Hey girls dont be scared to ask me anything thats worrying you. I may be young but i know alot about lots of things. So if your curious dont be shy--i dont judge, just here to help.
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Gender: Female
Location: New York
Occupation: student
Age: 16
AIM: Amiee7284
Member Since: August 14, 2004
Answers: 17
Last Update: August 21, 2004
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OK im 18 years old, and ive never had a girl friend before. Is there something wrong with me that girls wouldn't approach me or is it something that i have to do. My pics are at www.faceparty.com/dozzer check it out and tell me what you think please. It really sucks being alone. (link)
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Honestly no its not strange. My best guy friend sean is 18 and JUST started dating his new girlfriend. Hun you just gotta get yourself out there and look. Dont be dicouraged by what one person thinks either because i know some people get turned down once and there life is over, ive been turned down tons of times but ive also had my fair share of boyfriends. So get out there and find yourself a girl. I know you can do it.
x0x-good luck
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okay im 17 years old and after my last relationship( with a guy i fell in love with)i havent been able to find anyone that i can go out with and not think about and compare them to him what should i do (link)
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Hun i just recently went through the same thing. Dont try and get it back. The love thing is hard i know and i know what its like to compare every guy to him, but sooner or later that one special guy is going to come along and change your mind. I know, i just recently found mine, i love him very much and we have our ups and downs like any relationship, but i now see that i can be in love with more than one guy, though i still think about my ex alot,hes just a great memory. I know you will be okay, it just takes time.
x0x- good luck hun
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if a girl that u like is mad at you what should you do (link)
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Well if you know why shes mad at you, show up at her house with pretty flowers and appologize for being an insensitive jerk. Maybe she'll come around but if not, give her time.
x0x-good luck
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hey, i tried the birth control pill and it made me have really bad heart problemz from it..and well, my heart is getting better now after about a year from those damn thingz!!!!
but my question is...do any of yuz kno any good birth control methods like the patch, or anything lyk that that is healthy and that you can use if you smoke cigarettes?? (link)
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Theres the patch and the injections monthly. But im sure with either you cannot smoke just like the pill so if youd like to be on birth control, quit smoking, if not. I dont know what else to tell you.
x0x-sry
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is wearin a thong slutty? like the purpose is so you dont have pantylines but sumtimes liek if usmones thong shows people think she's a slut. i was just wondering what evryone else htought (link)
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No its not slutty and you already know why but im gunna tell you why not to wear em all the time. If you constantly wear thongs you crotch cannot "breath". Thats how you can get crotch rot and your crotch smells constantly and very badly. So make sure its not all the time. I mean you can wear em more than 3 times a week just be careful its not a bad habit.
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So, I've been sorta "seeing" my BEST FRIEND. (he's a guy) lol. and it's really not working out to well. I haven't talked to him in like 5 days, and I used to see him everyday. But the trouble is now, I really like this kid I've known for like 5 years, and we started to talk on Thursday. He leaves for college very soon, and I want to start something with him. I don't wanna hurt my best friends feelings by telling him there might be someone else....I have no clue what to do?!? help.
((I'm a female and I'm 16 yrs old.)) (link)
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Well if your best friend hasnt called you for 5 days, somethings not right and it isnt fair to you to just sit at home waiting for him to call so you started talking to the other boy. I would tell your best friend the truth and hope that you two can remain friends and try with this other boy because you dont wanna regret not doing something that could've made you happier.
x0x- good luck
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I have some trouble getting a boyfriend. I'm 13, and I've only had 3 boyfriends where my friends have had a bunch more! It's not like I'm trying to compete, it's just weird! I mean, people tell me I'm pretty, but I don't think I am. I also know I'm not fat but not thin... and I have a lot of friends! I don't really know what's wrong with me! Can anyone help? (link)
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Look hun, dont worry about it. Your 13, you have plenty of time to break hearts and im sure your pretty, sometimes guys can sense that you dont think you pretty and its a turn off, be confident with yourself and never let anyone tell you your ugly!
x0x good luck hunnie
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i had sex yesterday and i am so god damn sore around my upper thighs. what are some exercizes or things i can do to relieve the pain ....thanks!!! (link)
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Take tylonal and lay down, it hurts to walk i know but you cant really be on your feet it'll make it just as sore. Good luck
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my ex girlfriend is currently dating my best friend. I pretend i dont mind, but i really do because i still lik her and i know she still likes me, so wat should i do (link)
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Honestly, just be happy for them. If she really does have alot of feelings for you still, she'll come around but until then, dont ruin what they have because you could be costing your best friend and a futur girlfriend.
x0x-good luck
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Okay today i had this guy over..hes 16(2 years older then me) he has a car but onlii a permit..and he just got outta lock up...hes really fun tho and sweet..plus im...attraced to him like..whoa.? i just love bad boy style...anywayz..so today he drove over to my house n we were just chillin n we went fer like an hour n a half walk round like...half of tha city bc since he onlii has his permit not licenses my mother or dad wont let me ride with him incase he gets caught...well then we were in an ally behind my house n we sorta made out...idk..he is tha 3rd guy i have "hooked up" with in tha past 3 weeks..i dont reallt think im a hoe bc im still a virgin (well i havent had sexual intercourse) but there is this other guy that i hooked up with sorta like a week n a half ago n he has been tellin me he wants us to go out (one of my exs) but now he is made bc he heard that i was just talking to tha other guy i just had over today..i noe he is guna find out that i had him over today n what happened between us..i dont noe what to do..my older sister (23) thinks im doing sumthing wrong but i dont..am i??n what should i do about tha other guy n how he is guna get jealous and mad?!?!? (link)
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Well this guy that you made out with today doesnt sound like too much of a winner hun. Im sorry to say that and im sure you dont wanna hear it but stay away from guys like that because sooner or later they will pull you down with them. If anything id go for your ex. That is if you've still got feelings for him. If not then get out there and keep looking. You have plenty of time, your so young and theres lots of fish in the sea so keep your head up.
x0x-good luck
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I'm 16 and i know im pregnant. Im starting to gain weight, my family has a good reputation,like no pregnancies below 20 i dont know how to tell my mom what should i do
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You need to just sit her down and explain to her how you feel and whats going on. If your already starting to show shes going to know. Your better off letting her know now then letting her find out herself later.
good luck sweetie
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whats do most guys perfer a shaved or hairy vagina? im 17 very curious (link)
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Most guys i know like it shaved but there are some guys that find it as a turn on. Personally, if i were you, id shave it because its just alot easier to handle. But its your decision.
x0x-hope i helped
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umm im 14 and im only a 36A nd all my firends are a yr younger nd the same size as me!!i think that im done growing is there ne way that i can tell if i am or not?? thnnx (link)
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i doubt your done growing hunnie but if you wanna know for yourself--its kinda gross but if you wanna know--feel around your boob, if its like hard when you push on it--that usually means your still growing. But dont worry about it, you'll grow-- i was smaller then you were when i was 14--i was a double A--and now im 17 and im a 34D. You'll def. grow more!
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Well i went out wit this kid last year.. in september, lets call him Bob. N we went out for mayb a week or two, then he broke up with me.. n me n bob i know both feel this way cuz he told me many of times, that wen we were with eachother... it just felt perfect, n even tho we have a 2year age difference it didnt even matter! N omg wen im with him it just feels soo right like i wanna be with him forever.. even if im 13 n hes 15 i mean like i cant say yeah i wanna marry this kid but thats just how it feels kinda. But newayz after we broke up we argued alot, then in december, close to my birthday we started talken again, n i gess we kinda liked eachother, even tho i always had feelings for him. But then sumthing happend, he went away til umm June. Wow that was probly the hardest time i hadta face so far in life. I went crazy, i thot about him a few times a week, eventually i thought about him less and less. Then he came back. We talked alot, i told him i still had feelings for him, he told me he thot bout me wen he was away, then he went out w.sum girl, we lost touch for a lil, then started talken again. N i read him 1 of the poems i wrote wen he was away, i never thot i wud read that, but i did, n i dunno we were talken n i dunno if he likes me or not, itll be a year of likeing him this september, i mean i went out with other ppl in that year, but it wasnt tha same. wat shud i do? i rate very very good just please help me!
x0x signed confused n depressed (link)
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Look hun, i went through the same thing with my ex, but time went on and we went our seperate ways--i truely thought we would get married, granted we were a bit older than you are but still we were young and inexperianced at love. We both have a girl/boyfriend now of almost a year and we love them very much. But we are still friends and i still go over his house to see him and his family. But you are too young to be worrying about marriage. I know it sucks to hear someone say it, but its true, and in time you'll see just how crazy it was to think you wanted to get married at 13.
good luck sweetie x0x
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Has anyone out there ever used Herbal Essences dye kit? And if so did you like it and it was easy?
Also is going from like a alburn color to 44 Radiant Ruby a good choice? (link)
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Yea i use it all the time. Its really good and it stay for a long time so you dont gotta do it for at least 2 months...that sounds like the color i dyed mine so im sure it'll be great hehe
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Im sorrie to bug you, kuz i dont know you or anytihng but i was reading your columns an you have helped alot of people out, so i was wondering if you could tell me if i did the right thing here....I lyked this guy for a relle long tyme, an we were koo friends buh not anything more...we saw eachother lyke every weekend an stuff..an then he started lyken mai twin sister, so i stopped lyking him. well the middle of this skewl year he transfers to my skewl, an we became closer friends, an i started lyking him alot. me and him were always together an everyone would ask about 'us' and if we were a couple or anything, an he would be lyke yah this is mai lady an stuff...then he started going out with this girl from another skewl, an i was relle bummed...so i juss gave him his space, buh lyke we became closer an stuff kuz he'd always kome kikk it wit me lyke after skewl an stuff. he always talked about me 'sharing' him wit his gf an i was always lyke no ur either mine or ur hers u kno? well he finally understood that, an after not talkn to her for a week thought she would get the point that he didn't want to be wit her, an told me that they broke up. me and him started talking, and i kind of new that she thought they were still together but it didn't really bug me. me and him were together 24/7 an to everyone we were a couple...well one day one of mai friends tried to commit suicide and i was relle messed up. i was talkn to him through text messages, an he told me that he finally officially broke it off wit that girl. it made things better, kuz he juss kept telling me how much he wanted to be wit me an that when we saw eachother that night that we were gon get together. well that night i was kinda all quiet an juss sitting with one of my friends kuz i was still sad about my friend that tried to commit suicide. he came over an asked to talk to me and with an attitude asked what he did and i told him it wasn't him. then he was lyke ok w.e. got up an left...well that was the last tyme we really talked...things were soo hard for me to watch him walk through the halls an not notice me anymore, buh i started to act lyke i didn't care. he started being really mean to me, an then one day it was lyke he was the nice guy i knew before...then he hooked up wit this girl, an i was really depressed about everything in lyfe so it juss brought me to tears. he came over to me an gave me a hug an ask'd if i wanted to talk about it not knowing its bekuz he had broken my heart. an i wouldn't talk to him. he kept trying to make me feel better throughout the day, buh nothing worked. he later broke up wit that girl and wanted to be all over me agen an i wouldn't let him...then skewl was over an i guess it kinda juss put me in a hole...the beginning of summer i was depressed all of the tyme. i knew i had to get over him, buh i always thought things would be soo much easier if i just had the ballz to talk to him. i tried to find the streangth to do so but never could. im sorrie this is soo long, buh i juss relle want to know what i should do...juss get over him completely, or try to talk to him!? sorrie for bugging you, an thanks for your tyme...
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Well sweetie it does seem like your in quite the situation. I think you should tell him how you feel first and see how he reacts. If he likes u the way you like him-- go for it but tell him that you dont want this whole dating other girls stuff going on--tell him that if you two are going to be together, its just you and him and not him with some other girls. Now if he takes the other route and would rather stay friends, i guess you'd have to get over him, its really not as hard as you thing. Just hangout with friends that dont really know him and do things that dont make you think of him. Try and get your mind off of him. I know it'll be hard but always remember you've got your friends. Thats all you need
x0x-good luck hun
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i dont know what to do anymore. my ex boyfriend mike and i were perfect for eachother. we were from different towns but i went to his house and hung out or we went some where else. anywayz we went out for 9 mounth but like every once in a while we broke up and got back together agian. then he dumped me and went out with someone else and they went to second base in 2 days! and i went to 1st with him and we went out 9 mouths. and then he dumped her after 2 mounths because he said he still loved me. so i went out with him for about a mounth and then he broke up with me for this other girl in his school and i was like crying for ever. and then after a week he asked me back out and he was still going out with that other girl (but i didnt know) and we went out for like 4 days and he cut me because "his parents said he had to" which was a lie.. i tried to OD and i was in the hostipal for over 2 weeks for it, and everyone knew about it and as soon as i got out he called me and said he loved me.. i just broke down crying because i still loved him. and he asked me back out and i was soo week i said yes and we went out for like 2 weeks untill i found out he was cheating on me agian so i broke up with him and i havent been out with him since. then like last week he called me and was like talking to me and i told him to never call me agian because i was over him and then after i hung up i cried because i still love him but i cant call him cuz im not allowed to.. his parents would freak. (they think im crazy) and i dont know what to do. i love him but i hate him too. hes my first love. and i miss him. theres just so much pain inside of me im like crying. i miss him. i think im gonna kill myself. because i cant live without him. please help me over come this. (link)
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Look sweetie. I was in the situation you were in almost a year ago. And it honestly took me awhile to get back out there, but i realized once i started getting out there and looking for someone better, the better i felt. Thats not saying you need a man to make you happy but just going out with friends. Dont ever hurt yourself over a guy--it more so turns them away then makes them stay, i learned that the hard way. Just be confident and try to find someone new and better because we both know you can. And i know the trust issue is going to come into play when you start dating again, but take it slow and dont rush into anything your not ready for. Good luck hunnie and be strong.
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