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WELL... teen moms rock i'm shallow & & & i honestly don't care hott pink is sex tj maxx is my life shopping is my cardio i don't talk shit behind your back i say it to your face i love over-priced handbags paris hilton and beyonce are my idols the shorter the skirt the better i have my ears and soon to be bellybutton pierced i think i'm to sexy for scum baggs i only have pretty friends cuz i'm shallow i already said that. + i love talking shit to 8 year olds who think there tough=]]
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Well I like this guy and he has a g/f but he secretly likes me and when he is not with his g/f he talks to me and hugs me and jokes around with me but when he is with her he never looks at me. His aunt tells me he likes me and I like him secretly too. He always trys to stare at me when his gf is not looking but his g/f is one of my good friends. What should I do? (link)
this jsut happened to my friend except they werent going out... go for it tell him how you feel and that your not gonna wait around for him because maybe if hes still going out with her and talking to you he just wants someone to fall back on when he break up with his girlfriend or something like that so make sure you let him kno whose boss okkk? =]] good luck


well theres this boy i liked scence last year and i told him straight up and know hes been flirting and punching me in my arm like i use to did when i liked him hes probbly returning the favor but i catch him looking juss staring at me and he always says somthing to me like last year he was all flirting with me and he was like he gonna miss me and he wanted a hug and a pic of me but i was mad at him b/c he waisted my last picture on the floor and i wanted a pic of me and him only :) so i juss gave him a hug before we left for summer then i was mad b/c i didnt give him a real hug and i didnt see em on the last day :(( does he like me or what (link)
sounds like he does yu shuld def. go for it w/ him he sounds sweet and flirty.. flirty guys are always fun!! =]] lol hope i helped
-*steffy


Ok, im a gurl and i have a little mustache thingy and i never really thought to much of it til now. and i feel like other ppl notice it which i know they do. what should i do? should i shave it or trim it or wax it or i dunno lol. plz help... thanx a bunch!!
and ill rate yu! (link)
no0o dont shave it, trim it, or wax it it'll only make the hair grow back darker and thicker theres these sally hansen bleaching kits that cost about 10 dollars at the most get one of those it makes the hair thiner and bleached blonde so its less noticable
hope i helped
-steffy


hi. im in 9th grade and theres about 5 or 6 girls who are obsessed with me! they are ny best friends but they treat me differently than everyone else ib our group. they fight over who gets to sit next to me, who gets to b my partner and stuff like that. like if i ask someone to do me a favor they jump to it like their life depends on it. im glad they love me n all but its kind of annoying and obsessive what should i do?
thnx (link)
tryn make some other friends ya kno.. or tell them hey listen this is flattering and all but i need my space i want to be treated like everyone else or start talking to them like they talk to yu treat them the same way..
-steffy


I have a problem with getting a boyfriend! I don't know why because I think I make a really great girlfriend (I'm told this also) and I'm extremely loyal. I'm not ugly either. I think I'm pretty OK looking (long brown hair, blue green eyes, 5'5", tan). I'd show my picture but you all would probably say "No wonder you can't get a boyfriend!" But anyway, I always seem to attract guys way older than me who are perverted and just want me for one thing. Sex.

Is there any way I can get a guy to notice me? I know this sounds cheesy and stupid, but I don't really feel "complete" without one. I don't have any friends at all. I had some but they're unreliable and never want to hang out so screw them. I want a boyfriend really bad! Plz help.

I rate btw. And also don't tell me I'm pathetic... (link)
well actually yur not pathetic pleanty of people feel this way nothing new its natural for people who arent supermodel gorgeous, but there right al guy are after sex they think about sex what every fifteen seconds or something but just be flirty w/ a guy yur attracted to theres this website w/ flirting tips www.flirtzone.com o0k? that shuld help
-steffy


ok me and my boyfriend broke up and hes tellin me he likes this other girl and it bothers me because he'll tell me he still loves me and he used to call b4 he went to scholl just to say he loved me and he wont ever cheat on me and he still does that and were not together..and he calls me after he does somethin he told me he wont do and tell me hes sorry for breakin that prmise and he loves me and like... he knos i still like him we used to talk all night and we still do sometimes and i havent seen him in like 1month and a half to 2 months and ima see him on saturday (its sunday) but i think it'll kinda be akward bcz we never rly were alone cz my bestfriend is his cousin and shes always around and we both said we'll make alone time but help!!...should we kiss?!...or would that be wrong help!! what should we do what should we talk about when we talk about "us"!!... (link)
tell the dude how yu feel!! yu cant be ina relationship again until yur both completely honest and if the moment is right then just go for kiss him but dont force a kiss on him n if he does that to yu n yur not comfotable w/ it then be like no i dont wanna kiss yu but i think yu shuld take a break from him find some otehr guys and if it doesnt feel right w/ them then yu'll kno yur meant to be w/ him
hope i helped
-steffy


hey, okay i really like your screen name to begin with but anyways i got a problem. See i have this besttttt!!!! friend ever, and i dont know what to do. I really like her alot (as a friend) but the people she hangs out with are so incredible horrible. They treat her like shit and do anything to benefit for themselves. For instance this girl always says shes likes the same guys as my best friend does. And somehow she always gets them, but my best friend is so much prettier and nicer than her and when she tells me these things i can kinda tell it bothers her. See shes not the one to speak up on things. But yeah and i always tell her to watch out for this girl but all she says is bla bla bla weve always been this way its just a different kind of friendship. But i dont think its a friendship @ all, i dont wana take her friends away from her so i sound bitchy and selfish but i just dont want her to get hurt

signed... i dont know what to do! (link)
hmM sounds alot like a situation i'm in well tryn talk to this 'friend' of yours n tell her n if she dont wanna listen then let her learn on her own ya kno thats all yu can do just help her along the way


My mom doesn't think I should have a boyfriend but I'm 13!!! I think this unfair because a lot of my friends have boyfriends. I had to reject three people I might have said yes to, including the guy I like.I try talking to my mom about it but she just won't budge. I can't have a boyfriend until highschool!
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woahh that sucks tell yur mom yur gonna go for it if yu like a guy yu cant help that n she cant change it !!!


when is the best time to get your puppy nuetered? I have a puppy and he is like starting to hump his stuffed animal dogs..lol (link)
as soon as possible yu dont want a humping puppy lol


ok i like this boy adam, and i think he likes me too but im not sure. i ask him who he likes and he won't tell me. but its a sticky situation because one of my best friends likes him too, thats how i got to know adam. she wanted me to hook them up, and then i fell for him. i cant tell her i like him because i dont want to hurt her. she wont get mad, shes not like that, but she wll be hurt. so my question is, how do i find out if he likes me, and should i tell my friend or should i just move on from him? (link)
well the best thing would be to moveo n but yu cant stop love so if ya cant do that tell yur friend yu've tried not to like him and that yu jsut cant help yurself and if he likes yu and not her then owell cuase that was his desicion ya knoo
anymore ?'s just ask to find out if he likes yu just ask him but be subtle about it dont scare him away or get another firend yu trust to ask; better yet ask onna his friendss
-steffy


ok i know this is a question alot of people ask..but i like this guy..like alot and we're good friends and we talk sometimes..i guess? i wanna tell him i like him but i can't..cuz im too shy..and he doesn't have a screen name..Ah..so are there any ways to show him i like him..without ya know..atchually saying it directly..alomst like flirting? Thanks! (link)
yeah theres plenty of ways to tell him.. be creativesend him a letter orr talk on the phone n be all flirty bring up the subject subtlely thou be like oh yu gotta girl? n if he says why juss be like well causse oh nevermind maybe he'll get the hint if not keep trying hope i hhelped
-stefy


All my friend has been doing lately is complaining. Not to be stuck up or anything but things are going a little better for me than they are for her lately and shes tryen to bring me down with her so we can share being upset all the time . On the fone she doesnt stop complaining I just want to hang up on her. I dont want to be rude to her about this but im just so sick of listening to her complain. PLEASE help! (link)
talk to yur friend about this .. make her feel like yu dont care if shes tryna bring yu down cause shes not gonna but be sympathetic about it
-steffy


theres this guy that i have a major crush on, and i've known him forever (since i was 4) and we went out when i was 9 and he was 10, but then when i turned 10 me and him got into a silly argument and i broke up with him. after that i haden't seen him or talked to him for 3 years. but he lives 2 houses over from me. =/ i recently started high school, and he takes the same bus as me to school every day, and i see him often in the halls. i really like him again and i have no problem talking to him, but i want to tell him that i still care, and that i'm still here. please help because i have no idea how to bring that convo. about because idk how he feels. =/ (link)
well sweetie i think yu shuld just try talking to him and before yu do take all the love quotes outta yur profile =-] but tell him whats up any more ?'s yu kno where to find me
luv ya


heyy .. i like this guy alot , buhh how do u know if there just tryin to get shyt frum and use u? some of themm seem like they want a realtionship to0 buhh they juss all confusing.. i dunt kno! andd how do u kno if they want a commitmentt? [ i kno most dont buhh?! ]* ill ratee ya xo (link)
most guys want sumthing n not a commitment but then again some are different just tell the dude how yu feel and ask him about commitment maybe he'll understand ya kno ? or get it outta his friends hope i helped
-steffy


ok..my friends that I sit with at lunch I'm starting not to like..I was invited to sit with my best friend Amanda and her friends..but like I'm really good friends with some of them..like theres about 16 people there and I'm close with like 8 of them so that would be ok but I dunno how to break it to my other friends and I'm scared that I'm not gonna fit in that much at the new table..there all saying yeah I want you to sit with us and stuff but I dont wanna be like an intruder..what should I do? -rate high-

K e l l e y (link)
try it out!! duh just see how it is yur friends wont get madd just balance the two tables out sit w/ one on day an another the next; who yu sit w/ at luch aint a big deal
steffy


I hate going to work with my boss. She makes me feel SO ignorant! Whenever I do one little thing wrong she raises her voice at me in front of customers and pushes me out of the way to show me how to do things right. One time I got this customer's order wrong because she (the boss) and the customer were talking to me at the same time so I thought the customer told me she wanted the 3 cookies instead of a medium drink. After I finished the order and she paid I asked her what cookies she wanted and she said she wanted the drink instead. So then the boss looks over at me and rolls her eyes and was like "What happened?" So I told her and then she started yelling and everything.

Sorry that was so long! But anyway I really like where I work and I don't want to get another job but then again, I hate feeling so low about myself like I can't do anything right. I don't like confronting people either. ESPECIALLY my boss. So what should I do?

Thanks, and I rate! (link)
tell yur boss whats up noone should feel like that dont take her so seriously she prolly just feels low about herself anyways make sure not to take her seriously !!!
-steffy


i recently moved to boston. i have a dad who only goes by what he hears, a mom who dont care, and a step-mom who fusses about every little thing. let alone a half bro who is fixing to go into the marines, a step-sister who feels she needs talk to her boyfriend 24-7, a little brother who has his frequent bad times and 2 other siblings, a step brother and step sister who has issues of thier own. I dont want to live in the world of hatred i have had toward my family. i cant get to any of them. and i live with 4 of them. i cant make any of them see that i have feelings as well and that i have a life to live. i need help before i do something stupidly stupid.

signed:dont care anymore.

ps-i rate well (link)
the first thing is to kno yur not alone there plenty of people w/ the same problem n yu need to talk to them work it out togethey ya kno please dont do nething stupid there no need turn to some friends or chanel yur anger to something productive try talkin to the person yu feel most close to in the family hope i helped
- steffy


ok, ium going to try to make this short. I like this guy.. lets call him "bob" Well BOB and i have known eachother for about one month and a 1/2, i know its not that long but theres something in him that just makes me.. all.. you know... happy or w/e. Well i was starting to really like him until one of his friends told me that he was all up on this other chic and i got so jealous but i kept it in (im very good at that) WELL anyways i asked him about it and he was like "wth, she's justa friend.. Who told you?" so i told him and he was pissed.. then i told my other friend and she said that the guy that told me that about "BOB" was a liar (sorry this is getting insanely long) So Should i believe "bob" or his friend? (by the way his friend wants to get wit me but he's the last thing on my mind)

-Confused
PS i rate high.. and sorry it was so long (link)
well seeing as his friend wants to get w/ yu i would belive 'bob' because bob has no idea yu like him right? or somthing n his friend is prolly tryna mess things up w/ yu n 'bob' so he can get some hope this helps
-steffy


ok my friend just ran away but like he told me not to tell any1 and i kno where he is but only me and this chik..(whos house hes at) kno's... and i dont want the cops out lookin 4 him cz he cussed out his grandma and ran away...(agner management problems)...plz help what do i do do i tell my ex..soon to be boyfriend (his bro)?? (link)
i think yu shuld talk to the chick whose house hes at cause then she can talk to him n tell him he should go home or talk to his bro dont let nyone else in on yur lil secret it might make him mad n make matters worse just try talkin to him or the girl he cant live at her house for ever rightt?
-steffy


In Jojo's video , ( leave ) , she has this really nice hairstyle . I can't figure out what it is called ( i want to ask the hairdresser to cut it like that for me ) . it seems layered , but only at the bottom . can anyone tell me what her hairstyle is called ? (link)
i'm not sure of jojo's hairstyle but when yu go to the hairdresser jsut bring a pic of that hairstyle on jojo n then ask her to make yur hair cutl ike that o0k?
steffyy




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