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ok i wrote this like b4 but i was wondering..
see i have a bf namd chris.. who i love with everything i can love someone with.. ive been with him for 9 months (i knew him for 3 years prior to that) and im still CRAZY about him. I want to be with him forever. I love him so much. and im 15. i would die for him and theres like 3 other ppl i can say that about. i lost my virginity to him bc i wanted to always remember him no matter where in life we went. i think about marring him and having his kids. (not now of course!) and like when i think of him ever moving away i cry! like it upsets me that much! or like if something bad would ever happen to him like say he dies.. i cry! i mean i hear ppl on here talk about love.. but i kno im in love. and with the things with my mom and how she doesnt want me to be with him cause he is black (im white) well it just makes me want to stay with him more and it makes me fall more in love with him! its like i dont care what ANYONE has to say about me and him.. i love him and i cant help it. i would do anything for him! and for me to be 15 and think like this.. well when i told my cousin about it she thought i was dumb and that i shouldnt be tied down like that. but i tried to tell her i dont want to be with no one else besides him! i want to be with him forever. and dont think im some 15 yr old girl thats talkin outta her a$$ here.. i never said this about no one and probally wont for a long long loooooong time. but im dead serious. is it ok for me to feel this way? i just want ur opinions. its not like gonna change the way i feel for him if u guys say no its not normal. but i just want to hear from you all.
thanks a bunch
Manda
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if i were in your position that i would love him and be with him regardless of what anyone else in your family says. he is the one that you love and nothing should change that!
-ashli
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Cry everyone a river,and show them how much u luv him..since you'd do anything for him.
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Awh, Manda your in love! =) Love is one of the greatest feelings ever! This is very normal, it's just showing that you really & truly care about him and love him! You will probably end up marrying him! Which isin't a bad thing to you because you love him! So it is okay for you to feel this way, be happy! Your in love =)
x*o Rache
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yur in love!! so yur going to feel this way regardless of wut yur mom tellz yu or sayz!! just talk to yur mom ..and let her kno that you love this kid and she cant change yur feelingz for him and tell her that yu DO respect her , but you just wish she wuld give this guy a chance bc he really respectz yu and yu kno that she wuld be happy to see yu with such a wonderful caring guy!!
let her kno that yu really care for this guy and dont wana have to let him go for no reason other than his color...we all bleed red.
lOvE, aShLea
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Manda,
First of all, lemme say this: Age is a state of mind, not being. It's sweet that you feel that way about your guy, that you'd do anything for him and you wanna be with him forever.
That's exactly how I feel about my guy. He and I have been together for over nine months, too, and I met him last year...lol. I'm 16, by the way, and he's 18. We've actually discussed marriage. We just know we're gonna be together for a damn long time, if not forever. I know EXACTLY how you feel, and it's totally fine to feel that way.
Ignore your mom. Really, ignore her not wanting you to be with this guy. He must be a good guy if you've been together for 9 months and you feel this strongly about him.
You found your dream guy? Keep 'im. Love is awesome.
-Siren =)
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~Thank God! I know how you feel! Everyone thinks I'm crazy but my boyfriend and I know for a 101% fact we will get married and be together forever. I'm only 16 and he is about to be 17 but we just know. We have been together for 6 months but on and off prior to that. We have known eachother for 3 years and have been bestfriends for ever. I love him more than I ever could another person. I would be here all night if I were to try and explain it all. I understand that everyone thinks you are tieing yourself down too. My sister got pregnant when she was sixteen and is now 19 married and has two kids. Everyone thinks I'm going the same way but we are really safe and we know that even if that did happen we wouldn't be tied down. It would just be a happy change of plans. Don't think you are weird. You are totally right. Your mom will think you are wrong to but if you love him as much as you say you could wait a couple years if it was necessary. I almost got that one but I got lucky. You be careful but love while you can doll!!! Good luck!!~
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It is okay for you to feel like this. I feel tha same exact way about my boyfriend, my parents dont like me being with him because of tha stuff we do together, but i love him so much and if anything ever happened to him i would die, ive hurt myself over him before because i didnt like seeing him hurt. I kno how you feel, and its normal. Ask me anything :)xOx
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No. I think its normal. Your heart controls who you love, you have no control over it. And the fact that you don't care what people think (since he's black and your white) is really sweet and cute! And even though you're only 15 years old, you can find love no matter how old you are. Don't let that change. And you never know, you could get married to Chris and have his kids. But, I think its so cute and sweet. You guys sound like the cutest couple ever!! =D I hope everything turns out for you two and you guys last FOREVER!
xoxo Kourtney
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well u shouldnt.. listen 2 what pplz have 2 sayz about you and ur man girl.. bc all they r doing iz like being jealous and hating.. but if u love him shit!! go with him.. and if u both love each others u wont let anybody get between u 2 !! well good luck!! i hope i help!! if u need anybody imed me @ aim itz latina chica 650 or whenever u need help or something just hit me up aight!? xoxo nicole!!
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heyy--my names missy, and I have a boyfriend I feel the same way about...I don't think anything is neccesarly 'normal' b/c I dono how there can be a normal when everyones so different...BUUUT! I do feel the same way so if that helps, I don't think there's anything wrong w/ you and I think it's totally ok, soo Good luck with your boyfriend and--what other people say don't matter--it's how YOU feel, what YOOU think...there's always gonna be someone who looks down on you for what you do, just let them and learn from it..everyone has different values and feels differently about everything, that doesn't mean there's anything wrong with them--it just makes them who they are! =)
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hey, when your parents, or people your close to, tell you that they don't want you to be with this person, it ALWAYS makes you want them more.. i was like this before.. my parents hated the person i was with, and everytime i told them how i wanted to be with him forever, theyd try to bring me down by saying how i deserve better, but that just made me want him more cuz they didn't want me with him.. trust me, it's normal.. ((with me and him it didnt last but that doesn't mean it cant with you and this guy)).. if you love him that much and he loves you, it could mean forever but if it ends you can't just dwell on it.. it does seem like you love him, but don't get obsessive or anything.. alright bye
<3 Nikki
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Its normal.You'd do anything for him...thats love! And yea who cares what people think..i hope you and your bf have a great future together:)
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