Heyy my name is Brianna and i am 14 years old. I have blonde/brown hair, blue eyes, and i am about 5'5. I love hanging out with my friends, chatting online, and playing sports! :-)..so many people come to me with problems that i dont know how to answer so i figured this would be a good way to answer peoples questions..If u have a question for me just holler! ;-)
(( Bri*Babyy ))
Gender: Female
Occupation: Softball and Volleyball
Age: 14
Member Since: September 23, 2004
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alright, so i'll try and make this short as possible. there is this really hot guy at me school. i'm in 9th he's in 10th, so its not totally impossible that we go out. the thing is is that we dont' have any classes or anything together. i see him during lunch and in the library before school, and his cousin/friend has his locker right by mine, so i see him sometimes then too. and we've never talked or anything, but i really really want to get to know him! but my friend who knows him says hes shy, so that leaves me to make the first move .. problem, i don't know what to say! i DO NOT just want to barge up to him saying 'hi, i like you, etc' gosh, can someone help me?
-despretley in need of help. (link)
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The first thing you have to do is when you go up to him, dont say anything to scare him off. What you need to do is go up to him..introduce yourself and just get to know him a little. Once he knows your name and a little bit about you that will help break the ice. The hardest thing is finding what to say. Just keep it cool and talk to him like he is someone you already know, but still being careful of what you say. Good luck!!
..:: Bri*Babyy ::..
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hey well i juss met this person and we've been talking for a couple days. but i feel like i have so much in common with this person. i feel like i might love this person. but one thing the person is dating someone. and i dont know what to do. do i shut down my feelings or do i tell the person? help me ! (link)
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Well, no matter how much you try you cant stop your feelings. If you think you are in LOVE with this person you are going to have to wait a little while...or tell them how u feel. It may not make a difference rite now but it will help in the future. You just have to take in consideration that this might be a cush and not love..you will have to know your true feelings before you take another step. Hope it turns out well!
..:: Bri*Babyy ::..
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One of my best friend's ex's keeps calling me "beautiful" and "wicked hott" and stuff
he broke my friends heart but i think she's ova it, she says she only likes him a lil bit now, and he wanted me 2 call him today, so i did, and we talked, but i;m not sure what to do with this situation
thnx a million (link)
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ok well i might be able to help you. What you need to find out first is how much your friend really still likes him. Another thing you have to find out is if you like him. Im sure that if she is your friend she wont have a problem with her ex liking you, especially if she is over him. You just need to be able to talk to each of them...and if you like him and he likes you..go for it! If you dont like him at all though, just tell him how u feel, that its ok for him to like you but you have to let him know if you dont like him back...GOOD LUCK!
..:: Bri*Babyy ::..
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I went out with this guy for 9 months, and I was in love. His family had to move so we broke up:( It was really hard but now were good friends and we talk on the phone and on IM. When we were going out, he was really over protective of me and he always kept me safe and all. Now that its over, I flirt with guys a lot and my "friend" told him that. Hes soooo mad at me and I dont know why. He shouldent even be mad because its over!! I just wanna tell him to shut up..but I wont..so what do I say to make him understand that were not going out and he doesnt have to be over protective and all? He even has a gurl-friend and he doesnt see me getting all mad..ugh!! (link)
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I think you just kind of answered that one yourself. You are right. Just tell him he has moved on and you would like to move on. Maybe he is just being protective of you in a "friend" kind of way. Tell him in a nice way that there is no reason that he can have a girlfriend and you cant flirt with guys.I think he is just afraid to lose you again like he already did the first time. Since you cant see into his thoughts, you are just going to have to talk to him about it. GOOD LUCK!
..::Bri*Babyy::..
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If someone is really nice 2 u n loves cuddling even though ur not going out and u have a boyfriend and now ur going outwith this person should you stay with him? (link)
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Everyone has a different point of view...The way I see it is..If you have a boyfriend already you shouldnt leave him for someone else. If you decide to leave your old boyfriend..you have to have a reason. If you have stronger feelings for this new person then you shouldnt hide it from anyone. You should tell him how you feel and then decide who is most likely to be with you and will listen to you the best. When you decide, he should be the keeper :-)
..:: Bri*Babyy ::..
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I met this guy I really like at a football game this past Friday.. Well.. he called me Sunday and asked me out. Since he asked me out.. we talk on the phone for HOURS at a time. I mean like 3 and 4 hours for each call.
Im really starting to like him ALOT! Is it possible to fall in love with someone u barely know? (link)
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Well i know how parents are always saying..."you dont know what love is..you are too young?"..i think that statement is completely wrong..Everyone has feelings and if yours are strong enough than no 1 can tell you it isnt possible. Maybe sometimes you think you are in love, but what it is is just a really big crush that u are hoping will take a step farther. All i am saying is that it is possible, but only YOU know what you are feeling.
..:: Bri*Babyy ::..
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