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There's this guy at my school and this year I was pretty friendly with him, but I always said we were just friends nothing more. My friends noticed that we were flirting (tho I didn't think we were.) They really started annoying him and saying we belonged together. So at the end of the year my friends were saying how we should go out at the last dance and he was really embarrased and walked out. Now this whole summer I felt so guilty about this and I can't. I'm wonder get him out of my mind. Does it sound like I like him as more than a friend. Please help school starts on August 30th! (link)
It sounds like you might like him, but only you can decide that. It doesn't really sound like your friends are helping much by embarassing him. I think you should talk to this guy and apologize for what happened the previous year.

Only you can decide if you like him, and if you do, try and talk to him and tell him your feelings.

Hope I helped!


hi okay my best friend and i were hanging out with this guy, and we were just kinda laying with him and i didn't know this but after he left she told me that he had felt her. She knew i liked him and im kinda mad that she let him do this, she stopped after awhile..but.. she said she was really sorry.. i dont kno wat to say to her..i don't think she knows i am mad and i don't really know how to handle this. (link)
Wow, I had this same exact problem a few months ago. I'll try to help you as best I can:

Your friend sounds like she cares about you and wants to pursue your friendship more than she wants to pursue any kind of relationship with this guy. She says she is sorry, and she at least told you that the guy was doing that to her... so I have to give her some credit for that.

Maybe you should talk to your friend and tell her that you were upset about how she let the guy you liked do that to her. If you talked it out with her, you could probably work out the problem. I didn't talk to my friend when she did the same thing to me, I just got pissed off and ignored her for a little bit. I don't want that to happen to you, so try talking to her and telling her how you feel. If she really is a true friend, she'll understand.. and I'm getting the feeling she is a true friend because of the fact that she apologized to you, and she told you what was happening with the guy.

Hope I helped... good luck!


ok so my mom found out something i did with my bf long story but i got in trouble and got this whole thing about how i broke my trust with her. so tommroow i am going to my friends n my bf will be there i really wana go and idk how to ask cuz she said i wouldnt be doen anything for a while cuz of what i did. please help i want her to trust me i wish i could just talk to her more all i want is to have fun and to be pushed aside a little. im just a teenager...i make mistakes. please help me soon (link)
Talk to your mom, and explain to her what you said on here... that you're a teenager and you make mistakes, and you're still learning about things in life. My mom has a big trust thing too, so I know how you feel. You should explain to her that she has to try and understand and see from your perspective of things. You should tell her that you need not only a mother, but someone to talk to and open up to.

If you want to go to your friend's house, tell your mom you want to go there. You don't necessarily have to tell her your boyfriend is gonna be there, but if you feel she will give the right reaction, then you can... if trust is of an importance to you.

Hope that wasn't too confusing... hope I helped.. good luck!


u c there this guy and he like sme and this other girl likes him but we know that me likes me and not him but that other girl trys to stel him away what should i do i m me at
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paige (link)
Hey, if this girl is trying to steal this guy away from you... you should talk to her about it. Or, you could tell the guy about it, and he can talk to her. You said that he likes you and not her, so he can tell her that he likes you and not her... and hopefully it will go well. Lol... hope that wasn't too confusing... Good luck!!


how do you know when your having sex????? (link)
Because there's something in you that's not your own finger, and you're enjoying it.

P.S. - I know where you live, you sick child.


how do you make a cake?? (link)
You take a chainsaw, put it to your head, turn it on... and then you see that little thing inside your head? Feel around for a bit, it may be hard to find. Well, that's your brain.. put it in a bowl and mix thoroughly. For extra flavor, add some cinnamon.


Is it weird that I'm obsessed with movies? I love Lord of the Rings and know the dialog. And I'm obsessed with Rocky Horror Picture Show, Donnie Darko, Napoleon Dynamite, and Edward Scissorhands. (link)
Hahahah, no.. it's not weird that your obsessed with movies. I'm obsessed with Rocky Horror Picture Show too, as well as anything Marilyn Manson has ever been in, lol. I'm, like, so obsessed with Marilyn Manson and his band it's not even funny... probably as obsessed as you are with LOTR. Therefore, if it's weird to be obsessed with things, we're both weird. And I'M the one giving advice to people.

Hope that helped Johanna.. uhhh I mean.. random stranger...


Which is better, St. Anthony's or Academy of St. Joseph???? (link)
Academy of St. Joseph in my opinion, because it's smaller and I can't stand large amounts of people. Also, because it's girls-only, and that makes it so much easier to concentrate on your school-work inside school, and guys outside of school. St. Anthony's has way too many people and is co-ed, so I would kill myself if I went there. No offence to anyone going there, though.


My friend is having a birthday/sleepover party this weekend. Problem is..I dont like sleeping over anybody`s house (just a problem I have) I do sometimes though..but i reeally dont like it. Plus, the friends shes inviting are people i dont know at all.Please help, i dont want to go to this party..what should i say to my friend? I really dont feel comfortable sleeping over someone`s house ive never been to before.My friend, whos going to be there, knows about my problem and im afraid shes going to tell.Should I make up a dumb excuse or admit my problem and jus hang at her house til like 10? I really dont wanna hurt my friends feelings or embarass myself.
Thank you soo much for the help in advance!!! (link)
I don't like sleeping over anyone's houses much either. Maybe you can go to your friend's house for a little while? That way, you're not hurting her feelings as much, because you came to her party for a little while, you just didn't sleep over. Either that, or you could tell your friend about how you don't like to sleep over other people's houses, and if she's a true friend, she'll understand. Hope that helped!


nd shes really nice to me when its just us but if she is with another friend she is a butthead and i get madf at her all the time but then we talk on the fone or5 have a good time sumwhere and we r friends again what shuld i do i am mad at her again (link)
Ask your friend why she acts differently around her other friends than she does when she's only with you. I had a friend like that, and I handled things the wrong way and we got into a huge fight. Don't be like me, tell her that it's bothering you, and if she's a true friend than she will understand. Hope that helped.


i wanna start a sport in my school how would i do that?
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Um.. k.. lol Just stick to joining other sports at school, and if you want to start your own sport, work on it until you've perfected your sport.. and talk to your PE teacher about maybe playing it in PE one day. Hope that helped.


why r carrots orange?
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Because they're not blue.


Why do ppl moan when having sex?
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Because it pisses off the neighbors.


hey...im 13 nd i weigh 115..

the thing is that by the end of the summer i wanna weigh 110/ 105...

but even wen i excercise nd skip meals i dont lose the weight...so i as thinkin bout starvin myself..nd the only thing ill drink is water..i did this b4 4 a week..but my mom found out nd i got in2 trouble..but idc nemore..the more my life sux..the more i wanna do this..except i eat newayz..nd i get so mad at myself..so i guess u could say im depressed nd starve myself..((or atleast try))..but how can i overcome this? (link)
This is EXACTLY what my problem is right now, as well. I'm 14, but I weigh almost 130 and I hate it and want to lose the weight badly. However, I'm addicted to McDonald's and soda, so that's why, lol. I tried to starve myself as well, but like you.. my mom found out and I had to go to guidance. So, I'll try and help as best as I can:

Personally, I think 115 is a fine weight, but if you want to lose some pounds, it's up to you to make that decision.

Don't starve yourself totally, it will only hurt you and you could end up dying. Try eating healthy foods and low-fat foods. It's good that you're drinking water. When you're upset, you tend to eat more... so think about the positives in your life; your friends [the good ones], your sports, whatever makes you happy. Maybe you have a friend who wants to lose some weight as well? You can work with them and maybe having a friend trying to achieve the same goal as you will push you more towards your goal.

And if you starve yourself, you can become more fragile and INJURE YOURSELF.. especially if you play sports. [I think that will be of importance to you.]


Hope that helped.


ok heres the problem..me nd my bf fight a lot..actually mostly everytime we c eachother..nd then we solve everythin nd its all cool..i rele rele luv him tho..but im under so much stress nd i jus hate myself 4 fightin w. him..so yesterday we made 1 huger big promise about trust nd that we wont fite nemore..b/c if we fight 1 more time were breakin up..{ive already wanted 2 but i luv him 2 much}..but now he says that he cant take it nemore 2..nd idk wut 2 do..i think we can get thru this..but im scared...i dont want 2 lose him

HELP!! (link)
Okay, I've never had a boyfriend so I cannot relate, but I'll try and help the best I can.

When you fight, don't get too upset about it... stop and think about what made you/him mad, and try to see it from his side of the story as well as yours. Now, if you want to avoid fighting, talk to your boyfriend if something's bothering you, don't blow up in his face. Tell him to do the same with you. If he really loves you, he'll want to make the relationship work too, and the both of you should talk about ways you can avoid conflicts.

Hope that helped.


hey..i'm headed to High School in a week..9th grade..in a few advanced classes..bio,geometry..spansish..etc..anyways..
what are some things that are a must have for high school? like as far as notebooks,folders..?stuff like that..
also..i'm very unorganized when it comes to my school papers and such..so plz keep that in mind when thinking of things i should buy..
thanx a bunch.. (link)
I'm going into high school too, but my high school doesn't give out a supply list, as I'm sure not many do anyway. I'm just going to buy a 5-subject notebook and some pens, and wait for the teachers to tell us what to buy for their class. You might be better off just buying one notebook for the first few days, as well as some writing utensils, and then when you get to the classes.. see what the teacher would want you to get for their specific class. I'm VERY messy with my papers and schoolwork as well. Some teachers will even force you to have a table of contents and number the papers in it, and if you have teachers like that.. it's great to get in the habit of being more neater.

I still think that you should wait until you hear what each specific teacher wants for their class.. so you don't end up wasting money or having to go back out again.


What is the best cd made from:

Black Sabbath?
KISS?
ACDC?
Jimi Hendrix? (link)
Black Sabbath's Paranoid was my personal fave. Blizzard of Ozz too, although that's usually listed as Ozzy Osbourne.

KISS has a lot of good shit out there, but 'Alive!' was my favorite. I liked the Best of KISS cd too.

AC/DC - Highway to Hell.

I don't really listen to Hendrix.


what do you do when your best freind almost always has her bf over when you are around and yet wont do anythign with you and your man? and she almost always has him come over when you are over, knowing that you arent too fond of him, but you are giving him a chance for her sake. but everytime i mention hanging out the four of us, she says no, i gotta do this or that and she wont even hang out, but she even brings him over to my house and thigns like that. what am i supposed to do? (link)
If she brings her boyfriend to your house with her, bring your boyfriend too... that way you have him there, as well as your friend and her boyfriend. Did you try to talk to her about this? Maybe if you confront her about it, she may see from your side of the story.


ok so heres my problem. You see, Im leaving the school Im in now, and I guess Im kinda scared. OK really scared. Idk anyone at the new school and theres 600 kids in my grade. And thats a big difference from my old school. Anyway I get really shy if Idk anyone. And I dont want my friends to think that Im ditchin them if I cant hang out. B/C this year I want to focus on sports and school. ((Last year I didnt do so well in school)) And Idk what to do because Im scared that ppl wont like me for me. And I just want my friends at home to know that Ill always be here for them no matter wut and that me goin to a different skool could never come between our friendship. Theyve always been there for me and Im gonna miss them sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo much. And I know weve been through so much at our skool, but no1 could ever match up to my friends!!!!...BFFL (link)
I have two friends that are going to different schools, and I understand the importance of education to them. I, however, do not plan to go to college or bother with anything like that.. but I can understand people wanting to have a good, rich and happy life with a career they enjoy. I understand going to different schools can help acedemically, and that, especially if it's a Catholic school, colleges may accept you faster.

I'm sure your friends know that, and there's always those few who will believe it's all bullshit [I know that kind]. Will you still be able to go on AIM? You can talk to them there, and it's not like you're completely moving away, so you may possibly be able to hang out on weekends and such, who knows what'll happen. True friends will understand that you're going to have new friends, new enemies, new problems, and new projects and reports due.. as well as sports to practice for. I don't think true friends would hold it against you if you didn't see them as often.

As for not knowing anyone in the school.. dress in your favorite clothes that completely describe your style and tastes. People that like the 'vibe' you send out or the taste you have in things may come and talk to you. You may meet new people through sports and such as well. Going into middle school, I had one friend and eventually made even more friends. Sometimes it's good to get a fresh start and start over. If people tend to be snobby, there's always going to be people that hate the snobs, and you can hang with them. I don't know, maybe that helps, or maybe this is a shitty answer, lol. Hope it helped, though.

- :)


How are babies made? (link)
You fuck. And then you sit around with a watermelon in your stomach for nine months.

I prefer to think that the stork is somewhat behind this [he was probably pissed we were blaming the birth of little weird kids on him]

- :)




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