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Last Update: August 16, 2004
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I am 13 years old, and I'm going to a new school. I really wanna be happy, because the last school I went to, people made fun of me and teased me because they knew I was sensitive. How do I make a good impression? What if someone teases me? How do I handle it? Btw, my school starts in a week! (link)
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best thing to do is ignore it at first(and surely dont pout or get flustered). If that certain person continues to tease you then just tell them to chill in an abrupt fashion(Can you seriously just chill with that!) sounds rediculous but works every and i mean every time. See, this person will expect you to just pout and get upset as usual, but when you tell them to chill in that slightly abrupt fashion they'll be not only shocked but also embarassed and their malice and negative sneers will no longer persist....
im sure of it : )
Hope i helped,
Cody
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ok another question...i really like this guy, but hes 2 years older than me, and he likes another girl...but at first i thought he liked me, cuz he would kinda flirt with me, but i dont think he does anymore, and my friend told him i like him but he doesnt believe her...what should i do? (link)
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yea id say tell him yourself that you like him.....if you dont think you can gather the courage or whatever it takes to do so then just ask him to go somewhere such as the movies or a concert or out to eat or just somewhere super fun....no matter what don't just give up on him because he "doesn't think you like him" believe me he knows you liek him he's just saying that because he wants to hear it from you and he wants to know that you really do liek him.
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have any of you been in a inter-racial relationship where ur parents and family didnt approve? if so what happened? and do u have any advice for me?
Manda (link)
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i recommend staying away from inter-racial relationships altogether. I know that may sound a bit shalow but they are usually not the easiest or the most fun things in the world.....now if you do decide to stick with him because you "Love" him, or think you love him make sure you are prepared for a lot of other people weather it be relatives or just random people also disapprove of your relationship. prepare for many and when i say many i mean many prejudice sneers and remarks from a multitude of people including ones youd never expect.
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i think i might have a crush on my best frineds boyfriend but u dnt wanna say anything but wut should i do? (link)
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wow,
Not a very good crush to have, as many problems can arise from this situation. DO NOT in any event act on, or talk about this crush in front of him or your bestfreind. Also even if/when they do break up, DO NOT start flirting with him or come on to him immediately after the break up because this will aslo cause huge problems between you and your best freind.I recommend you forget about him all together. But if this is not possible think about him all you like just never act on it for your own sake. I would either look for a different guy or wait for them to break up(but do not in anyway incite this breakup). I'm sure they will break up, as many relationships at your age do not last much longer than a few weeks or a month.(i'm guessing your age to be about 13-15) Once they do break up give it AT LEAST a full week if not 2 weeks before you make your move.
Hope i helped,
Cody
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I just got hives(itchy big bumps on your skin) and its from an allergic reaction. I've been taking a pill everyday so everyone thinks its from that. Does anyone know anything that can help them go away? (link)
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katie(transparent angel) is spot on with her answer.....do not discontinue use of whatever pill it is you take because im sure that pill was prescribed to you by a doctor.....instead continue use of that pill as directed by your physician or other medical practitioner and also take a trip to your local cvs,walgreens, or eckard and ask someone in there where you can find Benadyril anti-allergy or anti-hives medicine, which is a pill taken once every 6 hours(as long as hives persist). This medicine is found in a pink and white box.
Hope i helped,
Cody
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I've liked the same guy for 2 years. We are friends and all, but I know he'll never like me...But now I have two questions. My best friend EVER likes him now, and she always gets the guys she wants. I'm so mad!! What should I do about her? Also, how do I get over him and move on to another guy that might actually like me? I really need help so I'll have a good school year without losing a friend or being obsessed with a guy that'll never like me!!? (link)
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In my opinion you should not be mad at your freind at all......if after 2 years neither you nor he has made a move maybee you should just realize that its not meant to be AT ALL.....as for your freind i will not tell you to be happy for her and him if eventually they do get together because telling you to be happy for them is complete bullshit and youd be lieing to yourself. HAHA you know your a chronic liar when you start lieing to yourself......anyway, to get another guy i mean cmon just open your eyes, im sure you go to school with over 100 of them, probably more than that....and if you cant find another one you like then just wait it out till someone comes along that you do like. Also even though you may think that a certain guy is "OK" looking don't automatically count him out especially because guys and girls alike always turn out looking much different later on in life and who knows he may grow up to be a super fly hubby(laff).....anyway hope i helped and dont be mad at your freind because all that would do is show how selfish you are and how much you were not really serious about your freindship with her.....
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Okay,my friends bf told my friend that he made a "uh oh".And he went to his ex-girlfriends house last night and they had sex and like he said that he made her pregnant.And my friend is really pissed cuz he cheated on her and she is also not really believeign that he made her preg. Cuz like how long does it take to know if you got someone pregnant?Well thx for the advice.BYE (link)
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your all wrong it doesn't take longer than that to tell because you can do the "next day pregnancy test" believe me my girlfreind has done it on more thna one occasion because of broken condoms : (
anyway in my opinion he might be telling her this because he wants her to feel jealous and whatnot...and yes i think she should get rid of him weather the other chick is pregnant or not because no matter hwat there is no excuse for cheating.....
hope i helped,
Cody
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Alright, so there was this boy that I was hanging out with like everyday for a few weeks(lets call him Matt)...I met him through a friend...he liked me and I liked him...problem was I had a boyfriend(lets call him James), but things weren't going well with him. Well anyways, according to all of Matt's friend, Matt really liked me. So my best friend (who is also a really close friend of Matt's) said that Matt wanted to go out with me, and wanted me to break up with my boyfriend so he could ask me out. Well, I wanted to go out with Matt, so I told James (my boyfriend of the time) that I wanted to cool things...and then I told Matt that me and James were in the process of breaking up. I thought Matt would like that, but instead he starting being all weird and almost acting like he was avoiding me. Then, the next day he doesn't even call (he would call me everyday). Then a few days later he did call and asked if I wanted to hang out. I said sure, and he said "Ok cool I'll call you back in a few minutes when I get to the park". He never called back and I haven't heard from him in like 1 1/2 weeks...so what is UP with this?! I don't get it! HELP! lol (link)
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Ever thought about calling him yourself......i mean cmon if he was calling you every day before maybee he stopped calling just to see if you were really interested and to see if youd call him.....or at least thats what im thinking
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http://www.journeys.com/catalog_detail.aspx?id=23819
the pink and blue roos
or ... the pink and gray vans
http://www.zappos.com/n/p/dp/1560623/c/12819.html
or this??
http://www.zappos.com/n/p/dp/2086937/c/12820.html
PLEASE GIVE ME AN OPINION ASAP PLEASE PLEASE MODERATOR DONT DELETE I NEED THE OPINION (link)
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the first ones are terrible in my opinion and the second two(the vans) you should not get if you are over the age of 13.......cuz they are definately something a thirteen year old girl wears. In fact im pretty sure my sister has that last pair
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ok i met this girl lets call her megan through one of my other friends while i was out of town well we started talkin on the phone and now i have noticed there is kinda a lil connection between us but i have never seen her but like she really likes me and like one of her friends called me up to tell me that she really aproved of me and megan going out and that megan really likes me which to me seems all ok but the thing that worries me is that she is a year younger then me (i am 15) and that all my friends don't really like her atleast the ones that know her they all think she is like a bitch and stuff but i hold my friends opions very close to me cause alot of the time when they tell me somethin it's trueand i may just not be able to see it so do i go with chioce A. meet her then ask her out B. just go ahead now and ask her out without ever seeing her or choice C.just forget about the whole thing
Gabe (link)
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well choice B is rediculous of course because you've never even seen the girl before and thats just trouble, but here lemmy adress this in detail.......If you do hold your friends opinions high in your esteem then ask them exactly what they don't like about her and why exactly they think she is a bitch....now obviously if they give lagitamit reasons then of course forget about the whole thing. If they come up with no real reasons why she is a bitch then i would ask them if they would be mad if you did start talking to her and possibly even go out with her.....if they say they would really be annoyed if you did then obviously this isn't going to work out because these situations involving friends and girlfriends hating each other just never work out......so my advice is talk to your friends about it a little more in depth and then by the end of that conversation im sure you'll be able to draw your own conclusion as what to do...... hope i helped Gabe and goodluck
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ok theres this guy (hes 1 year older than me and im 14F)i met this summer and we had been talkin on the phone for hours before we ever met. we had planned to go to the movies on a tuesday night, but i cancled abotu an hour before he was gunna pik me up, because my uncle was in the hospital. then we decided to met with me friends on a thursday night. when he came i had been drinking but not alot and he only stayed around for a few min. when he left he called my friends cell and said that i was a liyer. I didnt know why because all the things that i had told him about me were true. i told him that i was 5'7" and weighed about 110 lbs. and described my face and all of that. my other friend then called him adn asked y i was a liyer adn he said casue i wanst what he expected adn that i should of described myself better.i dont know what to do..... should i confront him? help!! (link)
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To be completely honest i'm not trying to be mean in any way but he obviously wasn't outrageously attracted to what he saw(not saying your not hot). If he is so shallow that by one look of you he left after a few minutes and said your a liar and you werent what he expected then he is definately not worth your time.... your best bet is not to confront him at all though, just end whatever it was now and wait for the next guy to wander by.
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ok well before i left for hawaii .. june 26th.. this guy i like came over and we made out and he said the sweetest things to me like i dont want u to go, im gonna miss u so much, manuel (my ex) is so stupid for leavin u bc ur so beautiful.. blahblahblah stuff like that and now its been like a month and i still havnt seen him he calls like maybe once a week and like we made plans for last tuesday but then he never called or wutever. his best friend cole tells me all the time that he likes me and stuff so i mean idk wut to do cuz i mean i still like him soo much but i havnt seen him since the nite before i left for hawaii and grr idk he makes me mad bc he said all those things and now hes not doin anything at all. wut do u think happened/???
kristin (link)
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I agree i think YOU should take the initiative and ask him if he wants to do anything....another thing is ask "cole" if this kid is serious about you and if so why doesn't he ever fallow through with his plans and why does he seem uninterested. If ya ask me, i think he either just plain lost interest or has become slightly more interested with another girl or something along those lines...now of course dont take my word for it and don't judge him over that it's just something to think about
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I know the whole purpose of this is for ppl to complain about why relationships are the way they are... but what i wanna know is... who's to judge your relationship?!? I know everyone needs help with stuff sometimes... but what makes you people think that stressing over someone is really worth it? The constant worrying and wondering... it starts to do some pretty screwed up things to people! Im not tryin to be mean or pick on people but ive always had a theory that relationships arent reliable until later years, like your 20s and 30's, when people are emotionally ready to handle things! Ive never been a huge fan of dating, because why waste time on someone whos just gonna hurt you anyways, relationships always end... unless your extremely lucky! So my advice that i wish to seek is... Why are people so dependent on a relationship? Its called INDEPENDENCE!!
Sincerly, *NeverBeenLucky* (link)
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Some people need to be with someone and need to be dating someone basically at all times weather it be because of insecurities or other such related things....in some cases people like dating just because it is something to do something to meet knew people with and something to get out of the house for......I personally agree with you in a few ways but i still enjoy dating not because i depend on it, but rather because i enjoy just having that slightly more intimate bond with someone....
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--i have a friend who i seriously think is in love with her best friend! hez really sweet and treats her like gold! the only reason nothing hasnt went down between them yet is the fact that he is *20* and she is *15* i know that is a big age difference! but i was just thinkin if maybe they should try something in the future of course!? (link)
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i agree in a way with some of the other answeres in a way but also id like to add something.....in my opinion 15 years old for a girl is kinda too young to make any decisions like that....i think that at 15 a girl might like or think she loves a guy that is 20 just for the fact that he is 20, and even if he is a really sweet guy and all and even though age might not matter in some cases.....in this case it's a huge age gap and they both might not be realizing what they are getting into.....if he even touches her sexually at all even if it is concentual her parents good press charges for sexual harassment or even rape.....if they were ever considering getting togeather my advice is to positively wait until she is 18 to do anything at all(cuz ya never know with parents) and even then he will be 23 and she'll be 18. By this point he will most likely be long gone(being tired of waiting or going off to college) or he will realize that she might just be a bit too young for her.........hope i helped
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Is it safe to cook with pans if they're getting rust spots in them? (link)
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if the rust sports are on the outside then no worries at all....if they are on the inside i would recomend investing in some nice, new, non-stick pans.....they are great, last a long time, nothing sticks to them, and they never ever rust!! hope i helped (anyway if the spots are on the inside its not even an issue of safety anymore i mean cmon how good can food taste if its covered with rust...?)
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ahh i have so much celulight on my butt! what are some ways to get rid of it?? PLEASE HELP!! (link)
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heres the thing.....people are commonly under the misconception that if your butt is fat then you can work out your but muscle to reduce fat, or that if you have somewhat of a gut then you can work out your abs to lose that as well....etc. etc. This is in no way true at all, by doing excercises and such in that area will only strangthen that muscle and possibly make it look more defined(but not if fat covers the definition). So my advice is to rather than work out muscles, just work out period. So think about maybee taking a walk each day or a light jog or any type of physical excercise will burn calories and hopefully reduce fat in your body.....(and whats the worst you can get out of excercising??? be in shape??good cardio-vascular??....any way you look at it excercise will benefit you in many ways)
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wat can u do to make ur penis bigger?(and plz dont say just wait)
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aright man listen up.....every guy(me being one) is self concious about physical features of themselves. For some guys its that they hate their hair, or they think they have bad acne, or in your case they think they have a small penis. To be completely honest there are no sure fire methods of penis growth(especially putting weights on it!?!?) except for surgery which is in my opinion extremely rediculous. I can also asure you that no no no girl will ever call you out on it even if it is true that you do indeed have a small penis(unless she is heartless). Believe me, i used to have the same problem about being self concious about every one of my physical features. Just be happy with what you have and they will be too.....i'm sure of it (one more thing im not sure if this is entirely true but i've heard in the past that punchin the munchkin, tickling the pickle, etc. excessively may stunt the growth of it, so try not to do that very often........)
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Just curious if this is any good or not...wrote it awhile ago
Tomorrow Never Comes
If tomorrow never comes,
And time quickly slips away
Will you float away happy
Or surely regret every living day?
If tomorrow never comes,
Will you regret every smile you never gave?
All the words you never said?
A phone call never made?
Think about it now
And think about it clear
If tomorrow never came
Would you look back and shed a tear?
For all the time your determination fell short?
Or when you painfully just gave up
Would you spend your days crying?
Or spend them living it up?
Would you talk shit behind people’s backs?
And give into the cruelty of society
Would you spend your last day angry
What would be your #1 priority?
Where will you spend your last day?
The last beat of your drum
If, by chance
Tomorrow never comes?
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slightly depressing but the poetry isn't bad at all. Nice job and keep witing poetry cuz its fun and you pretty good at it : )
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HI IM SEXY =) ..WUTS UR S/N .. ? ..
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aim = musketeer21 (yea terrible but i made it in 5th grade and just stuck with it)
how old are you? and where do you live? if you don't mind me askin.....
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I'm in love with my boyfriend and we're thinking about having sex. The only problem/issue I have is...do guys like hair 'down there'? I mean most guys dont, some guys dont care. Do they like it trimmed, shaven or what? I'm a virgin as you can probably tell & 15 years old & I'm not sure what guys like my age! I'm not going to ask him myself! (link)
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i might be a little late on this reply but......the ultimate thing to do of course is the landing strip(acts as a directional device for him in the dark) so shave everything but a small line of hair down the center above the vagina itself
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