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If you are on the pill, or have taken it, did you gain weight?, and how much? (link)
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yes, i gained about 3 or 4 pounds...as long as u eat relatively healthy and exercise though, you can lose it too!! Trust me, BC works WONDERS and it's worth those extra couple pounds IF you get them...A lot of girls don't!! Hope I helped!
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Okay, well me and my boyfriend are pretty close. His friends are my friends and my friends are his. So we all go places and hang out together all the time. Well, it kind of seems like whenever we are together, me and him cant get away from each other! I mean dont get me wrong thats not a bad thing, but I'm starting to think that my friends are thinking that I need to stop being around him so much, and I dont have time for them. I love my friends, and i love my bf, but how can I balance all of those relationships? When me n him are together sometimes we get all kissy and we are hugging and everything and sometimes it feels weird becuase my friends tell me its so cute, but I think they are annoyed. What can i do?
I Will Rate HigH! ThAnKs!
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My boyfriend and I are the same way...We like to show our affection...the thing is, other people don't wanna see it...So what I've figured out is that there's a time and place for everything..As much as my boyfriend and I like to kiss and just be all over eachother we know we can't in front of other people...Expecially when we aren't with other couples...So we try and find time to hang out just me and him...where we can be alone and do our thing and not feel wierd about other people seeing...And when we're with other people we just stick to holding hands or hugging and an occasional peck rather then going at it right in front of them. It does make the time that you spend together just the two of you a lot more specail as well because you are always looking forward to seeing eachother. If you are looking for a way to say something to him, I would just find a time when just you and him can hang out, and while you're hanging out just casual bring it up..just be like this is so much better to kiss you here ya know where I don't feel like everyones watching and judging us...I'm sure he'll agree and you'll start hanging out more just the two of you!! Good luck and I hope I helped!
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i have been with a girl for the last 18 months and she cheated on me and got with another guy, and on out year and a half anniversary she told him she loved him after knowing him for a week. can she love him? and he dumped her and said he doesnt like her anymore, and i know we cant get back together but sometimes she says i love you and is it wrong for me to say it back, i mean i resent her for cheating on me and breaking our trust and relationship but i love her, help please
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I know people say just move on and all you can think is that they don't know what it's like and you feel like it's impossible--TRUST ME I know!! but you have to try. Sometimes there's something that keeps bringing you back to that person, sometimes it takes getting back together with them for you to be happy and that's fine. but if you never try to walk away, never try to get over it and be your own person you will never know. I don't know anything about you or your situation so there's not a whole lot i can say i guess...but basically the way I see it is; if you really love her and she tells you that she loves you and you feel the same way and you want to tell her--tell her. don't hold back thinking that you're doing the wrong thing, you are the only person who knows how you feel and nobody else can express it but you, so if you want to express it, then DO! Just be careful that she doesn't take you for granted because if you do take her back once for something like that she may think you'll do it again...Anyhow, sorry about your situation and I hope that I helped
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Hi guys, This may sound weird comming form a 22 yera old but my doctor was no help when I asked her this question. Some imput from you guys might be good. I have been on and off of the pill sence I have been 15. I recently started up again after being off of them for a few years. This is my second month. I know the hormones are supose to affect you but I am finding myself very moody. I have never had bad PMS or every been moody. I find myself wanting to cry a lot more for no reason, or just really snippy at everyone. I hate this its not me. I was always happy and I loved everyone. The last 2 months have been hell with these mood swings. I am even snapping at my BF whom I love more than anything in the world. I dont want this new attitude to ruin anything we have. I am really worried. I dont want to be off the pill cause we are not ready for kids yet. Is there anything I can do to get back to normal? Thanks guys I really appreciate your info. *Christin* (link)
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This happened to me as well at first but when I asked about it I was told that you can switch pills. Every women is different with different needs. If you ask your gyno about switching she should give you many other different choices and you may have to try a few other ones before you find the perfect fit, but don't worry, because you will!! Good luck.
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I'm planning a Halloween party... what should I do? We want to be able to have it be kind of like a make-out/Halloween Party. Help?
Tips n' such. Thanks! (I rate high) (link)
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I know you might think a halloween COSTUME party is way little kidish...but it can sometimes be a GREAT way to show yourself off if that's something you'd be interested in. There's always cute lil 'sexy' outfits to wear and you will definately stand out...so you could try having a costume party, but just a thought. Having good music is always a plus to a fun party. I dono how old you are or if you'd be doing anything with drinking, but I know a few fun drinking games...I dono much other innocent fun games, just dancing and hanging out listening to music just might do! hope i helped a little and if you want the drinking games, let me know
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when i grow up i want to be a cosmotolegist. sorry if thats spelled wrong im in a hurry. but anyways i know they do face makeup but what else do they do? and how can i get started? im only 14..is there a site about a college that does that stuff. thanks (link)
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*cosmetology* for all the people who spelled it wrong, just to help you out! =) Anyhow, that's what I want to do as well, and have, forever. For people to say don't get excited, they don't make a lot of money is kinda messed up because; for one, the money isn't bad, and for two, if you're happy with what you do in life you're going to be a whole hell of a lot more happy then if you don't care for what you do, even if you make 10X the amount of money. Depending upon where you live you can find out about where you can go to school...I dono where you live, but I know here in Omaha we have two Cosmetology schools. It's a year and one month in school and then you have to go out on your own and find a job, which may not be easy at first depending on where you live. Also, you specialize in usually one or two things...like; hair, makeup, manicure/pedicure, or facials. Few other things branch out from those. Anyhow, I hope I helped and good luck!!
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ok well me and my boyfriend broke up but we still say i love you and mean it but i kinda like this other guy at my school...what do i do we flirt all the time..
(my EX and i dont go to the same school but talk every night and are plannin to get back wit eachother he says we "seperated" bcz we plan on goin back out like this weekend..when we see eachother on saturday!!) (link)
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depending on how you feel for this other guy and how you feel for your ex you need to make your decision...you kinda have to go with your instinct....think about which guy is the 'better' guy and which will treat you better...good luck in your decision.....just another thought: be careful to not sorta be with both at the same time, if one or the other finds out they might think you're cheating and lose your trust
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How can you tell the difference between normal discharge and a yeast infection? (link)
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Gotta hate being a girl....You'd know if you had a yeast infection, it's one of the most uncomfortable feelings...u'll get an itching/burning sensation and probably some oder in ur discharge...you should go to a doctor, but if you feel uncomfortable telling your mom or something find someone to take u to somewhere like walgreens to get an over the counter medication because it will go away a lot quicker!! good luck with that, I know it sucks!
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This is a bit embarrissing im nearly 16 and been with my gf for about 5 months and my penis is
quite small and im worried what she'll think
does it matter to girls? (link)
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I don't blame you for asking the question because my boyfriend brings it up to, but TRUST ME it doesn't matter to us...at least not me...I highly doubt ur dating a girl who's in it for sex and cares emencly about whether or not you're great in bed...or how you hang if you know what I mean...Size really doesn't matter...just because you're not hung like an elephant doesn't mean you can't find ways to pleasure her -TRUST ME FROM EXPERIENCE!!!!- besides, believe it or not, most guys our age, really aren't that big, I've seen a few and they're all about the same and none are what we would call 'large' so just relax and don't worry about it!! good luck and hope i helped!
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I HATE MY DAD! hes such an idiot... hes not in my life at all. hes a co dependant jerk. when i was little he didnt make me lunch and he makes me do everything for him... he can b OK sometimes but yeah its not enough i still hate him... hes not in my life at all but he'll pick random times to step in and ruin it. like something that my moms been letting me do for 7 months all of the sudden i cant do bcuz of him. I HATE HIM SOOOOO MUCH. my mom wont even stick up for me or what she knows is right... what should i do?
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My dad is an alcoholic, which is actually pretty hard for me to say, but he is...sometimes it really makes me feel like I hate him....because he is never around and never helps me and my mom deserves SOOO much better....I realize though, that he is still my dad....regardless of what he does or doesn't do, he still loves me....knowning that he cares about me at least makes me want to care about him and makes me want to try to help him sober up...maybe if you told your dad that you don't think he's fair and explain to him how ur feeling he might understand a little bit....just remember that he loves you and try to not say you hate him, because I think it's in human's nature to always love your parents...hope i helped a little
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hi. im one of those girls who get all the attention from all the guys. yeah they literally follow me around and fight over me. i like the attention, sure, who wouldnt... but it gets realllllly annoying. like im trying to hang with my girls and they just keep talking to me and fighting over me and other girls think im a slut cuz all these guys are always FLIRTING with ME. its not like i come on to them.. what should i do?
thanx alot
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You have to be doing something to them to make them want to flirt with you...maybe ur just a naturally flirty person or maybe you don't even realize it, but they wouldn't keep on flirting with you and making you 'ms popularity' if you didn't give them reason to. step back and look at what you're doing...if you want them to change, you might have to do some changing first
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i recently moved to boston. i have a dad who only goes by what he hears, a mom who dont care, and a step-mom who fusses about every little thing. let alone a half bro who is fixing to go into the marines, a step-sister who feels she needs talk to her boyfriend 24-7, a little brother who has his frequent bad times and 2 other siblings, a step brother and step sister who has issues of thier own. I dont want to live in the world of hatred i have had toward my family. i cant get to any of them. and i live with 4 of them. i cant make any of them see that i have feelings as well and that i have a life to live. i need help before i do something stupidly stupid.
signed:dont care anymore.
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I think to a certain extent, just about everyone feels like that...Every family has their problems, and every teenager feels like they don't like their family and they don't belong at some point in their life...Sometimes they just piss you off and you just want to BE ALONE and you never can seem to get away...I would think that saying something to all of them might make you feel a little better...if you say look mom, I don't think you care about *blah blah blah* and I think you should or however you want to approach whoever it is about whatever it is...just SAY SOMETHING! also, confiding in a friend who is a good listener will help because being close to you and knowing ur situation they would be able to give good advice...sometimes its not even the advice that you need, sometimes it's just knowing someone else is listening...if you don't feel comfortable talking to a friend, try writeing in a journal! Hope I helped
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soooorry its long, but i need help :(
Alrighty every1, I have absolutely fallen in love with this boy *Damien - and damien is thee greatest guy ever... if i was able to marry him right now i would!! but see we got into probably one of the biggest fight ever and i think he's gone.. for good :'(! i really dont know what to do with myself now... everything i do is "damien" i eat, sleep, drink, shower, think, talk about damien.... 24-7! i mean i knew i loved him before but tonight i just felt that "this is him" feeling! where you know that this is the person you would spend the rest of your life with... i know its crazy and 'im too young' but i dont care what you say or think because i am in love with him and thats just how it is.... but i really need some advice on getting him back! please, pretty please i am begging anybody!! thank you soo much who ever does help!!
p.s we've been together for 1 year and 2 months and NEVER broke up before... soo yea that also!! thankss! (link)
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definately just be honest with him....tell him that one year and 2 months isn't worth breaking up because of one fight, no matter what it's about....tell him you want to work thru it, and listen to what he has to say....if he says he wants to also, then great good for you guys and just do what you can to see things how the other person does...if he says no, then you have to show him how much you care. don't be overbearing just do the little things you know he'll care about and i'm sure he'll be appreciative! good luck!
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this is long but i'll give u the highest rateing just plz answer..ok i lived w/ my grandparents my
whole life untill my grandfather died and so now i'm liven w/ my aunt uncle and cousin.well i had to move in a diff house and go to a diff school where i didnt kno n e one. and this was just a few monthes ago.well my aunt and i have always had a really good relationship till i moved in here but a few things happened and she didnt trust me n e more.i have never had to do and house work in my life till i moved in here.now she exspects me to do chores every day..its really hard for me to do this and her daughter has done then her whole life and my aunt is always sayin how she does her chores and i dont and i feel really left out..u no i dont feel like part of the family.she knos this and that i fell that she treats her daughter better i tell her that all the time.she is always sayin how my cousin gets good grades and is a really good kid...i have no clue wat to say to her that will make her understand how i feel...plz help me.. (link)
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Kind-of a hard situation but i'll see if i can help ya!....i dono how long you've lived with them or anything about your situation, but i'd have to say that not only is this a HUGE change for you (and i know i have no idea how huge) but i know it must be REALLY hard, but I also know that it's probably hard on your aunt, uncle, and cousin...Doing chores isn't an easy thing to keep up with, but if you talked to your aunt and told her that you'd be willing to help if she paid you, or if she did something in return for you doing those chores, that you'd be more willing (and just try to tough it out and do them...it's just like school, you may hate it but you know you HAVE to do it, so it's best to just go and get it done with.) About the grades thing--whether your the smartest person in the world or the dumbest it doesn't matter...what matters is that you try. i know it sounds cheezy as hell, but if you were to go to school and try your hardest and get a 5% you could sat at least it wasn't a 4%...but if you go and u don't try at all and you get a 70%....you look back and think man i coulda got a 71%....(if that makes any sense...kinda hard to explain...) but basically just do what you think you SHOULD do in school and I'm sure you'll do fine...if you tell your aunt look i didn't do great on this test but i thought i was gonna fail so im really happy then she'll be more accepting. Another thing:don't compete with your cousin...it would just make things worse...i know it's hard not to, but then you hold an inner grudge and you said you wanted to feel like part of the family and you can't if you don't like someone. Just hang in there and keep smiling and I'm sure everything will pass!! I'm sorry for all your going thru and if ya need anything else just drop me one!
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I LOVE basketball, it's almost like my life. I love playing, even though I'm not that good. My new school started practices today, and they are making the cut next week. So far we have 15 girls, but we can only have 18. School starts next week which will mean more competition. I'm really nervous, because I'm not horrible but when scrimmaging/playing in a game, i get really nervous and I lose my head. I mess everything up. I really want to make this team. Does anyone have advice to help me get better and focus? THX (link)
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tell your coach that ur nervous and that u feel like it might effect ur game....it might actually take some of the nervousness down a little, because u know he knows that....u gotta just relax, and play YOUR game...also, try to make a 'ritual' before u play every game, something that kinda takes ur mind off of it (IE-usher has stage fright so before every performance he puts 10 bags of M&M's on a table and seperates them into colors to take his mind off of it) just do something to help you to relax, and clear your mind so that if anythings bothering you, you can just forget about it and play!! hope i helped and GOOD LUCK at ur tryouts!
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okei well my left boob hurts rele bad my mom says its just gittign bigger but it hurts to run n jump n im very athletic.. n ther is a lumpin there i was wonderin if that happens to everyone.. and i was wonderin if ppl can notice if on boob is bigger cuz i can tell one is but idk if others can
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nobody can tell if one boob is bigger then the other, and in fact almost ALL girls' left boob is bigger then their right ( i dono why, i just read it in cosmo once! ) but anyhow....i was curious if u told ur mom about that bump, my boobs hurt sometimes, but i've never had a lump....u should consider having it checked out if it doesn't go away in a short period of time
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hey.. you told a girl to use baby powder for sweating? well say i put that on b4 i went to school..wouldnt the powder absorb all it could b4 the end of the day, meaning there wouldn't be any left, and you'd still sweat? do you have any other suggestions of what could make it stop? (link)
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well, it worked for me... I guess maybe it depends on the person, but it's worth a try...I don't know of anything else right now, but there's probably something they do sell like at a drugstore made more specifically for that, but I don't really know....sorry if I didn't help too much!
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im 18 and my sister is 24. me and my sister dont get along much. once in awhile, were fine, but other than that, shes always screaming at me. a lot of my friends dont like her, nor does my guy. as the years gone by, ive learned to adapt to the way she treats me, but lately, it has gotten too out of hand and it makes me cry a lot. i told her plenty of times before that she hurts my feelings and shed apologize, but the next day, she still treats me like shit. i know that sisters are supposed to be there for each other through thick and thin, but its more like i have her back and she just brings me down, because basically, she does. she makes my parents go against me, which causes me more pain. what should i do? ive tried talking to her numerous times, but that doesnt ever seem to work? help.. because its literally killing me inside.. (link)
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I'm in a situation much like yours, and I have been my whole life. I always looked up to both of my sisters, and thought THE WORLD of them. I did everything for them to accept me, and sometimes they did, sometimes they didn't (I'm the youngest by the way) It took me SOO long, but I finally realized that I was never the screwed up kid, because that's what I thought. I thought I don't fit into my family, so I must be the failure, but really....
My sisters are two VERY selfconsumed people...perhaps it's the same way for you!? It seems like you do a lot for her but she's not willing to return the favor, and that isn't right. I learned to be like them (but only to them) when it comes to my sisters, I will do certain things for them, but I always sit and think would they EVERR do this for me!? and if they wouldn't I don't do it for them, I don't do it to be mean, but sometimes you can't just be the 'nice guy' if ya know what I'm saying. Also, take into consideration your sister's life...maybe something is bothering her, and just the same way you need to vent about your sister, she needs to vent about something as well, maybe you could ask her if something is bothering her when she yells at you rather then getting into an argument. Well, I dono that I helped, but it's the best I got and I hope I did some good! =)
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Ok, i'm not sure if thats how u spell it but still.....okay i sweat. and i dont mean a little i mean a lot! i'm female by the way. so all my real cute lil shirts i cant wear b/c i sweat so much it shows wet spots underneath my arms (and only there, not my hands or anything like that) my parents refuse to take me to the doctor. I've tried powder, anti*persprent, and al the specail deoderants!! Does guys deoderant work better, if so what kind? and do u have any ideas on what i can do? thanks so much! (link)
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you could try guys' deoderant, it may help you a little, but I had that problem too when I first went thru puberty (it went away--so don't be too worried!!!) but I used baby powder...it absorbs oil so it will help!
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What's a polite way to get off the phone with someone. I'm not annoyed with this person, in fact I'm completely in love with her, but I just don't want to turn into one of those 4 hour conversations every day kind of couples. (link)
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Don't lie, if she catches you, it'll seem like you never wanted to talk in the first place, just be honest...If you wanna watch TV just say hey I'm gonna watch this show and I'll tlak to you tomorrow, or say what you want to do! Also, a way to avoid her thinking you want a long conversation is by calling and saying, I just wanted to say hi and see how your day went and with the questions answered say well I better go or whatever...but as a girl I must say...I'm not one for a looong conversation every night but if my boyfriend didn't call me everyday or have a long conversation every once in a while, I'd feel distant..Hope I helped and good luck with your girl! = )
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