I know the whole purpose of this is for ppl to complain about why relationships are the way they are... but what i wanna know is... who's to judge your relationship?!? I know everyone needs help with stuff sometimes... but what makes you people think that stressing over someone is really worth it? The constant worrying and wondering... it starts to do some pretty screwed up things to people! Im not tryin to be mean or pick on people but ive always had a theory that relationships arent reliable until later years, like your 20s and 30's, when people are emotionally ready to handle things! Ive never been a huge fan of dating, because why waste time on someone whos just gonna hurt you anyways, relationships always end... unless your extremely lucky! So my advice that i wish to seek is... Why are people so dependent on a relationship? Its called INDEPENDENCE!!
Sincerly, *NeverBeenLucky*
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? blackmamba answered Sunday July 25 2004, 2:23 am: i guess im pretty lucky then, because i am in a long and loving relationship and im only 17, so therefore, i think im credible in answering questions about "young love". and im still independent so i dont really understand what you are saying. are you critisizing relationships because you have a cynical view on them ( judging by your name...) because not everyone has the same opinion as you. its kinda not cool to discourage the other people on this site because of their choice to have a relationship. sorry but i speaka the truth. [ blackmamba's advice column | Ask blackmamba A Question ]
Cody answered Sunday July 25 2004, 1:59 am: Some people need to be with someone and need to be dating someone basically at all times weather it be because of insecurities or other such related things....in some cases people like dating just because it is something to do something to meet knew people with and something to get out of the house for......I personally agree with you in a few ways but i still enjoy dating not because i depend on it, but rather because i enjoy just having that slightly more intimate bond with someone.... [ Cody's advice column | Ask Cody A Question ]
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