Question Posted Thursday September 23 2004, 10:57 pm
alright, so i'll try and make this short as possible. there is this really hot guy at me school. i'm in 9th he's in 10th, so its not totally impossible that we go out. the thing is is that we dont' have any classes or anything together. i see him during lunch and in the library before school, and his cousin/friend has his locker right by mine, so i see him sometimes then too. and we've never talked or anything, but i really really want to get to know him! but my friend who knows him says hes shy, so that leaves me to make the first move .. problem, i don't know what to say! i DO NOT just want to barge up to him saying 'hi, i like you, etc' gosh, can someone help me?
-despretley in need of help.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Xo_Bri_Babyy_oX answered Friday September 24 2004, 2:43 pm: The first thing you have to do is when you go up to him, dont say anything to scare him off. What you need to do is go up to him..introduce yourself and just get to know him a little. Once he knows your name and a little bit about you that will help break the ice. The hardest thing is finding what to say. Just keep it cool and talk to him like he is someone you already know, but still being careful of what you say. Good luck!!
UnluckyWishes answered Friday September 24 2004, 8:21 am: Maybe you could ask him to do something over the weekend with you.And if you think you might come out weird or something bring a coulpe friends to help with the conversation.Hope i helped. [ UnluckyWishes's advice column | Ask UnluckyWishes A Question ]
Kcanhelpu answered Friday September 24 2004, 12:32 am: You should make a conversation with his cusin be lilke hey Isn't it wierd we have our lockers right next to each other. If that doesn't work try to say something to his cusin then invite him and his cusin to the movies mabee your friend could go out with his cusin.
Hope I 've helped love K [ Kcanhelpu's advice column | Ask Kcanhelpu A Question ]
yellowcardluver08 answered Thursday September 23 2004, 11:31 pm: This may seem stupid but here it goes. Get your friend to get his screen name and start to IM him. If you do this its easier for both of you to talk. once you are comfortable talking to him on the net its easier in person. I promise. Hey the internet can actually do something for you other than your homework now and then can't it?
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MissEmmyBoo answered Thursday September 23 2004, 11:21 pm: well maybe haha you should do a lil trick. go up to him and "accidentally" drop ur books & be like hey can u git that? and then be like oh hi im [ur name] whats up? :) hope it works out 4 u!! [ MissEmmyBoo's advice column | Ask MissEmmyBoo A Question ]
missing-identity-seeker answered Thursday September 23 2004, 11:16 pm: TO: despretley in need of help
i sooooo have this problem too..the thing is that the guy is in two of my classes buh A) hes a senior and B) he's a frend of my sister's and that pretty much means hands off...so heres wat i think...try and get him to notice you...then say hi or summin wenebe you see him...o and make frends with his frend/cousin so that you hab eben more reason to talk to him..ya noe? [ missing-identity-seeker's advice column | Ask missing-identity-seeker A Question ]
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