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ok.. well this kid i thought i liked was being a really nice guy and all of a sudden we start getting into all these fights. he does have a girlfriend and he knows that i have feelings for him and he promised me that him having a girlfriend wouldnt change anything but i think it has. and sometimes it seems like he only goes out with girls that he thinks are hott and my friend asked what he thought of me and he said i was ok :-( and my guy friend was like dont worry about it. but now i dont know if i like my guy friend or the guy i was pretty sure i liked. soo i got 2 questions.. what do i do about the guy i was pretty sure i liked and how i think things have changed and #2 about me not being sure if i like my friend or not
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As far as your first question goes I really think it's difficult to maintain a friendly relationship with a guy you like when he has a girlfriend. Things will always be awkward because he'll be so close yet so far (if you get what I'm saying.). You didn't specify what you two are always fighting about but I'm almost positive that if he olny dates the 'hot' girls then he's probably not very good boyfriend material. I'm sorry to say this, but he seems almost shallow. If you still want to try to be friends with this guy then the best thing you can do is confront him and ask him why things between the 2 of you are changing. Talk it out. Good luck!<p>
Okay... question # 2: Most people don't like to start relationships with close friends because they don't want to loose that friendship. It's really up to you. You need to follow your heart (okay that was soo corny, but it's true!). If you think you like your friend why not give it a try? It's worth a shot. he obviously seems to care about you. <br>
Good luck, however I don't think this was the best advice ever but it's late (2:30 am) and I don't know why but this question kind of had me stumped :/ ... but i hope I helped nonetheless. Let me know how it turns out for you!
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hey! i think you need to talk to this guy you are pretty sure you like. just say that you know he said things wouldnt change and they are and you want to know why. but it sounds to me like he's shallow and thats not a good thing at all! soo i know its hard to tell you not to like him anymore (i always hated that when people told me that) but i think you need to try to start getting over him. and about ur friend just wait and see dont tell him your feelings right away.. wait until your 100% sure you like him. and then i would definately talk to him cause he seems like a great guy! hope i helped and good luck hun!
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