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I've liked the same guy for 2 years. We are friends and all, but I know he'll never like me...But now I have two questions. My best friend EVER likes him now, and she always gets the guys she wants. I'm so mad!! What should I do about her? Also, how do I get over him and move on to another guy that might actually like me? I really need help so I'll have a good school year without losing a friend or being obsessed with a guy that'll never like me!!?
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well somethings just dont work out. but you shouldnt pick a guy over your friends. that or talk to ur friend about it. but i no its hard to get over a guy. u just have to keep trying and telling..urself that u dont like him. and u can like him to even tho ur bff like him...i hope i helped....
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Talk to youR fRiend about it; in a polite manneR. Let heR know how much it iRRitates you, and how much you would appReciate it if she could manage to contRol heRself and NOT tRy anything with this guy. And the b.e.s.t way to get oveR someone is to find a new infatuation. Also, I'm not shoRe what kind of music ya dig, but it helps me to blast some female empoweRing music; such as : Madonna, ChRistina AguileRa, P!nk, Destiny's Child, Michelle BRanch, Mandy MooRe and BRitney SpeaRs!! That *ALWAYS* seems to help me; peRhaps it will woRk foR you as well!! I wish you the best!! I hope I've been of some help!! Take caRe!! =D
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In my opinion you should not be mad at your freind at all......if after 2 years neither you nor he has made a move maybee you should just realize that its not meant to be AT ALL.....as for your freind i will not tell you to be happy for her and him if eventually they do get together because telling you to be happy for them is complete bullshit and youd be lieing to yourself. HAHA you know your a chronic liar when you start lieing to yourself......anyway, to get another guy i mean cmon just open your eyes, im sure you go to school with over 100 of them, probably more than that....and if you cant find another one you like then just wait it out till someone comes along that you do like. Also even though you may think that a certain guy is "OK" looking don't automatically count him out especially because guys and girls alike always turn out looking much different later on in life and who knows he may grow up to be a super fly hubby(laff).....anyway hope i helped and dont be mad at your freind because all that would do is show how selfish you are and how much you were not really serious about your freindship with her.....
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Well i would make sure if whether or not if the other guy actually likes you for one thing and if he does consider it if you like him. And do you tell your friend about all the guys you like? It may be that your friend doesnt want you to be with a guy and takes them away or wants all the guys you want cause its an easy pick im not sure exactly but i would just sit down and think of what to do with her and also consider your feelings with the other guy if you like him. Its not much but i hoped i helped.
~Dom
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First of all does your best friend know you like the guy ? If so she should not even try to date him if she is a good friend ! I think u should tell her how u feel ! And about the guy ! Gurl there are soo many guys out there who would like u and ur personality better than anyone ! U just have to let him come to u !:) Good luck ! Hope i helped ! Feel free to ask me for advice anytime www.advicenator.com/shandiebaby11 !
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I have a friend like this. If you guys are still friends, maybe he's afraid that you will lose your friendship or he doesn't think of you in that way. Just play cool for a little while and see what happens. Don't let this girl get in your way. If God wants it to happen, with a little help from him and a little effort from you, it will work out. Just drop in a few extra special presents every once in a while, randomly. Maybe that will work. Remember, food is always a good way to a mans heart.
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Well if you really are positive that he'll NEVER EVER EVER like you then just face it..even though its probaly not true but ifyou think so...Just keep tellin yourself that you don't like him.Start lookin for someone that you think will like you or someone that you just have feeligns for.Start likeing him and tell him what you feel.*guys like that* As for your friend who cares..if she wants to go out w/ him let her. Its not like they'll be together forever. Act liek you dont care.and you shouldn't. I hope i helped. GOOD LUCK!
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