OKay i really like this guy .. i mean like i love him n he loves me..! I just got out of this whole real love relationship n i truely loved him but i got hurt a bunch of times within that relatinship so he dumped me! Then this guy i like was going out with my best friend so my best friend dumped him n went out with my ex i was talking bout.. so now i like her ex! [[i know its confusing but try to help]] but see i dont wanna go out with him n hurt her like she hurt me.. but i like him alot! WHAT DO I DO! I RATE HIGH!
Untouched1 answered Thursday August 12 2004, 10:21 pm: you need to tell him that and all and just dont lead him on cause you might be hurting him and everything like your ex did you i mean thats not right b/c you guy broke up and everything but then she is just like johnny on the spot of him and everything to me i think that you need to talk to her and tell her how you feel but just dont lead the other ex on tell him how you feel as well
-Cass- [ Untouched1's advice column | Ask Untouched1 A Question ]
StiLLwiShinG_1217 answered Thursday August 12 2004, 9:51 pm: There is an unwritten law that says girls should NEVER date any guy that was involved with their friends.. Ur girl just broke that rule. That doesn't mean u get back at her though; good for u deciding that, however, the guy u like could be just a symbol for wat u used to have. I took a break from my serious boyfriend of 6 months, and then, he cheated on me before I could tell him I'm alright and I love him. That ended and I liked my friend Rob for eight months! Once it REALLY caught on he didn't like me, I noticed me liking Rob was a ploy and I was still really hurting. It's been 2 years now. I'm still bleeding, but I'm almost good as new. U owe it to urself to find another guy, but I don't advise u to keep going with this one.. I think u should wait a bit and see wat life throws directly at ur head. That's wat I did.. And I have a great boy now to prove it!
:-) Hope that helps! If u've got questions, contact me!
*Mayya [ StiLLwiShinG_1217's advice column | Ask StiLLwiShinG_1217 A Question ]
sshelbyy answered Thursday August 12 2004, 9:43 pm: SHE did it to YOU, so why not do it to her? Obviously, she didnt stop to think about your feelings, so go ahead and forget about hers. Besides, maybe youd be happier with her ex and shed end up being great with your ex, so it could end up great. :-) good luck [ sshelbyy's advice column | Ask sshelbyy A Question ]
xhunniebunchx answered Thursday August 12 2004, 9:39 pm: hey! yeah i know how confusing it can get... but i think you need to decide who is more important to you, your friend or this guy. if your friend is dont, you dont want to hurt her over a guy thats only temporary. but maybe shes not really a *true friend* because she went out with ur ex... if you know shes not true then go for it with the guy. but dont risk ur friendship if u guys r good friends cause its not worth it trust me!! if you need anything else just let me kno k babe? hope i helped! [ xhunniebunchx's advice column | Ask xhunniebunchx A Question ]
Paradise88 answered Thursday August 12 2004, 9:35 pm: u should tell ur fryend that she stole ur ex-man so ask if u can do the same to her im sure she'll understand! :D and if u have her approval then go for it! dont stoop to her level be a better fryend then that
Elementskater594 answered Thursday August 12 2004, 9:31 pm: you should go out w| him, she obviously doesnt like him anymore and so she started going out w| your ex,and im sure since she did it to you she wouldnt get mad if you did it back and went out w| her ex [ Elementskater594's advice column | Ask Elementskater594 A Question ]
MummuM answered Thursday August 12 2004, 9:28 pm: I think you should take the chance, if you like him, you like him. You can't help what you feel and there's only so many guys to go around. Once in a while you are gunna go out with one of your bestfriends ex's, it's all good. If she has a boyfriend already and you like her ex, I really don't see the harm in going out with him. Just make sure she doesn't like him. Good luck =) [ MummuM's advice column | Ask MummuM A Question ]
angita answered Thursday August 12 2004, 9:25 pm: look honestly if she didnt think about u n ur feelings well den dont think about her n her feelings.. i dnt wanna be mean n stuff but really.. in ur lyf ull realize if u havent already tat ull have lots of friends tat really rnt n i think this is one of them.. but in ur lyf u gotta think about u n want u want.. dnt let things pass u by just b cuz of other ppl.. so if u lyk him n u wanna b wit him then go ahead! gud luk xoxo angie [ angita's advice column | Ask angita A Question ]
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