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feeling neglected


Question Posted Sunday September 19 2004, 8:20 pm

i recently moved to boston. i have a dad who only goes by what he hears, a mom who dont care, and a step-mom who fusses about every little thing. let alone a half bro who is fixing to go into the marines, a step-sister who feels she needs talk to her boyfriend 24-7, a little brother who has his frequent bad times and 2 other siblings, a step brother and step sister who has issues of thier own. I dont want to live in the world of hatred i have had toward my family. i cant get to any of them. and i live with 4 of them. i cant make any of them see that i have feelings as well and that i have a life to live. i need help before i do something stupidly stupid.

signed:dont care anymore.

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kiiss_this_xo answered Tuesday September 21 2004, 2:01 pm:
the first thing is to kno yur not alone there plenty of people w/ the same problem n yu need to talk to them work it out togethey ya kno please dont do nething stupid there no need turn to some friends or chanel yur anger to something productive try talkin to the person yu feel most close to in the family hope i helped
- steffy

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MisSoccer19 answered Sunday September 19 2004, 10:26 pm:
I think to a certain extent, just about everyone feels like that...Every family has their problems, and every teenager feels like they don't like their family and they don't belong at some point in their life...Sometimes they just piss you off and you just want to BE ALONE and you never can seem to get away...I would think that saying something to all of them might make you feel a little better...if you say look mom, I don't think you care about *blah blah blah* and I think you should or however you want to approach whoever it is about whatever it is...just SAY SOMETHING! also, confiding in a friend who is a good listener will help because being close to you and knowing ur situation they would be able to give good advice...sometimes its not even the advice that you need, sometimes it's just knowing someone else is listening...if you don't feel comfortable talking to a friend, try writeing in a journal! Hope I helped

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JesusFreak2006 answered Sunday September 19 2004, 8:30 pm:
hey i know your feeling really neglected and its tough but please dont do anything stupid like killing yourself...i know sometimes people get super wrapped up in their lifes and dont notice other people and this is where friends come in if there is somoene you can talk near you or someone who cares for you alot just talk to them and dont give your family that much thought since it hurts to think about how they dont pay much attention to you and you always have God their with ya by your side keepin you company and hey anytime you need to talk just instant message me and id be glad to be their for you....

JesusFreak

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