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I'm 14..Well me and my boyfriend broke up because we didn't see each other(If you read my last comment you'd understand) But the night we broke up was a night at a local dance. After we broke up my best friend or what i thought was my best friend was all over him..I still really like my ex..Should I still be mad at her for that or should I suck it up and deal with it? (link)
Since u broke up u shouldnt worry about it casue he deosnt have feelings 4 you


Ok... I have this friend... Well we went out and we broke up and then we started going back out. now we broke up again cuz we talked about how he has football and he would never ever really see me till school starts. On the next day after he had hurt his knee and he doesnt play football anymore... but still! I talked to him and I asked him sum dumb ?'s like what is a starburst kiss? What is that n e way? and he told me to tell him what it is and we could try it... and Idk if still likes me or what? Even tho he did tell me that he loved me... but we always say that b4 we get off of AIM... I dont know n e more? Can sum1 plz Help me!

Thanks*
.:Magic:. (link)
You have a problem! i think you should tell him how u feel on AIM or try to ask him who he likes and if he sais u tell him that u like him to! if he sais i dk hbu tell ihm that u like him or think hes cute! Good Luck!


okay so there is this boy james we went out last year but i broke up with him b/c i didn't want a bf over the summer. well after i dumped him i relized how much i needed him he is always soo fun to b around and cute and funny and play-ful.
well my friend is gonna have a party and she invited 3 gurls and their bfs her bf and me..but im single so she asked if i wanted any particular boy to come so i said james. well i knoe their all gonna b makeing-out with all of their boyfriends and me and james....prolly just talkin about our relationship...how can i brake the ice nd just lay a kiss on him with out it being too....akward?
please help asap! (link)
I think that if u guys do talk alot and tell each other everything u should tell him how u feel. If not tell your friend to tell him how u feel. If he makes a move go 4 it. But if he dosnt try talking to him about stuff and gte it out of him about who he likes. Good Luck!


hey! i came to u before with my problem about the girl i have a crush on liking my best friend and i thought u gave some great advice. so i'm coming to u again.

Before I told the girl how i felt, i wanted to clear things up with my best friend first. He told me that he wouldn't make a move on her and that i could have her. I didn't want him to just give her to me, cuz i thought that wouldn't be right. So later i asked him if he would go out with her, and he sed maybe when school starts again (we're freshmen). After he told me that, i went and told the girl just like she asked me to. She went on about how she was so grateful she was that i did that for her and that this was the happiest day of her life and that she has liked my best friend for a long time. After she sed that, i didn't think it was the right time to tell her my feelings. I'm so lost, wut should i do? plz help! (link)
I think you kinda messed up by kinda getting them together but thats OK. I think its ok to still have feelings for her even though she is with your best friend. The only thing you could do is let them go out and if its not right it wont last. Then tell her how u feel if it doesnt last. If u think they r not meant to b tell them or one of them. If u need anything else just ask!


okay i have this guy friend and see i dont know if i like him because i havnt seen him in a while and he gave me a hug today and i liked it and then he told me he got a girlfriend and i got mad does that mean i like him? (link)
Yes i think you have feelings for him. You sudenly find out he has feeling for another girl and ur jelous!


I have dark hair around my bellybutton and when I wear a two piece swimsuit, you can sorta see it, and it bothers me! I don't want to shave it! I dunno why I have hair THERE... any advice would be greatly appreciated! (link)
You could shave it because it is normal or you could just make it easy and wear a one piece!


hey i had already told my friend that i like him and he had liked me but he lost interest in me becuase i am insecure and he said theres a 50 50 chance of him liking me in the future i really like him and i want him to really like me agian and i was wondering what i can do for him to like me again i have been secure lately and i feel theres some other reason why he dont like me but he aint telling me it (link)
I think you should try to have someone ask him why he deosnt like you. Just be yourself, dont be all over him, and stay beautiful!


this guy i liked started becoming my friend and he had found out i liked him and he started to wunna get closer but hes like that with everbody else {{w/e}} but the thing is i said that i didnt like him that way to his ex-girlfriend and she kept saying he liked me. and i do like him but i though his ex-girlfriend was just trying to see if i did and i didnt wunna tell her. now he pretends not to care even to be my friend any more. its breaking my heart and i keep telling my self that the first daii of school ima totally ignore him and act really sad around him. but the thing is it might end up not be acting. help. (link)
You should ask him or have someone ask him if he still likes you. Or you could just tell him how you feel and he might feel the same way. Dont be afraid to say how you feel about someone! You`ll feel better after! Good Luck


My BESTfriend.. Let's call her *Liza. She is anorexic, i didn't know this before.. i just thought she was super skinny. But she left her diary over my house, and i just read some of it. She's been anorexic for almost two years, it's crazy. She doesn't know that i know yet.. so i'm scared to try and help her! Do you have any ideas on how i can tell her that i know and try to get her to stop. Cause i'm soo scared that something bad is gonna happen to her, Please, pretty please.. someone help me. Thank you so much, sorry it's so long.

Signed,
Very Scared! (link)
Im sorry about your friend. You should be very scared. Thats never happened to me but the best advice is to tell her parents or yours. Becasue then she wont know thta you know. If you dont tell anyone she could really hurt herself and im sure you dont want that to happen. good luck


ok...i've like this kid for almost a year now. he's my friend, but he might like me, i don't know. yesterday was the first day of school, and i couldn't open my locker. After 3rd period i went up to him and one of my other guy friends and said "help me beat up my locker"...so we went to my locker, and he offered to open it for me. he got it open, so i gave him a hug, cuz i hadn't been able to open the damn thing all day. after that, he asked me if i had lunch then, i said yes, and he said "cool." so we walked outside, and i tried not to follow him like i do sometimes, but he sat where i did. we hung out at lunch again today...do you think he might like me? (link)
I have a feeling he might like you. You should try to ask him questions like who do u like. But if that doesnt work you shaould write him a note or talk to him online and express how you feel to him.


I'm going to a party in a few weeks and a guy i sort of like is going to be there. Does anyone have any flirting tips besides be yourself and smile? I saw a list of 101 Ways to Flirt on this site once, so if you know what that is, please send it to me. Thanks so much! (link)
If you really like this guy be yourself becasue if your not he will fall in love with a different person. But if you want some tips on talking to him just try to talk about his hobbies or about things he like.


I've a had crush on this girl for a few months and i think she might like me too. We are like best friends, but we flirt with each other all the time. We tell each other everything. She tells me everytime she likes a new guy. But last night was different. She told me that she liked my best friend. I can't say i blame her, cuz my friend is a nice guy (that's why he's my best friend). I don't know how to feel. I'm kinda disappointed, but at the same time, i want her to be happy. What should i do? (link)
I think she might like you but she thinks you dont like her so you should tell her how you feel about her and maybe she will change.




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