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okay im 17 years old and after my last relationship( with a guy i fell in love with)i havent been able to find anyone that i can go out with and not think about and compare them to him what should i do
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well i deffinatly know how u feel, once you fall in love its really hard to bounce back. ive only truly been in love in once and i am still trying to get over it. but the best thing to do is just go out with other guys and experience new things. even if the guys dont compare u can still have fun and then b4 u kno it u'll eventually be over this guy and back to normal
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~angelea
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i heard u can never get over your first love so i know if i move on from nathan.. i'll never forget about him i know ill never be able to forget about issac or jamie... but i am completely moved on but i think about the days when i was w/them. and that is normal
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You need to just stay away from everything that reminds you of this guy. For instance, if eating a certain food reminds you of him or playing a certain song, dont eat it, and don't play it! It will help very much. Do this until your sure your over him. Also instead of trying to like somebody so quickly, just go out flirt, & have fun doing it. Then you just might see how much fun you can have being single. Hope I helped you out! =)
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Of course you are going to compare everyone to someone you fell in love with, its natural and you can't really prevent it, sorry to say. I know how you feel though. You just have to ignore the comparisons and try things with other people, its the easiest way. When you love someone, you'll never forget about how it made you feel or how great it was. And you shouldn't want to forget something that made you truley happy. But the best advice i can give you is try to ignore th ecomparisions and, i guess you could say.. "experiment" with how things go with other guys... hope it helps *amber*
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Go out and meet new people..
-xXoBrianna
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i think you should stay calm and like either get over him, OR hang out with him with hopes of going out again.
best of luck
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man.. i do that styll with a guy i went out with like a year ago.. every guy i like... i compare to him.. but i just try not to thynk about him.. and if i do compare em.. then its not all that bad... cuz that wae.. i can see if theyre worth all tha trouble...
hope i helped..
xoxo andie oxox
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Fuck his brother....that way he'll definately be off your mind
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hey sweets! i well try nd forget about him nd like go out wit ur friends nd like flirt nd have fun .. u been thinkin that becasue hes been on ur mind ... hope i helped !
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Hun i just recently went through the same thing. Dont try and get it back. The love thing is hard i know and i know what its like to compare every guy to him, but sooner or later that one special guy is going to come along and change your mind. I know, i just recently found mine, i love him very much and we have our ups and downs like any relationship, but i now see that i can be in love with more than one guy, though i still think about my ex alot,hes just a great memory. I know you will be okay, it just takes time.
x0x- good luck hun
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even though i'm young and haven't been 'in love' but i have gone out with guys i really liked and i know what its like to compare guys to you last guy. i do it all the time. i remember my last relationship had started with me complaining to him about the other guy. he started to become my friend and i realized that i liked him and the other guy was outta my mind. but now since me and my friend broke up i haven't gone out with anyone else. try to get this guy back! he def. means something specail to you. maybe you don't like him like that anymore but no matter what keep the friendship because this guy is definatly something specail. I'm happy to say that me and my friend are still good friends but i still compare all guys to him!
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I know what you're talking about. Except I thought I was in love with him, and I just thought about all the crap he did and put me through, and all that stuff. And my friends introduced me to a guy. Maybe, thats what you need to do. Just don't compare EVERY guy you see because that won't get you very far, thats what I did. To get him off your mind, try thinking of all the bad stuff he did to your or whatever, and just go out and have fun. Because when you're out having fun, is when you get everything off your mind. Try going to parties or whatever is fun in your neighborhood. And when you see a guy that is hot or catches your eye, try talking to him and getting his number or giving him your number. And don't think of your ex or anything, just the guy you just met. You're 17, you're still young and you only live life once after all. So go out and have fun! Hope this helps and good luck hun, everything will turn out okay, you just have to be positive about it. If you need anything else, just post a message in my inbox.
xoxo Kourtney
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get him back
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Well maybe you`re just not completly over him yet. I kno what you mean...just give it time and dont go in constant search for someone whose better than your last boyfriend, because they will most likely find you.
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i understand fully with what ur going through.....well i was the same way and u know what they do come and u might compare the new ones with him but u gotta try to stop ....it was hard for me to even like anybody for a while and then i found that special one that i like.....and another thing do u tlak to ur ex at all ...cuz if ur ike how i was i was real hung up about how things ended and how we just stiopeed talking and when i did start talking to him again it was easier for me to let go and u can talk to me more about if u want
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dont compare any guy to your ex boyfriend. make a list of pros and cons about your ex. it usually helps. and even if you dont love these new guys, just go out with them anyways, because you never know.
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