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should i or not?
ok i met this girl lets call her megan through one of my other friends while i was out of town well we started talkin on the phone and now i have noticed there is kinda a lil connection between us but i have never seen her but like she really likes me and like one of her friends called me up to tell me that she really aproved of me and megan going out and that megan really likes me which to me seems all ok but the thing that worries me is that she is a year younger then me (i am 15) and that all my friends don't really like her atleast the ones that know her they all think she is like a bitch and stuff but i hold my friends opions very close to me cause alot of the time when they tell me somethin it's trueand i may just not be able to see it so do i go with chioce A. meet her then ask her out B. just go ahead now and ask her out without ever seeing her or choice C.just forget about the whole thing
Gabe
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Gabe, you should just follow what your heart tells you to do. Okay, your friends may be right a lot of times, but that doesn't mean they're right ALL the time.So if you really like "Megan" then you go for it.Good luck~!!n I hope I helped.
-tori
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I had the exact same problem with my best friend. Everyone knew he was gay but he just wasn't ready to tell. He eventually came out,and gained alot more respect for it. However, don't rush him into confessing anything, he'll do it eventually if he IS gay, it's not an easy thing for someone to come out and say. The best thing you can do is continue to be his friend, stick up for him when someoen calls him gay (EVEN IF YOU AGREE) and eventually he'll come out, when HE'S ready. We forced my friend too, and it's something I regret a whole bunch looking back on. Just don't hassle him about it...like I said, he'll come out some day, that is, if he's gay...he could just be feminine?
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well choice B is rediculous of course because you've never even seen the girl before and thats just trouble, but here lemmy adress this in detail.......If you do hold your friends opinions high in your esteem then ask them exactly what they don't like about her and why exactly they think she is a bitch....now obviously if they give lagitamit reasons then of course forget about the whole thing. If they come up with no real reasons why she is a bitch then i would ask them if they would be mad if you did start talking to her and possibly even go out with her.....if they say they would really be annoyed if you did then obviously this isn't going to work out because these situations involving friends and girlfriends hating each other just never work out......so my advice is talk to your friends about it a little more in depth and then by the end of that conversation im sure you'll be able to draw your own conclusion as what to do...... hope i helped Gabe and goodluck
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my answer is somewhere between A and C, but not B. You have never even met this chick, so you can't just ask her out sight unseen. plus, you should meet her before just blindly going with your friends opinions. thats not cool. girls like it when you like them for them, and not just because your friends "approve". and the age thing... age aint nothin but a number baby. :) good luck
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Well I think u should go with choice A meet her then ask her out.
~*~kendal~*~
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Definetely A...who cares what ur friends think...but definetely meet her in person and hang out and stuff and see if she's ur type..I hope I helped...GOOD LUCK!!
*much love*
*~tasha~* {please rate..thanks!}
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