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What do i do?
Well Me and My boyfriend of almost 2 years now are expecting a baby girl in just a few months.The problem is he doesnt have a job yet and has been saying hes going to get one for months now.Hes been looking and everything but still nothing.And everytime i talk to him about it hes always got the same stuff to say and sometimes gets mad about me always mentioning it.I want to believe that hes going to get a job soon so what to i do or say to him? :-/
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start wailing out on him liek a mad woman..and then sit down with him and rationally discuss with him the importance of having money and that you need it so you can keep not just u and him, btu they baby clothed, fed, bathed, with a roof over her head. hope i helped!!!
-amber-
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You should tell him that he NEEDS to get a job! He needs to act responsible - since there is another life on the way that he has to take care of and support. Tell him to stop making up excuses and get a job. He shouldn't be the one mad at you! Good luck!
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People can appear to be looking for work and still not. He may be filling out and handing in applications, but is he calling the managers, hitting the stores that advertise work in the paper, etc. If he hasn't found one yet, he's not trying hard enough. He's too lazy to work, and doesn't want to deal with the stress of having a job. Talk to him about what he does to try to get a job. If he gets mad, ask him why he is getting mad at you. He really has no reason to be. If he tells you it's because you keep on asking him about getting a job, tell him he has yet to tell you all that he does to try to get a job.
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you need to be firm with him! he needs to find a job or borrow some money from his parents or something! tell him if he really cares about you and this baby he'd get a job to support you! he needs to get serious. talk to his parents and make sure he really is giving all of his effort into finding a job! or talk to your parents! hope it all works out for you and good luck!!
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lay it on thick..sit him down and say "we`re gonna have a child soon..its gonna be a lot of responsibilities...we`ll have a family of our own and you need to get a job to support us. Dont you want our child to grow up in a good enviroment..etc.." be serious and ask him about what job hes gonna get. Good luck! :)
-melissa-
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i would say that..if we really r gonna have this child then , we should be able to support it, and SOON! so plz if u want it all to work out, please get a job soon it would be alot less stress on the both of us
hope i helped
::*sarah*::
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i think you should ask your parents or his parents for help. im sorry but my best advise is to pray about it. god will listen and he will help you if you believe in him.
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