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I've a had crush on this girl for a few months and i think she might like me too. We are like best friends, but we flirt with each other all the time. We tell each other everything. She tells me everytime she likes a new guy. But last night was different. She told me that she liked my best friend. I can't say i blame her, cuz my friend is a nice guy (that's why he's my best friend). I don't know how to feel. I'm kinda disappointed, but at the same time, i want her to be happy. What should i do?
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i think you should talk to her about it. well, find out if your best friend likes her too and if he doesnt, then tell her how you feel. speak whats on your mind. most likely she wont be mean about it and be like "eww no way man. i would never date you!" you guys could end up together. just talk to her. hope it helps!
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I think you should tell her how you feel. If she knows that you like her as more than a close friend, maybe she'll admit to liking you more, too. But, if she doesn't, you still have to be friends with her, even if she likes your best bud.
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i think you should tell her that you like her but don't put any pressure on her to like you back..just tell her so that you won't regret not telling her and if you're lucky than she just might like you back - you do already have a lot in common!
((This last part isn't going to be very motivational, I'm warning you lol - my best guy friend had a major crush on me for years, and I knew this but I just couldn't think of us as being in a girl/guy relationship since he was practically my brother and all. on the other hand, I didn't act any differently towards him after finding out that he liked me..anyway, this might just be in my case since he lived next door to me lol so DON'T LET THAT DISCOURAGE YOU!))
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Speak up!!
Tell her how you feel about her. As perceptive as girls tend to be, we still can't read the minds of guys, so you have to tell us what you're thinking. Explain to her that you know she likes your best friend, and you want her to be happy, but that you wanted to tell her how you felt.
She may actually have some feelings for you waiting to surface. If you tell her you like her, she may start thinking about it, which could cause those feelings to surface.
You never know...Be optimistic, and go for it.
Good luck, and I hope this helped!
-Siren =)
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Tell her how you feel about her! =)
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-You should tell her how you feel! Just be real with her!
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WARNING: Truthfully, my friend, k l v g, probably wasn't doing the best thing when she led me, a blatantly honest and sometimes mean person to this site, but here I am anyway. Sucks for you I 'spose. ;cP lol
"It's better to be a lion for a day, than a sheep all your life." - Unknown
So, you like this girl--that's all I need to hear, mister. GO FOR HER. Life is TOO SHORT to walk or even to jog. You have to RUN. Run after this girl, you like so much. At least if you came out and expressed yourself you wouldn't be wondering "What if?" later on. It's a very painful feeling that uncertainy you'll feel later if your best friend gets your best girl, and it's probably very painful RIGHT NOW. Don't prolong the suffering. It's not hard. Say it with me: _Insert Name_ I like you. Do you think we have a chance together as more than what we are now? Would you like to grab a Starbucks or maybe see a movie?
It's not that hard. E-mail the outcome if you have time: moongiggles89@hotmail.com
-Jesspiration
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hey!! i know it hurts.. but personally... i think you should be completely honest with her and tell her the truth! she might like you too but she's afraid to tell you or she might not think you like her in that way. but go for it. if she likes you too it can turn into something wondeful!! maybe she doesnt realize you're perfect for eachother yet! you sound like a nice guy so she doesnt have any reason not to like you! and if shes really ur bestfriend she will completely understand and it shouldnt hurt ur friendship! its definately worth a try~ if its really meant to be it will happen! GOOD LUCK! if u need anything else u can contact me! hope i helped! :-)
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AWww...I'm soo sorry sweetheart.
You seem like such a good guy, and accepting what she is doing, and who she likes is the best thing right now. She tells you these things, because she does infact love you as a best friend, and that proves to you, that she'll tell you anything. That's really sweet of her.
What you need to do, is maybe tell her how you feel about her. Maybe she'll come around, if she finds out how sweet you are, and how much feelings you have for her, she'll notice. Trust me. For all you know, she might like you know! *wink*
Tell her how you feel about every single thing, and that'll make everything better...because it'll be off of your chest, and she'll know you, and your feelings better.
I hope I helped...Have a great night! <3
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yea i no what you mean. im going through something like that to but im the gurl. belive me just let her make her mind up. in the end itll be the right one whether u agree or disagree. you cant make someone like you nor can you change someones feelings about someone. its just not right. just be happy for her. i hope i helped....
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I think she might like you but she thinks you dont like her so you should tell her how you feel about her and maybe she will change.
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well , you cant make someone lyk hyou ....and if your best friend doesnt lyk her lyk that then you should just tell her how you feel about her...and even if she doesnt lyk u lyk that at least she knos and she can keep her options open...ya kno? and even if your best friend and here do go out you should still tell her..cuz its best that she knows how you feel about her...
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you should def. let her know how you feel! maybe she'll realize that she likes you back and she just nvr thought about it, other wise you should be happy for her if your best friend is such a nice guy.i hope i helped you&good luck
if you have any more questions please put it in my inbox thanks!!!
xox becca
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You seem like a really great guy! and i think u should tell her how u feel to the fullest! u seem like a good catch and i hope that everything works out for you! but if it doesnt, shes missing out... so hope its great!
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