ok me and my friend have been friends for a while and stuff but anyways. ever since i took her to youth group at my church everybody seems to liek her more now then they do me... they are all her friends instead of mine!!and im really hooked on my bf and whenevr i talk about him she gets mad but i dont get mad when she talks about guys thats shes not even going out with.. what do i do? do i take a break from her? help!
Mercy_x_Me answered Sunday July 25 2004, 1:52 pm: ok sounds like a mess and I've seen the same thing happen before. Anyway.. you go to youth group for religion, right? So forget the people there! And she doesnt even sound like a sweetie b/c shes taking over all your friends, doesnt want to hear a word about your bf, shes a crazy jerk! So ignore her for a while, she'll call up begging you back and if she doesnt so what! Shes not nice enough to care then!
S_C answered Sunday July 25 2004, 8:46 am: it sounds like yall did (still do?) have a good friendship except that one lil thing
try talkin to her, if she blows her steam, then idk if she's a good enuff friend, but if she understands, and tries not to act that way, then maybe everything will get better
actually ur friend sounds sorta how i used to be (not the whole boy thing tho, just takin all the friends)
but ever since my friend talked to me about that, i actually changed a lil bit, and now im not like that, sumtimes i slip up, but still just talk to ur friend it'll all work out in the end
bAhAmAmA0250 answered Sunday July 25 2004, 4:08 am: Well just talk to her about it.. dont just take a break that makes it sound like your going out with her.. kaleigh took a "break" from our friendship and that was her call and after that it was never the same.. so think about it-trix [ bAhAmAmA0250's advice column | Ask bAhAmAmA0250 A Question ]
blackmamba answered Sunday July 25 2004, 2:32 am: she's a new face.. usually new people to a group get the most attention; that's pretty much the norm. and why does she get so mad when you talk about your boyfriend? unless you talk about him obsessivley like every other sentence( which i highly doubt) then i dont know what her problem is. it could be that shes jealous that you have a boyfriend and she doesnt. maybe you should kind of set her straight. tell her that you are happy you are with your boyfriend and it makes you happy to talk about him because you are proud and if she doesnt like that, then she can jump off a bridge ( not serious.. dont tell her that its kind of a mean example but you get what i mean, right?) if she does get mad, then yeah i suggest a little break. [ blackmamba's advice column | Ask blackmamba A Question ]
blueyedchic answered Sunday July 25 2004, 2:12 am: maybe u could take her aside and have a talk with her about everything that has changed and if she doesnt understand what ur trying to say then maybe u should take a break from her but first try to talk it out.
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