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Well, im 15 i have brown/blonde curly hair. I love giving people advice, i also like getting advice. So if you have any questions just ask!
Website: JeSSiiHaLL
E-mail: getto_smurf_4u@msn.com
Gender: Female
Location: Washington
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Age: 14
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Member Since: August 5, 2004
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Okay. Me and my best friend(male) have been best friends for two years. I've liked him on and off for the past two years as well. He's a very wonderful person and eveytime I tell him how I really feel about him, he tells me the same old story until recently he said I got him thinkin. But the problem is is that I hooked him up with my friend, I have a BIG JEALOUSY issue. And I hate to be around them when their together and everything because I would give the world to be with him and he knows it... but also, there's this other guy I like, but he's really really shy and he knows I like him but it seems like he dosen't have anything to say when I talk to him, but he likes me too, but now I am kinda trapped between the both of them. What should I do to get to my crush???? (link)
HEY!!

well you kno what that shy guy might be extreamly scard and not know what to say you should bring up things like how you hate/like school... forget about the other guy i mean if he is goin out with your friend and then dumps her and gose to you it seems like your kinda a fall back gurl.. hope i helped


if somebody twisted your wrist very hard can it break?? (link)
probley not it would hurt really bad tho...


okay there is this guy who is in my class and lately he has been hitting me and tapping my shoulder and stuff ...he is a great guy!! people were like ohh my god get a room and stop flirting you 2!! how do i know if he really loves me?? what should i do?? (link)
HEY!!

If the guy you are talking about is superman he probley dosent LOVE you but if you like him do i back in a playful manner..!!!!!!


I met this guy I really like at a football game this past Friday.. Well.. he called me Sunday and asked me out. Since he asked me out.. we talk on the phone for HOURS at a time. I mean like 3 and 4 hours for each call.
Im really starting to like him ALOT! Is it possible to fall in love with someone u barely know? (link)
HEY!

well its hard to say but you know your young and theres probley someone else out there for you not to be rude!! but you never really kno he could be!!!


im 15. in year 11. there's this boy. i REALLY like him, but i don't think he even knows i exist. whenever im around him i can't even speak to him, i juts get all embarrassed. i really want him to at least acknowledge my existance, but i don't know how! like i said, i can't even speak in front of him! any advice? i really need help! (link)
HEY!!

well that happens to the best of us!!! i hate talkin to guys b.c im afraid i will say the wrong thing... but what i do is when im walking down the hall and i see him i either wave or say hi or maybe just a nice smile!! or if i see some one talking to him that i know, i go over there and stand with them and maybe sometimes add to the convostaion like a "i Know" or "thats soo funny " you should try it!.. you can get over being shy just be creative!!!!! hope i helped


i cant find any eyeliner that will stay on after 3rd period!! can anyone tell me any brands or how to make what ive got stay on? (link)
hey!

hmm well i use hotiley it lasts me all 6 periods and i dont even have to put it on dark its $3.00 it rolls up and works SOOOOOOOOOOO good so you should try it!!!!!


What is the right way to tell someone that you dont like them? (link)
you could say your not the right person for me.... you could say hey, your a great friend and i dont want to ruin that!!.... Just try dont to be rude thats the worst!!


k well i play feild hockey, and during the game one of our team members went missing...we were looking several hours after the game. know one knows wheere she went. we were both playing on the feild and then it was half time and she was gone. her father was there and didnt know where she went either. one moment she was on the feild then she was gone? im really scared and nervouse for her.....wht do i do! (link)
hey

what a scary experence but all you really can do is talk to her dad and maybe go everywhere she might be you never kno she could just be at a friends house and had to leave and her dad forgot .... hope i helped


okay this is my first year at a public school and sence the first day i have noticed there is this really pretty guy there that i have been wanting to talk to but never have come to find out hes one of my friends cousins and they came over to my friends house last weekend and me and him got to meet we all just hung out for a while the next day him and his friends came back over to my friends house again and me and him were cudaling and stuff later that nite we made out from what i have heard from about 2 people he has a girlfriend but he hasn't said anything to me about it yet so i really dont know what to do because he told me i should go to my friends house this friday so me and him can hang out i mean i really like this guy so should i just stop flirting w/ him sence people have told me they "THINK" he has a girlfriend or what please help i rate well! (link)
hey

hmm well you dont know for sure you should just ask him if he has a gurl friend.. and if you dont want to ask him just keep likeing him until you hear it from him or you see her!!! hope i helped


well theres this boy i liked scence last year and i told him straight up and know hes been flirting and punching me in my arm like i use to did when i liked him hes probbly returning the favor but i catch him looking juss staring at me and he always says somthing to me like last year he was all flirting with me and he was like he gonna miss me and he wanted a hug and a pic of me but i was mad at him b/c he waisted my last picture on the floor and i wanted a pic of me and him only :) so i juss gave him a hug before we left for summer then i was mad b/c i didnt give him a real hug and i didnt see em on the last day :(( does he like me or what (link)
Hey

well its really hard to tell if a guy likes you there imposible.. he shouldent be mad that probley his way of flirting to....


ok i know this is a question alot of people ask..but i like this guy..like alot and we're good friends and we talk sometimes..i guess? i wanna tell him i like him but i can't..cuz im too shy..and he doesn't have a screen name..Ah..so are there any ways to show him i like him..without ya know..atchually saying it directly..alomst like flirting? Thanks! (link)
HEYY!!!

This may sound weird but no there is not way really to i mean guys really dont like shy gurls so not to sound mean but just go for it i mean it may sound weird but if your really that sacared FLIRT ALOT haha guys tend to kno when you flirt with them hehe!!

hope i help.. dont be shy write me and tell me how everything worked even if you dident like my advice out i would really like to kno!! talk to ya lata
JeSSiiKa____


theres this guy that i have a major crush on, and i've known him forever (since i was 4) and we went out when i was 9 and he was 10, but then when i turned 10 me and him got into a silly argument and i broke up with him. after that i haden't seen him or talked to him for 3 years. but he lives 2 houses over from me. =/ i recently started high school, and he takes the same bus as me to school every day, and i see him often in the halls. i really like him again and i have no problem talking to him, but i want to tell him that i still care, and that i'm still here. please help because i have no idea how to bring that convo. about because idk how he feels. =/ (link)
HEY!!!

LOL read all of these other peoples anwsers lol they are sayin " Go up to him and tell him you like him still " well in case they dident kno its really hard to just walk up to some one and start a convostation!! so what you need to do is to sit by him on the bus and say like " long time no talk " or make something up like "omg ___________" ya kno??

hope i help.. dont be shy write me and tell me how everything worked even if you dident like my advice out i would really like to kno!! talk to ya lata
JeSSiiKa____


ok i like this boy adam, and i think he likes me too but im not sure. i ask him who he likes and he won't tell me. but its a sticky situation because one of my best friends likes him too, thats how i got to know adam. she wanted me to hook them up, and then i fell for him. i cant tell her i like him because i dont want to hurt her. she wont get mad, shes not like that, but she wll be hurt. so my question is, how do i find out if he likes me, and should i tell my friend or should i just move on from him? (link)
HEY!!!

Well if your worried about your friend being mad just do this ...! TELL HER TO TELL YOU WHO SHE LIKES AND THAT YOU WILL TELL HER AND IF SHE SAYS THE GUY YOU LIKE THEN JUST SAY SOMEONE ELSE BUT IF SHE SAYS ANOTHER GUY TELL HER THAT YOU LIKE THIS GUY...! but dont ask the guy first b.c he might like you and if he dose and you kno your friend likes him he might ask you out and that would be kinda difficult b.c you would be between them... okay!!!!!!

hope i help.. dont be shy write me and tell me how everything worked out i would really like to kno!! talk to ya lata
JeSSiiKa____



Ok hi well there r these 4 guys i really like and all of them like me back i just dont know which one i shud choose. The first guy lets say his name is ray, i met over the summer and we really clicked. WE both really really like eachother but he lives 4 hours away. The second guy, well say his name is sam, lives ten minutes away and is really hot and would do nething for me and loves me so much but he sleeps around so i dunno how long it wud last. The 3rd guy i really like and he likes me back and we r really close friends but he wont make a move! The forth guy just moved here and lives three houses down from me and is now goin out w/ my friend cuz my other friends pressured him into it but he dusnt even like her he likes me and i like him back. I really wanna choose one of them but i cant decide so please help me!!!!!! (link)
HEY!!!

wow for guys whooo hoo lol ne ways lets see

the frist guy lives to far away so dont got out with him its no use

the second guy sounds like a playa and ya kno all he probley wants is your body hun so dont go out with him

The third guy sounds extreamly nice b.c he wont make a move and he sounds like he just wants to wait witch is VERY good in a guy

and the Forth guy cant stand up for him self by not saying he dosent want to got out with that other gurl...

hope i help.. dont be shy write me and tell me how everything worked out i would really like to kno!! talk to ya lata
JeSSiiKa____


ok last year i was very deressed but i never told anyone. i got over it. now im depressed again. this is serious though because i know that i can control it, but it hurts me inside. i think of killing people (no, i will never do this!!) but it wont stop. i will never kill someone, but i keep on thinking of it. my family cant afford a physcologist or anything. we are going through a tough time right now with money. i get depressed whenever i go online a lot and other tough things happen, and i just feel depressed like this at different points during the day. i want to help myself get over this. i know i can do it. please help me! (link)
HEY!!!

i dont kno how you feel but my sister is all ways depressed..i live in a one parent house hold (( witch means my mom is the only adult lol )) so we cant afford at physcologist either there would be times that my sister would want to stab me with a knife or hit me.... she has gotten over it by time depprssion only gets better in your head you cant fix it anyother way i kno its dumb.. i mean there are pills for it but it costs WAY to much!! well there are things you can do to make you feel better like talking to someonen or writeing your thoughts down.. try it** if you ever feel bad and you want to let your thoughts out on someone who will listen IM me on aim if you have it Danceshorty232

hope i help.. dont be shy write me and tell me how everything worked out i would really like to kno!! talk to ya lata


ok well a while back my "best friend" went behind my back and we weren't friends nemore well now we r again but we arent best buds again but we're still rlly good friends and we even made a pact to never fight over guys!! and now i like a guy that she likes and she said if i triy to git w/ne guy that she doesnt even know but thinks is hot or likes that she wont be my friend nemore and i told her 2 remember the pact n shes like w/e and so now i liek this guy that she likes and i dont know what to do? she is makin me soo mad and all over dudes 2! what do u think? (link)
HEY!!!

well dont forget your makein the pact worse to by liken the guy just for get about him if its really gonna hurt your relashionship...its a guy you know how guys say
*bros before hoes* you kno it should be the same for gurls but rearanged haha ya kno


hope i help.. dont be shy write me and tell me how everything worked out i would really like to kno!! talk to ya lata


theres this guy i like.. we tlk like were goin out like baby .. u kno? well he kinda has a rep like tha kinda guy that uses grls i guess? i kno he hasnt had a gf in alongggg time cuz he doesnt ask a grl unless he rele wants to b with em.. other than that he juss has hook ups.. he seid he was goin ask me out buh i dont kno what ot think.. will he play me or will he actually commit? .. i asked him if he juss wanted to come to have sex with me.. cuz i kno he trys to buhh i never do anything with him cuz i dont want him to see me as a ho cuz im not! and tha only way id do anything with him is if im his gf .. andd i told him that buh i guess now hes thinkin im not interested in him at all cuz of it.. i dunt know! (link)
HEY!!!

wow!! hehe well dont go out with him if hes easy like i told some one before * GUYS ARE JUST HORNEY* they dont really love you they love your body.. just think about it.. i dont like to see ppl get hurt but go out with him and if he dumps you for not doing "stuff" then you wont get a bad name like hoe or something OKAY!! just try it!**

hope i help.. dont be shy write me and tell me how everything worked out i would really like to kno!! talk to ya lata


well i have a problem.. i like this guy alot.. like so0 much.. hes really str8 to chill with and weve chilled alot buhh i dont know.. he likes me buhh he wants to do shit with me b4 we go out.. he thinks i will cuz i did things with these 2 guys this summer which was jus a hook up and having fun..buhh as for me and him.. i dont wanna do anything with him yet* or until we go out cuz i dont want him to see me as a grl to take advange of..and juss a hook up.. i want him to see me as a gf.. and he knos im not a ho so wats rong? i dont kno if its like he needs to try me out to see wat hes gettin or rele want to b with mee.. does this make sense to any of youu..?! (link)
WHOA... ONE THING TO REMEMBER...* most guess are horney hehe * dont got out with him just b.c you think he likes you but really he just wants your body and stuff so dont give in i kno its hard at least wait until you guys go out for awhile...


hope i help.. dont be shy write me and tell me how everything worked out i would really like to kno!! talk to ya lata


I just saw that movie How to Deal with mandy moor. and i have a qestion. i dont spend time with my family that much because. im never around i always on the go. and only 13. what can i do to stay away but see them?>
cuz when im around things get little diffficult.

---Manda LEe-- (link)
HEY!!

well i have the same problem but i HATE my sister and my mom is weird lol.. but i still love them so what i do is when ever i get back from doing some thing i just talk to them about what i did then do what eva!! but i dont have to be with them 24/7 i mean ya gotta let go some time!!

hope i help.. dont be shy write me and tell me how everything worked out i would really like to kno!! talk to ya lata


i know this is not a good question but i wanna go to my friend but her mom always says no im a girl and im 13 (link)
hey!!

Well i think her mom is dumb for saying that so what if your 13 do what ever you want plus she has no say over you!!! hope i help





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