Question Posted Thursday September 23 2004, 3:23 pm
I met this guy I really like at a football game this past Friday.. Well.. he called me Sunday and asked me out. Since he asked me out.. we talk on the phone for HOURS at a time. I mean like 3 and 4 hours for each call.
Im really starting to like him ALOT! Is it possible to fall in love with someone u barely know?
Randomduck641 answered Thursday September 23 2004, 5:08 pm: Have you ever heard of love at first sight?
A lot of people say it never happens.. but i beg to differ.. It's happened before.. So yes.. I'd say it is possible to fall in love with someone you barely know.. but I'd get to know them more before you confessed your un dying love for them [ Randomduck641's advice column | Ask Randomduck641 A Question ]
Mercy_x_Me answered Thursday September 23 2004, 4:53 pm: when your young/ (or) a teen, its hard to really fall in love b/c you dont know exactly what its like. Its possible you have a major crush type of thing on this guy, but love is a very strong word, that people overuse. Its more of i want to marry or be engaged with you, see what i mean?? I think you LIKE him a whole lot, just not love, and not b/c its you, its just the way teens are. If your a lot older, then maybe [ Mercy_x_Me's advice column | Ask Mercy_x_Me A Question ]
AskMegan answered Thursday September 23 2004, 4:08 pm: Yes, it's possible. It depends on your feelings for the person.
Don't take this the wrong way, but it may just be a 'highschool relationship' but, you never know.
It depends on if you could actually see yourself with this guy for the rest of your life. You cannot be sure it is love yet-wait it out. Get to know him better, and see how he really is when he opens up to you.
Example, he might just be acting a certian way right now, to get you to like him. When you know him better, certian things he can't hold back will spill out. He'll become who he really is, and you may not like that.
I don't think you actually love him, it's probably just a crush. Just get to know this guy better, and maybe when you're a little older, you'll truly understand if it's love-or lust. [ AskMegan's advice column | Ask AskMegan A Question ]
AngelaMarie824 answered Thursday September 23 2004, 4:06 pm: yeah... i kno I have... but im just gonna tell u this.... I did it ONCE... after a couple of weeks the guys stopped calling me. And then he started ignoring me. he jus said there was nothin to talk about. I loved him... i really did with all my heart. but i dunno. Now im not really open with people I hardly know. and it hurts that he did that too me cause its hard now to talk to guys n stuff without acting a little "weird"...
So the answer to ur question is Yes u can fall in love with someone u barely know. But its like this... boys are the roses, jus watch out for the pricks!
If u have anymore questions im me *craviinkiisses8*
MFS answered Thursday September 23 2004, 4:00 pm: yes, but not likely...
you are probably just experiencing the excitement of a new relationship - and lots of infatuation.
Mind you, that's perfectly normal and perfectly healthy. You're just going with the flow and this is how you learn. [ MFS's advice column | Ask MFS A Question ]
Xo_Bri_Babyy_oX answered Thursday September 23 2004, 3:58 pm: Well i know how parents are always saying..."you dont know what love is..you are too young?"..i think that statement is completely wrong..Everyone has feelings and if yours are strong enough than no 1 can tell you it isnt possible. Maybe sometimes you think you are in love, but what it is is just a really big crush that u are hoping will take a step farther. All i am saying is that it is possible, but only YOU know what you are feeling.
sweetbabigurl answered Thursday September 23 2004, 3:54 pm: it is possible i think but dont think your in love already. just go out with him see how things work out, and after you've been together a while THEN call it love. hope i helped babe! xox [ sweetbabigurl's advice column | Ask sweetbabigurl A Question ]
JeSSiiHaLL answered Thursday September 23 2004, 3:44 pm: HEY!
well its hard to say but you know your young and theres probley someone else out there for you not to be rude!! but you never really kno he could be!!! [ JeSSiiHaLL's advice column | Ask JeSSiiHaLL A Question ]
LoViny0ux914 answered Thursday September 23 2004, 3:44 pm: It's probably just a very very big crush right now, but you could end up falling in love!! I don't think you're "in love" with him, but you might love him! Trust me there's a very big difference!!! [ LoViny0ux914's advice column | Ask LoViny0ux914 A Question ]
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