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i really love music, its my passion and one of the only reasons i'm still alive...i've gone through a hell of a lot and the music is how i get it out...i've got a band, i love to play drums, guitar, and i love to sing...i love to hang out with friends and i'm in love

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Is it gross or weird for a girl with very dark and coarse hair to shave her arms?

don't worry about it girl. i wouldn't shave my own arms, but in your case, i would start to shave them. but if your not afraid of getting waxs on your arms then i'd go for that. also, if you're not scared of ruining your skin, that stuff that you put on ur arms and it kills the hair for a little while, do that. but make sure you understand you're risking ruining your skin.

be careful and good luck! josie

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Im just wondering,whats a good brand of face cleaner for semi oily-acne prone skin?

i'm OBSESSED with Nuetrogena (sorry if i spelt it wrong) but it does WONDERS for my skin

make sure to remember ur steps to, it doesnt only take a face cleaner to make your skin great!

1. Cleanse
2. Tone
3. Moisterize

Nuetrogena has all of that stuff, its great
good luck, josie

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sorry i didnt no where to put this under....but i got braces this morning and they hurt like hell!!!!!..any tips on how to make the pain go away ..and wat to eat that will actually fill u up??? thanx..xoxo

i know how that feels i have braces too...take some advil...it seriously does help...and there's nothin u can really do about the eating thing...soup works but it really doesnt fill u up sry hun i dont know what to say about the food but mashpotatos?? they might work...good luck and feel better

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one of my bff's bf broke up with her afta like almost 2yrs of goin out..n im freinds wit him so it was hard cause i was like in the middle of it all..neway..i kinda like him now and i really wanna tell him, but if i do im afraid that he'll stop talkin to me or my bff will find out and get mad at me...i have no clue wat to do..should i tell him or not???

well, ask ur bff if she would be upset if u liked this guy...if she gets mad, she's not that much of a friend cauze she should respect who u like wether shes dated him or not!! then no matter what tell this guy...if he doesnt talk to u he's a jackass and u'll see he was never worth it...but if he likes u then it'll be fine! maybe u guys will go out!

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okay..theres this dude..that i like really really like..n im sorta thinkin he likes me..im just not really sure..but i wanna ask him out i just wanna no if he likes me first..how do i find out??

get a friend, one that u can trust to ask him...and make sure he/she knows him to...to see if this guy would ever possibly be looking into dating you...then if he would a little while later ask him out!

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Ok, well my friend is having this party this coming saturday and shes inviting her cousin. i think he's really fun to be around and stuff but all he wants to do is makeout with girls at the party. i like him, but im not into like just meeting a guy and making out. and since ive never made out with anyone, im scared. i was thinking of just not going to the party so i wouldnt have to worry about him wanting to make out. wat should i do? im 13 and hes 15.

well i mean u can like him and i still think u should go because just one boy should ruin the time u and ur friend have together...if he likes u back but he wants to make out tell him no! u dont have to do nething u dont want to do, and u can even tell ur friend if he tries to make u do stuff so she can deal with it too and help u! and i mean if at that moment u wanna make out with him then, maybe u will, but remember if u DONT WANT TO all u have to say is no

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I really need help. Does anyone have a good idea on wear to put eyeshawdow on yor eyelid without making it too noticeable? Thanks!

ok here we go i know exacly how to do it.
ok u want a nutral color to start out with let say we're using shades of purple... ok so u cover like ur whole eye wiht that up to the brow almost really lightly so u can barely tell its there, then u take the darkest shade of that purple, it doesn't even have to be dark, just the darkest one out of the 3 that you will have... put that on the outer corners of your eye very lighly and thin... then you put the midle shade and cover the middle part of ur eyelid with it and take a fluffy kinda brush and blend it all together a little bit, it will look great and you wont look like a crack whore if u practice it a few times, use as much or as little as u want and im sure it will look great.
also... if u want something to look darker just put it on lighter a few times instead of taking alot of it and then putting it on and deciding its too much or something
for the lightest shade, use a fluffy brush
for the darkest, use something thin and firm
for the middle one, use anything u feel comfortable with.
alwasy brush uppp lol
and if this doesn't work or u dont like it for some reason, this is not josie, im shana her friend and assistant in advicenators...
hope it all works out im sure ull look great
luv shana

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hey i got great advice for the colors on my bathroom but now i want like cute decorating stuff like what to do with it not just like colors!!!!!

thanx Gg

i think it should be like a beach theme...i gave u the help before with a light blue room...okay i got an idea....the bottom area of ur room, toward the carpet should be painted a peach for the sand...and then the top half will be blue

decorate the room with sea shells

hope it works out

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2 nights ago i went to the mall with my boyfriend and my mom let me go with just him and she was happy because "for once i told her the truth and she trusted me". she just told me i couldnt go outside. but that was what me and my bf were planning to do all along, just sit out and get some air and everything. so it was going fine and we ended up going outside and had an awesome time. but i had gotten some grass and stuff on my shirt and my mom noticed. she asked if i went outside, and i told her no. tonight she told me she knew and wa yelling at me and said that i lost her trust and i am not going to be allowed to do anything for a while. i cant use the pc, phone, and she said untill i regain her trust i wont be going anywhere like that again. so for one thing, i have no contact with him. 2, i cant stand my mom i am not going to listen to her if i did i would have no fun in my screwed up life 3, everything is hard enough already and she makes everything worse. i am so messed up and i am ready to just run away or die or something. i dont know what to do, and i cant stand anyone. help me

u dont have to run away or kill urself or anything like that...i mean u finally just regained ur trust with ur mom...and u went behind her back and went outside anyways...so i mean u may be upset with urself...but u cant blame ur mom for feeling that way...she finally let u do something cauze she trusted with u and u lied to her...if i was ur mom i'd be pretty pissed to...but i guess u just have to wait..and work really hard to gain that trust back...good luck

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When me and my boyfriend first got together he asked me how long i wanted to be a virgin and i said until i was atleast 16.. well we have been together so long and i am ready to go that far with him but we made a promise to wait until i was 16.. long story.. I confronted him and he said i wanna see if we can keep our promise.. i really want to loose my virginity to him.. what should I do?

well if u guys keep ur promise and wait until ur 16 it basically promises that ur relationship will last that long...so if the relationship doesnt last until then, u'll be glad u didnt

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haha. well i've been playing for like... a few months, but i haven't had lessons. I'm not in the school band either and I don't plan on being in it. heh. but I watch music videos and stuff, and I don't know if you've heard of the band Flattery Leads to Ruins, but its a local band (in Kansas) and im friends with the drummer, so he's showed me some stuff. well, thank you :D

wow that's really cool, well he'll probably be the one giving u lessons haha! do u live in kansas? and sorry i havent heard of them i live in PA lol u should def. email me tosietins99@yahoo.com or instant message me at RosieJosie19...u sound like a pretty cool guy!

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theres this boy that i like n i kinda think he likes me cause last year on the bus he told his bestfriend that he kissed me which was true but wen we were like 8 and now were 14. and his bestfriend told me he said that an i couldnt believe he remembered cause im not exactly like the hottest kid around. but i like him an i think he likes me cause he said that, but the school years comin up and i was thinkin about askin him out...should i??? thanx

i mean if u really like him then i'd ask him out...obviously u guys have a past, i think u should ask him out...and if he says no it doesnt mean u guys cant be friends

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ok, i like this guy. and he knows i like him too. but he wont go for it! is there something i should do to like...give him a push to asking me out or something? please help!!!

well why dont u just ask him hang out or something and have a really great time so he'll realize he likes u a lot...heck, if u want it that bad i think u should ask him out urself!

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my boyfriend he doesn't like to do anything fun.. he's so boring!! and i went to this party n made out with his bestfriend, what should i do????

if u dont like ur bf then dont CHEAT ON HIM instead break up with him, gosh...and ESPICALLY going to HIS party and MAKING OUT with his BESTFRIEND wasnt exactly the BRIGHTEST thing to do...u should tell ur bf what happened cauze then he might break up with u and if u think he's that boring then what's wrong with that? either u break up with him or he breaks up with u...a break up needs to happen here cauze obviously from what i just read this relationship is rediculous, jesus dont cheat on him...

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Ok... I have this friend... Well we went out and we broke up and then we started going back out. now we broke up again cuz we talked about how he has football and he would never ever really see me till school starts. On the next day after he had hurt his knee and he doesnt play football anymore... but still! I talked to him and I asked him sum dumb ?'s like what is a starburst kiss? What is that n e way? and he told me to tell him what it is and we could try it... and Idk if still likes me or what? Even tho he did tell me that he loved me... but we always say that b4 we get off of AIM... I dont know n e more? Can sum1 plz Help me!

Thanks*
.:Magic:.

well i think he still likes u, its just he wouldnt see u so he broke up with u i dont blame him cauze i probably would've done the same thing...just wait until school starts and maybe he'll ask u out!

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Today i went to the doctors and i do not know why but my moms says ive gotten really skinny and it turns out that im antirexic and i dont think i look skinny i think i look fat but they say im really skinny what do i do!

well, almost all antirexic people think they're fat sooo maybe u really are antirexic, maybe u should umm start eating? please from what ur mom says shes probably right although i cant see u, u need to start eating and if u feel ur fat then eat healthy...but maybe u need to listen to ur mom and start eating

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My parents payed for me and my brother to go to a private school. It was really expensive but thank god we got insurance so some of the money will come back to us if we deside not to go. Well my brother and i ended up going to public school where it's free, the thing is that the private school won't let us get the money back unless we go there for 15 school days. I have been arguing with my parents saying that i just started to make friends at the public school, and things are really going my way. Going to the private school for 15 days will make it really hard to go back to the public school. I really dont know what to do cause it's a lot of money we will get back, yet i am really startin to fit in at the public school.

since this is long I will rate high!!!!!!!!!!

well just tell ur friends u'll be gone for 15 days...it's not that long, it'll pass u by...and if it's a lot of money then u should do it for ur parents...they wont forget u in 15 days...they'll actually probably be asking where u went and be missing u...u can always call them and talk to them online if u have a computer, hope i helped

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ok well about a week ago ii got braces and on my bottom lip inside i have like this sore from them and the dentist sed i would for a few days but it hurts REALLY bad wen my braces hit it or i smile and i dont know what to do help!!!!

take some motrin and go back to ur dentist to tell him how much its bothering u...i mean maybe it's just cauze ur lips...on the inside...aren't used to the metal rubbing against them...tell ur dentist how ur feeling and ask if theres anything he can do

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ok, im 17 and what do you do when your mom and best freind both hate the guy you are "seeing" and wont even give him a chance? but they dont even know how we are around each other and how we care about each other?

maybe u should just talk to ur bff and ur mom...they have to respect ur choice because if u guys really truley love eachother u're not going to wanna be seperated from eachother...if there's a past problem or problems now that ur bff and mom are seeing then maybe that's why they dont like him...they just dont want u to get hurt...but if u guys really love eachother confront ur bff and mom and make sure they KNOW everything is okay

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i have a friend from school who is petite and very underweight (by society's standards) but she sees herself as "fat" & no matter what anyone tells her she still tries to loose weight. shes only 80 something pounds! shes one of the skinniest people in school, and we're 15... and im scared it might become into an eating disorder. her parents want her to GAIN weight because she's so tiny for her size and can get hurt in sports. what can i possibly do or say to her because i've tried so many times...? (ps her parents are concerned and know about this, and they told ME to talk to her about it because she wont listen to them!)

i think this is an eating disorder already...email me tosietins99@yahoo.com

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