a few days later he did call and asked if I wanted to hang out. I said sure, and he said "Ok cool I'll call you back in a few minutes when I get to the park". He never called back and I haven't heard from him in like 1 1/2 weeks...so what is UP with this?! I don't get it! HELP! lol
sita answered Sunday August 15 2004, 12:03 am: i think that this matt kid is just playing with you! when you were with james he wanted you cause he couldnt have you but when u left james he was like oh shyt! and ran away cause didnt want nethin serious just someone to mess around with! dont be mad or nething.. just let it be just move on and find a guy that will treat you with the respect you desirve.GOOD LUCK
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Cody answered Saturday August 14 2004, 11:59 pm: Ever thought about calling him yourself......i mean cmon if he was calling you every day before maybee he stopped calling just to see if you were really interested and to see if youd call him.....or at least thats what im thinking [ Cody's advice column | Ask Cody A Question ]
HoTtIgOtTiBaByGiRl22 answered Saturday August 14 2004, 11:39 pm: Well the same thing happened to me it was just hte otehr way around. This kid dave and I were always hanging out but I had a boyfriend and I really liked Dave and I knew he liked me too. But after I finally broke it off with my boyfriend, I just didn't go out with him. I was so confused about how I felt, and I wasn't sure if I wanted to go out with him cause we might ruin our friendship we were like best friends.((Maybe that is why he is acting like this)) I never went out with him, and now I am still in love with him, and I regret all of this. I think you should call him see what's up because if he really likes you he needs to take the risk I mean it could be the best thing to ever happen. I say you talk to him and by the way I don't think any woman understands men haha! hope I helped [ HoTtIgOtTiBaByGiRl22's advice column | Ask HoTtIgOtTiBaByGiRl22 A Question ]
dotdotdot32 answered Saturday August 14 2004, 11:26 pm: maybe hes really nervous, because by you breaking up with james for him meant that there was something more between you and him. maybe hes got the jitters. you should call. see whats goin on. and if he seems like he likes you still but is jittery, you should ask him out. there is nothing wrong with that. [ dotdotdot32's advice column | Ask dotdotdot32 A Question ]
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