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I don't want to move on . . . (15/F)
to start off with, i'm sorry this is so long
Alright, i fell in love with this guy who it would never work out with (like really really never work out no matter how hard we tried if we wanted to). He never said he loved me or anything, and he never came onto me, and i'm not angry about it or anything like that. i miss him infact. I told my few very trusted friends about my feelings (they got kinda creeped out) and my mom said i would just move on and i'd feel this way about some one else some day (but i know i won't). I don't want to move on. How do i tell my friends and family that? I understand that they're just worried about me and stuff like that. i know that they just want me to feel better again, but i know that with out him in my life, i'm never going to feel like this again. i don't want to get over him. he makes me so happy even when i'm not near him. i love him too much, but i'm afraid of what my friends and family would say to that. i need mental help, but advice would by nice too.
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I know everyone tells you that you'll get over him and youll find someone else but the truth is, if he was your first love then you might not ever truly get over him. But you will be able to move on with you life and kinda just push him to the back of your mind. This doesnt just come overnight, it comes with time and you need to be ready to let go. No one can tell you what to do you have to be ready to do it for yourself. Its alright that you cant get over this guy, just dont give up opportunities with other guys cause your hoping it might work out one day with this guy. If you get the chance with another guy GO FOR IT. You said you know you will never feel this way again and its true you wont because you only get your first love once and it feels completely different than any other kind of love!
Good luck sweetie and I hope I helped.
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It just takes times but eventually you will get over him and find someone like him again and who knows he might even be better boyfriend.
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i think you should try to get your mind off of him.i liek dthis one guy for 5 years and i still kinda like him.Maybe this is just your first love.I"m sure your family would understand, i mean thier your family.I would also tell the guy, just to get it off your chest it might make you feel alot better.Hope it works out.
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Hey I know you think you wont move on but you will. I didnt think id like any other guys or anything and now im soo over him but right now you just want him back and u still like him but if its not working out..it wasint meant to be..sorry!
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