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--i have a friend who i seriously think is in love with her best friend! hez really sweet and treats her like gold! the only reason nothing hasnt went down between them yet is the fact that he is *20* and she is *15* i know that is a big age difference! but i was just thinkin if maybe they should try something in the future of course!?
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Yeah they should try something in the future just not know.. to wierd.. ya no?-trix
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Does this guy value his freedom? If he does......he needs to remain friends ONLY with an underage girl. Anything else would be illegal and he could risk statutory rape charges, even if she consents to physical contact. The law is the deciding factor....... case closed. If she is serious about him, they'll both have to put it on hold until she is 17 or 18 (each state has specific laws about age limits for physical relationships).
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well u know. this is really none of your business so you should just let them do what they want to do. stop butting into other peoples private lives.
NickSwart0320
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well u need to show her that if they do make soemthing happen or she tries to it will ruin their friendship adn even if it doesnt and they remain cool they will still feel ockward at some points i have made that mistake before adn i thot we wood still be friends but it was too ockward so u must get that through her head trust me
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Yeah tell her to wait about three years. At 15 and 20,that's way too much. He's in college,she starting her sophomore year in high school. Yeah they can try whatever they want in the future.
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o0o0o if u think they should go farther then u should tell ur friend bout it.Maybe she will relise it and maybe ive it a try.Really age aint nuthun but a # n az long az u both love eachother then thats all that really matters. I hoped i help! Plz Rate! 0x0 Krazzi Shawty
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i agree in a way with some of the other answeres in a way but also id like to add something.....in my opinion 15 years old for a girl is kinda too young to make any decisions like that....i think that at 15 a girl might like or think she loves a guy that is 20 just for the fact that he is 20, and even if he is a really sweet guy and all and even though age might not matter in some cases.....in this case it's a huge age gap and they both might not be realizing what they are getting into.....if he even touches her sexually at all even if it is concentual her parents good press charges for sexual harassment or even rape.....if they were ever considering getting togeather my advice is to positively wait until she is 18 to do anything at all(cuz ya never know with parents) and even then he will be 23 and she'll be 18. By this point he will most likely be long gone(being tired of waiting or going off to college) or he will realize that she might just be a bit too young for her.........hope i helped
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It's entirely up to them.
I know a couple with a six year age difference (he's 21, she's 15), and neither of them have been happier. I've known them both since I was in 8th grade.
I maintain that age is a state of mind, not body.
Hope I helped!
-Siren =)
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The age thing may be big now but in a few years it won't be. Them getting together in the future is a great idea. He seems like a great guy and good guys are hard to find these days.
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Yeah...I think in the future they should definetely try somethin...if they are best friends theyd probaly have a great relationship...I hope I helped...GOOD LUCK!
*much love*
*~tasha~* {plz rate}
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if they really love eachother then it shouldn't be a problem. remember, age is just a number and it shouldn't affect the way you feel about someone. see what happens!
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