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HELP!
When me and my boyfriend first got together he asked me how long i wanted to be a virgin and i said until i was atleast 16.. well we have been together so long and i am ready to go that far with him but we made a promise to wait until i was 16.. long story.. I confronted him and he said i wanna see if we can keep our promise.. i really want to loose my virginity to him.. what should I do?
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JUst because your ready doesent mean he is, althought from raging hormones its unlikely., remeber its emotional.. do what u want , have fun..
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get a vibrator
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wait until your 16. I dunno how far you are from turning 16 but if he's the right one to lose it to then he'll be there when your 16
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well if u guys keep ur promise and wait until ur 16 it basically promises that ur relationship will last that long...so if the relationship doesnt last until then, u'll be glad u didnt
<3josie
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All i can say is you need to wait it out...U made a promise to him..and thats what u have to do.Wait it out myb it will come 2 a point where he doesnt want to wait either.All i can say is wait it out!
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just wait! trust me, the longer you wait the better it will be. and you should be thankful that he respected your morals in the first place and actually wanted to wait until you were 16
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well how old r u..?? if its close to 16 n u really trust this boy.. and he loves u back thenn go ahead... just go on ur what u feel... he prob just doesnt want u to regret ne thing n u shoould respect him for that there arent many guys who turn down sex.. so ur lucky.. keep him!
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I think you are really lucky to have a boyfriend that respects you so much. He's just trying to make sure that you don't do something that you will regret. If you really love him as much as you say you do, then you should wait, and your love will continue to grow. Then your first time will be truly special.
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Just wait until you're 16. It'll be worth the wait, and then you'll be sure you're ready AND have kept your promise.
You're lucky to have a guy like that =)
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Please wait and don't do it. I know you think you should,bt don't. My friend fucked his girlfriend at 15 and to this day,he tells me he wishes he hadn't.
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Hello, first of all i have to say i really aplaud u cause not many high school girls can keep there pants up that long. So nice job and its totally understandable and NATURAL for u too want to move further in this relationship. But keep in mind that hes not gonna be with u forever... as much as that may hurt... its highschool and things wont last. And having sex also come with emotion distress like did u look stupid... did u hurt him... didnt u "perform" well. Just all the worries and of course there the "day after call". Just think about if ur ready to give it to him... and if u r... then approach him again. Im sure hes dyin to do the same but he thinks it makes him seem more caring if he wants to keep the promise. GO FOR IT!
Cale
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Well, I think you should wait. You confronted him already and he said he wanted to wait so I say just respect his wishes and when he's ready than he will let you know. :-D I hope this helps!
Crystal
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tell him your ready.. if he doesnt listen then wait, its only a couple years, its not that long, the longer you wait the better it will be lol
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u should wait till your wayyy older kid
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well talk to him bout it .. be like i kno we mad e a promise nd all but i really ylike yooh nd trust yooh nd im ready to do it .. your the person i want to be my first .. im sure he'll understand .. well i hope i helped ..
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Well Sweetie... I think i would wait until i was 16... He may feel more comfortable that way... But... Dont be in a hurry to lose your virginity... You may regret it later! Hope I helped!
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If you REALLY feel you'Re Ready.. and you'Re SHORE you wanna do this.. then just do it when you'Re both in agReement. Tell him you'Re Ready... but will wait until you'Re 16 if he wishes. Goodluck; and be safe!! Hope I helped!! =D
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