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Ok heres a serious question


Question Posted Saturday August 14 2004, 8:45 pm

ok so heres my problem. You see, Im leaving the school Im in now, and I guess Im kinda scared. OK really scared. Idk anyone at the new school and theres 600 kids in my grade. And thats a big difference from my old school. Anyway I get really shy if Idk anyone. And I dont want my friends to think that Im ditchin them if I cant hang out. B/C this year I want to focus on sports and school. ((Last year I didnt do so well in school)) And Idk what to do because Im scared that ppl wont like me for me. And I just want my friends at home to know that Ill always be here for them no matter wut and that me goin to a different skool could never come between our friendship. Theyve always been there for me and Im gonna miss them sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo much. And I know weve been through so much at our skool, but no1 could ever match up to my friends!!!!...BFFL

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TwiggyxObsessed answered Saturday August 14 2004, 8:55 pm:
I have two friends that are going to different schools, and I understand the importance of education to them. I, however, do not plan to go to college or bother with anything like that.. but I can understand people wanting to have a good, rich and happy life with a career they enjoy. I understand going to different schools can help acedemically, and that, especially if it's a Catholic school, colleges may accept you faster.

I'm sure your friends know that, and there's always those few who will believe it's all bullshit [I know that kind]. Will you still be able to go on AIM? You can talk to them there, and it's not like you're completely moving away, so you may possibly be able to hang out on weekends and such, who knows what'll happen. True friends will understand that you're going to have new friends, new enemies, new problems, and new projects and reports due.. as well as sports to practice for. I don't think true friends would hold it against you if you didn't see them as often.

As for not knowing anyone in the school.. dress in your favorite clothes that completely describe your style and tastes. People that like the 'vibe' you send out or the taste you have in things may come and talk to you. You may meet new people through sports and such as well. Going into middle school, I had one friend and eventually made even more friends. Sometimes it's good to get a fresh start and start over. If people tend to be snobby, there's always going to be people that hate the snobs, and you can hang with them. I don't know, maybe that helps, or maybe this is a shitty answer, lol. Hope it helped, though.

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