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hello. i'm 13 and my parents are divorced. they have been ever sice i was 6 years old. and my dad just remarried a really AWFUL woman! they just had there 1st anniversary. her son is CONSTNTLY making fun of me and my dad just says "deal with it" its taunting a bull at school would do. well to cut to the chase, my mom still had my dads last name and just changed it today. i feel so different now it really makes me sad. i feel like i'm closer to my stepmom than i am her. please help. all answers will be rated a 5 for effort! :`(

My dad just recently gotten married just 3 months after their final divorce..and shes awful to my dad doesnt want anything to do with me either...just talk to your mom and tell her how you feel about the name..and as for your dad try to talk to him to it may work or may not..all you can do is at least try

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Do women find a guy with a hairy chest attractive? I'm 24, hairy, but not out of control hairy. I'm not overtly self-conscious, but I get the feeling that body hair is considered unattractive. ???
Don't hold back. I want real answers. Hopefully, from real women. Thanks.

To some women hair does matter and to others it dont..dont worry about it tho..who ever you end up spendin the rest of your life with will love for you

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ok so my mom found out something i did with my bf long story but i got in trouble and got this whole thing about how i broke my trust with her. so tommroow i am going to my friends n my bf will be there i really wana go and idk how to ask cuz she said i wouldnt be doen anything for a while cuz of what i did. please help i want her to trust me i wish i could just talk to her more all i want is to have fun and to be pushed aside a little. im just a teenager...i make mistakes. please help me soon

You have to do sumthing to make your mom know she can trust you..if you ask to go tell her who all is gonna be there..what is gonna be goin on ..and what time you will be home ..and hold to that..dont LIE it makes things wayy worse..and after sum time she will start to losin up again

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I need help! I love my sister to death but she is so annoying! I have no privacy and she always get's her way, I'm 13 she's 8. I really need help! Don't say talk to her, it didn't work.

I had this problem to..and chances are she just wants to be around you bc she looks up to you...she wants to be growin up like you to..i know its hard..but maybe set aside a little bit of time once a day or every other day may help =)

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Does anyone know how long you are supposed to take birth control before it starts to work?

My Doc. told me at least 3 months..but still try to be careful..cuz you know its not 100% effective

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okay, ive been "talking" to this guy for the past like 2 weeks, we hang out acouple times a week and talk on the phone...how long do u think i should wait until i make out with him and NOT seem slutty at the same time? im comfortable with making out and all that junk, but how long should i wait so i wont seem easy?

Whenever you think the time is right...dont wait for what other ppl will think..just be yourself

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i've known him like forever, hes my bestfriend since we ran in diapers. recently ive noticed that whenever hes around me, my heart just pounds like crazy. i dont know why i feel that way.. i fear that i might be falling for him! if i do, what if he doesnt accept my love? i dont want our friendship to end if our relationship doesnt work out.. please help

I acutally had the same problem at one time...and we acted on it..things didnt work out but it made us closer...but you need to actually sit down and think if this is gonna be "ReAl" or just a lil crush...cuz if so and your scared to lose your friendship with this guy maybe you should wait and just see what he future brings
**Tiffany**

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ive had fast metabolism like since young and im really thin, people just stare at me. they go "are u aneroxeric or something?" and questions like this piss me off, because im not! and i love my body for whatever size i am. im slightly underweight only and im quite a big eater (lol) what should i tell people who ask me questions like these? i dun wanna sound angry or vulgur to them.. please help -Rei

my whole life my famile and friend alwayz tell me im to small and i dont eat enuff...but just like you said i eata alll the time..so when ppl tell me im small i just politely say thank you..but in your case..if ppl were tellin me that and i KNEW i didnt have a problem i would just ignore what ppl say as long as you love your self thats all that matter
**tiffany**

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