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ok i like this boy adam, and i think he likes me too but im not sure. i ask him who he likes and he won't tell me. but its a sticky situation because one of my best friends likes him too, thats how i got to know adam. she wanted me to hook them up, and then i fell for him. i cant tell her i like him because i dont want to hurt her. she wont get mad, shes not like that, but she wll be hurt. so my question is, how do i find out if he likes me, and should i tell my friend or should i just move on from him?
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HEY!!!
Well if your worried about your friend being mad just do this ...! TELL HER TO TELL YOU WHO SHE LIKES AND THAT YOU WILL TELL HER AND IF SHE SAYS THE GUY YOU LIKE THEN JUST SAY SOMEONE ELSE BUT IF SHE SAYS ANOTHER GUY TELL HER THAT YOU LIKE THIS GUY...! but dont ask the guy first b.c he might like you and if he dose and you kno your friend likes him he might ask you out and that would be kinda difficult b.c you would be between them... okay!!!!!!
hope i help.. dont be shy write me and tell me how everything worked out i would really like to kno!! talk to ya lata
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Maybe you could ask his friends or something who he likes, or you can flirt with him and see if he flirts back or something to find out if he likes you. If he doesn't like you like that, then you don't have to bother about telling your friend because you guys won't go out. But if he does like you too, and you have to end up telling your friend, make sure she doesn't like him anymore first, so she won't get hurt. Hope that helped =)
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let your friend and the boy cool down first. make sure she doesnt lik ehim any more. and to find out if he likes you, just tell start flirting with him but not around your friend that like shim. eventually she'll stop liking himand itll be straight for you 2 to date
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you should definatly tell your friend.It may hurt her but i think she'll be happier you were honest with her.I mean so if he likes one of you you can be happy for each other, or if he doesnt like either of you like that you can both be unhappy together.I dont mean to sound mean when i said that but like if you both get dissapointed you have each other to lean on.Maybe ask one of his friends who he lieks or ask him and say that i was wondering who you liked because i know someone who does.so that way you can pretend your asking for a friend.Hope i helped and good luck.
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well the best thing would be to moveo n but yu cant stop love so if ya cant do that tell yur friend yu've tried not to like him and that yu jsut cant help yurself and if he likes yu and not her then owell cuase that was his desicion ya knoo
anymore ?'s just ask to find out if he likes yu just ask him but be subtle about it dont scare him away or get another firend yu trust to ask; better yet ask onna his friendss
-steffy
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Well, first before you deal with thing conerning yor friend you should find out how this guy likes you. You could say it flat out and be like "so do you like me or not because I need to figure things out with my friend if you do..." Or you could ask him if he wants to come over and study or something (if he says yes then you know that he is interested and then you could nicely bring the subject and explain to him how you feel about him and your friend and everything) if he says no then he probably isn't interested, but try one more time. Ask if he wants to go out to eat like something quick or get coffee or something. (Same thing applys as when he were to come over to study) Then, if it ends up you both like each other and want to pursue things you THEN need to tell your friend. Don't tell her before hand because it will jsut create drama and hurt her when she doesn't need to be hurt. But, DO TELL HER THAT YOU INVITED HIM OVER TO STUDY OR EAT OR w/e so that she kind of has a heads up. Then, ask her how she feels and explain that you don't want to hurt her and if she thinks it will be too painful then maybe this isn't the best time for you and this guy right now. Just be honest with her. :)
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