Question Posted Thursday September 23 2004, 2:59 pm
im 15. in year 11. there's this boy. i REALLY like him, but i don't think he even knows i exist. whenever im around him i can't even speak to him, i juts get all embarrassed. i really want him to at least acknowledge my existance, but i don't know how! like i said, i can't even speak in front of him! any advice? i really need help!
AngelaMarie824 answered Thursday September 23 2004, 4:09 pm: awww !! sweetie, I get the same way.. but I'm weird and I act really crazy when I get "shy" I'm just strange lol.. but, the reason u get shy is cuz u really like him! and u don't wanna embarrass urself by sayin something stupid.. I think u should talk to him on the phone so u don't get toooo shy and tell him. Tell him u're actually really outgoing.. and once u know him more, u'll get comfortable and open up more! Just apologize for bein so quiet, and plan another date! It'll be fun if u get into ur skin just right around him. Don't worry so much about wat he thinks of u, cuz that'll make u nervous.. Take a deep breath and just be who u r, everything will be fine. Count on it :-)
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JeSSiiHaLL answered Thursday September 23 2004, 3:43 pm: HEY!!
well that happens to the best of us!!! i hate talkin to guys b.c im afraid i will say the wrong thing... but what i do is when im walking down the hall and i see him i either wave or say hi or maybe just a nice smile!! or if i see some one talking to him that i know, i go over there and stand with them and maybe sometimes add to the convostaion like a "i Know" or "thats soo funny " you should try it!.. you can get over being shy just be creative!!!!! hope i helped [ JeSSiiHaLL's advice column | Ask JeSSiiHaLL A Question ]
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