Hey Guys! =) Im here to help!
Im a 17 year old girl who likes to have fun! Im also a christian, and All of my friends come to me for advice! So I figured I'd help some one out here also!
*Rahl*
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Gender: Female
Location: West Virginia
Age: 17
Member Since: August 22, 2004
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How long should u wait to know someone before you should kiss them?????? (link)
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A kiss should come naturally, not planned or anything! You should just wait for that moment, and the kiss will happen. It may be 1,2,3 weeks, then again it may be 2-3months. You just never know with a kiss..
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x*o Rache
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ok i wrote this like b4 but i was wondering..
see i have a bf namd chris.. who i love with everything i can love someone with.. ive been with him for 9 months (i knew him for 3 years prior to that) and im still CRAZY about him. I want to be with him forever. I love him so much. and im 15. i would die for him and theres like 3 other ppl i can say that about. i lost my virginity to him bc i wanted to always remember him no matter where in life we went. i think about marring him and having his kids. (not now of course!) and like when i think of him ever moving away i cry! like it upsets me that much! or like if something bad would ever happen to him like say he dies.. i cry! i mean i hear ppl on here talk about love.. but i kno im in love. and with the things with my mom and how she doesnt want me to be with him cause he is black (im white) well it just makes me want to stay with him more and it makes me fall more in love with him! its like i dont care what ANYONE has to say about me and him.. i love him and i cant help it. i would do anything for him! and for me to be 15 and think like this.. well when i told my cousin about it she thought i was dumb and that i shouldnt be tied down like that. but i tried to tell her i dont want to be with no one else besides him! i want to be with him forever. and dont think im some 15 yr old girl thats talkin outta her a$$ here.. i never said this about no one and probally wont for a long long loooooong time. but im dead serious. is it ok for me to feel this way? i just want ur opinions. its not like gonna change the way i feel for him if u guys say no its not normal. but i just want to hear from you all.
thanks a bunch
Manda (link)
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Awh, Manda your in love! =) Love is one of the greatest feelings ever! This is very normal, it's just showing that you really & truly care about him and love him! You will probably end up marrying him! Which isin't a bad thing to you because you love him! So it is okay for you to feel this way, be happy! Your in love =)
x*o Rache
If you need anything just email me at angel25639@yahoo.com
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Ok there is a guy a like aand he thinks I'm cute and he and his friend asked if my friend and I wanted to go swimming and we said yes. But should I change my mind? I'm scared because what I fall or trip or something.
Sincerely,
CameronLover1 (link)
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You should Not change your mind! This will show that your self-confident, and not afraid! Im sure you will have a great time, and yes i'm sure you will be nervous but it will be fun overall. =] Trust me, you'll have a blast! =]
x*o RAche
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I am only 15 and I already have a kid and pretty much my life is ruined.I hate bein a mom at 15 it really sucks.The father of my child is wonderful though.He helps and supports my child as much as he can although both of our lives are pretty much over.I can't stand gettin up every 2 hours to feed her.I really regret getting in bed with the father.It was the stupidest thing ive ever done.I now hate my life.I have a beautiful baby but a messed up life.I ruined my life to fast.I should have waited till I was older and well now I just don't know what to do.I love my baby very much but im just not so sure that i can handle raising a child along with going to school and working to pay for the expences of my child....Plz someone help me.I really need to know what to do.I don't wanna give it to an adoption center but that might be my only choice.I really need some advice so someone plz help.
Desperate for my life back and confused!! (link)
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Well, you made a mistake! But everyone does! Im sure you dislike being a parent, 15 and all. I mean i couldn't imagine being one now, and Im 17! But this will make you stronger! They have schools where you can take your kid with you, and leave them in a nursery (kind of like a daycare) that way you don't haft to worry about them and can get your education! I'm always here for you! If you need anything please email me at angel25639@yahoo.com
LOve, Rache
x*o
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okay well last night me and a bunch of friends were at the mall and we were just hanging out and this kid i thank i kinda like was there we were hanging out and stuff and i guess you could say we were "flirting" and 3 of my friends came up to me at the mal and were like he likes you you should go out w/ him hes really pretty you should but i really dont know if he likes me or not and im not to sure if i want a boyfriend rite now im so confused (link)
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First why don't you really find out if he likes you. If he does, then Just start getting to know each other better, just hangout as friends. This way you can see if you could like him for more. Then if you could, try it out. Get into a relationship, although the only downside is, if things don't work out, then the friendship may be gone! But you can always try.
x*o Rache =)
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Me n my bfz 1 year iz in october but so iz his birthday so im tryna start to save up sum money to get him sumtin but i dont only wanna get him sumtin i wanna like make him sumtin really nice and cute n e ideas?!?!?!?!??!
hmmm.... (link)
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Well since both are in October, do something for both at the same time! Like Buy Him something, or Make him something. One thing guys love is like a photo collage. You could make one of your memories together! And you could just spend the whole evening together, and have fun! =) Hope I helped you out!
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okay im 17 years old and after my last relationship( with a guy i fell in love with)i havent been able to find anyone that i can go out with and not think about and compare them to him what should i do (link)
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You need to just stay away from everything that reminds you of this guy. For instance, if eating a certain food reminds you of him or playing a certain song, dont eat it, and don't play it! It will help very much. Do this until your sure your over him. Also instead of trying to like somebody so quickly, just go out flirt, & have fun doing it. Then you just might see how much fun you can have being single. Hope I helped you out! =)
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When I get my period, the first 3 days are very heavy. I wear pads on those days and then tampons the rest. I'm going down the shore on the days when it's heavy and I'm not sure what to do. I'm going to be swimming and everything, but do you think a 'super' tampon would be good enough? It's really heavy and I'm scared even the super tampons won't be enough. What should I do? (link)
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Well some girls periods are heavier. They also have super-plus tampons. I would just use a super tampon and then Change it often! Have a great time! Hope I helped you out! :o)
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i am definitely not the hottest guy in the group (lil helpful info) i am very funny, great personallity, friend to all, some call me a super hero :) i am always good at giving advice...but this is 1 thing i cant figure out = /. if you have any helpful ideas they would be greatly appreciated. i am a 14/m (link)
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Just be yourself around girls! If you have a great personality, then eventually you will get a girlfriend! Personally, Personality is what I look for mostly in a guy, Just keep looking, there is someone out there for you! Also, be more self-confident, instead of being around the girls and thinking wow they don't like me, tell yourself, hey im hott i know they want me, it will help. Just don't go to overboard with it though, or it will mess things up! Good luck!
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Well i have been friends with this one guy who wears his mom's thongs, bras, and pantyhose. Everytime i'm talking to him on AOL, he always asks me if i can give him one of my thongs. He also always asks me if i get creeped out by it. I always lie and tell him no even thought it does. I don't want to hurt his feelings but he starts to creep me out because he swears he's not gay. Should i be supiscious...and how do i know if he's lying. I need some advice...Thanks (link)
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Well this is odd for a guy to wear a thong, bra's, and pantyhose! But he might not be gay, maybe he is just seeing what it is like to be a woman.
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hey i really need help on this one..ive been with my b/f for 2 years and whenever i tell him to call at a certain time..he doesnt!!!! it gets me all worried that hes cheating on me since he has b4 .. and if say lyk call at 11 ..hell call at around 2 or even later and say he forgot to call or w/e or wasnt thinking bout it..but it also worryz me too cuz i wana kno hez ok and wen he dont call it makez me worry!! i mean, i kno all of his friendz and everything too.. i talked to him about this about a million timez and said everything i can possibly imagine to him about this and he keepz promising me he'll call wen hez supposed to but he doesnt!! (link)
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Well if I were you, I'd check up on him. If he doesn't call you, call him. See where he is at. *&* if you can drive even better! If you call and he isin't home, just casually drive around looking, if you see him, don't let him know just watch him. Maybe you'll see he isin't and then trust him.
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