what do you do when your best freind almost always has her bf over when you are around and yet wont do anythign with you and your man? and she almost always has him come over when you are over, knowing that you arent too fond of him, but you are giving him a chance for her sake. but everytime i mention hanging out the four of us, she says no, i gotta do this or that and she wont even hang out, but she even brings him over to my house and thigns like that. what am i supposed to do?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? MaNdASzHElP247 answered Sunday August 15 2004, 2:26 pm: Well maybe you should just forget about spending SO much time with her, and go spend time with your man or another friend. Obviously shes nervous about something...try asking her. Tell her you guys need to spend some time WITHOUT the guys. Her boyfriend doesnt have to be there with her every time. Have her stay over for a night, so you guys can talk and watch movies n stuff. Fun stuff. There are over controlling boyfriends, and maybe hes one of them.. unless your FOR SURE your friend is the one saying no and every time she goes over to your house SHE brings HIM along. i hope you get what i mean lol. HOPEfUlly she will tell you whats going on. -aMaNdA<3* [ MaNdASzHElP247's advice column | Ask MaNdASzHElP247 A Question ]
Mackenzie answered Sunday August 15 2004, 2:17 pm: I would talk to heR about it. Tell heR that you always hang out with heR man, so out of Respect foR you... she should do the same. Hope things woRk out!! =D [ Mackenzie's advice column | Ask Mackenzie A Question ]
SeXyBLuEyEzGuRL answered Sunday August 15 2004, 1:26 pm: just stop hanging out with her. she's being really dumb right now. i dont see why it's okay for her to have her guy over when you're there but she wont hang out with you and your guy?? if you're at her house n she invites her b/f over then go home. tell her you cant see why you can hang out with her and her b/f when she doesnt want to hang out with you and your b/f... [ SeXyBLuEyEzGuRL's advice column | Ask SeXyBLuEyEzGuRL A Question ]
ManDA_Lee answered Sunday August 15 2004, 11:31 am: miss. you dont know yet...
hey if your friend keeps bringing him over with out you wanting him over. jus make up a lie like. i gatta baby sitt n i need my best friends help and not yours. or somethin. or jus say my mom doesnt want guys over when shes not him. or sumthin. n then jus carefully tell your friend off. tell her how u feel bout her bf. thats what i would do but hey what do i know im 13.
TwiggyxObsessed answered Saturday August 14 2004, 10:44 pm: If she brings her boyfriend to your house with her, bring your boyfriend too... that way you have him there, as well as your friend and her boyfriend. Did you try to talk to her about this? Maybe if you confront her about it, she may see from your side of the story. [ TwiggyxObsessed's advice column | Ask TwiggyxObsessed A Question ]
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