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When I was about 14 or 15 yrs old.. I dated this kid.... I wont mention a name.. and then we had broken up because he was more expierenced then me and wanted someone who would have sex with him. Well after all this we still stayed friends.. Well then he moved to Florida with his dad for a while.. and then moved back here. and when he got back up here. He told me he had these feelings for me. and that he loved me and wanted to be with me forever. Well. I wasnt ready to be with him. I was unsure of my feelings for him and I told him i didnt know if i wanted to be with him after telling him i wanted to be. and we got in a huge fight and then about a month later I had talked to him and told him i really loved him and I wanted to work things out. but the only bad thing is. my parents really dislike him and they dont really have a reason to dislike him. I mean I'm 17 yrs old I should beable to date who i want. but they say not while i live in their house... What do I do? I really love this guy. :(
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Move out. Then you'll appreciate all the things your parents do for you that you take for granted, you ungrateful turd!
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Alrighty. Well your parents are right. Until you are 18 years old they decide what you can and can't do. Unfortunately. If you are a good kid and usually listen to what your parents say then don't listen to what I am about to say. But if I were you I would go out with him and just not let your parents know. Tell your friends not to talk about it when your parents are around or when they come over your house. If your parents get suspicious of you hanging out with him so much then tell them that you are just really good friends and like to hang out with each other. Then when you turn 18 you can let them know (if you want) that you are going to be dating this guy soon. They can't stop you when you are 18!! Good Luck!!
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Do you really love this guy or are you just telling yourslef that because you know he loves you? If your parents really dislike this guy then he can't be very good for you. Your parents think you can do better and you can. Just tell this guy that you want to be friends!!Good luck.
xoxo chels
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Just ReassuRe them that he Really *IS* a good peRson, and if he wasn't.. you wouldn't be hanging aRound with him. Ask them to politely meet with thw two of you, peRhaps oveR dinneR, and to keep an open mind. Let them know how much you'd appReciate it if they would just give him a chance. Goodluck! I hope eveRything woRks out!!
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well if yooh really love him then even though yooh may love your parents very much they should respect who yooh want to be with nd im sure if yooh do endup gettin bac then they will be by yooh all the way even if they dont like him ..your parents are always goin to have an opinion bout your boifriends .. usually unless thye pick them out their not good enough .. but if yooh kno its one of those feelins that yooh get wit alot of bois then yooh should wait til yooh have the feelin that yooh cant even live a minute without him .. i hope i helped .. nd if not srry but good luck .. [ . MeGmEG . ]
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.:*OMG I am havving the SAME exact problem at this moment. What I've been trying to do is sneak around as much as possible. Yooh must must must e-mail me. We have to talk this out. Luv yooh BuNcHeS like Cap'n CrUnChEs.*:.
xoOx. Mwah.
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ok. i think that you should tell him that you could work things out. but about the parents thing, they must have a reason to dislike him because i think that its ridiculous that they have no reason,and your parents don't have the right to tell you who, you should like or not unless they have "iron clad" reasons for you not to. In the mater of what you should do, well, just keep going out with him and if anything comes up e-mail me.
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It sounds like your parents arent going to change their mind..so you have two options. You can either go out with this guy behind their back..or get a good job and your own appartment, this way you can do what you want. If you go away to college and stay in a dorm, you can do what you want also. Its a hard situation to be in, but unless your parents magically change their mind, which sounds unlikely..those are basically your options. I would just date him behind their back.
-hope i helped-
-melissa- :)
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hey sorry about your parents but i think if you love him enough and he truly loves you then i think you should see him "secretly"
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