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ugh help me
ok so my mom found out something i did with my bf long story but i got in trouble and got this whole thing about how i broke my trust with her. so tommroow i am going to my friends n my bf will be there i really wana go and idk how to ask cuz she said i wouldnt be doen anything for a while cuz of what i did. please help i want her to trust me i wish i could just talk to her more all i want is to have fun and to be pushed aside a little. im just a teenager...i make mistakes. please help me soon
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You have to do sumthing to make your mom know she can trust you..if you ask to go tell her who all is gonna be there..what is gonna be goin on ..and what time you will be home ..and hold to that..dont LIE it makes things wayy worse..and after sum time she will start to losin up again
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Talk to her and tell her how it was a mistake and she probably made them back in her day. Tell her you just want to have fun. By the way, what DID you do?
-xXoBrianna
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Instead of asking me you should be telling your mom this! Your right as long as the mistakes arent made on purpose and you learn from them, then your growing up and its gonna happen, maybe you should talk to your mom and actions speak louder than words, prove to her that your responsible and trustworthy and im sure shell listen, shes your mom, shes just worried about you thats all! *:*SaRa:*:
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Talk to your mom, and explain to her what you said on here... that you're a teenager and you make mistakes, and you're still learning about things in life. My mom has a big trust thing too, so I know how you feel. You should explain to her that she has to try and understand and see from your perspective of things. You should tell her that you need not only a mother, but someone to talk to and open up to.
If you want to go to your friend's house, tell your mom you want to go there. You don't necessarily have to tell her your boyfriend is gonna be there, but if you feel she will give the right reaction, then you can... if trust is of an importance to you.
Hope that wasn't too confusing... hope I helped.. good luck!
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well ..it depends..what did you with him..and how old are you? (drop one in my inbox about that)...that mayb the problems..you have to gain the trust back..we all do...."trust" me...If my mom found out I did something with a guy and I got in trouble for it..I would be grounded for the rest of my life!...You sometimes have to pay the price..like the saying "If you the crime..you gotta do the time!"...we all make mistakes..in life special at our age...in the teenage area..we like to experiment with new things..and we tend to get in trouble for them..I know it..sucks..but it is so true- hope i helped
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if you want to earn her trust, dont go. Tell her, you know, i wanted to go over her house, but since hes their, i dont want to go because its more important to get your trust back. Just let her know that you have been listening. She'll cut you some slack eventually!
XoxO Alissa-marie
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